Maybe you want to try a time lock, or find a girl who shares your preference. Wearing a cage is a perfectly valid sexual choice, but I personally don't see parents as the right partners for that. Good luck!

Harry I’d suggest firstly begin wearing one on your own, make sure the results are as you expect and that you can handle this.
From there start with a time lock and explore lock times, again seeing what works for your goals.
And if you really want them to hold the keys just say it, no real way around it or to bring it up gently.
As a side note, since you’re living at home why not express your desire for discipline now? Possibly living under rules similar to a teens, it’s been a big help for me personally. I didn’t have it growing up and it’s been a big help getting it now in my journey to become a better adult.

    Harry I mean if it’s what you really want not many other options.
    But before you do that make sure you seriously think about the other points I mentioned. And if you don’t mind me saying it, it sounds like you grew up rather undisciplined maybe consider asking for that guidance and restrictions now as a condition of staying in their home

      Harry You mentioned you didn’t have it growing up. If you feel it’s something that will help in your life, and make your future success better then yes it may be worth asking for

        Harry Well you know what you need/want better than I do. Might be helpful reading my content and getting an idea how I live Let us know what you decide

          Harry Mines pretty simple as the chastity goes. Gear stays on 24/7. I get one break a month if my grades are above a B average. And I’m required to inform mom of any cheating attempts. Showers are timed as well to prevent cheating.
          This is also entirely consensual and I can end it after a cool down period. Or use the nuclear option to end it immediately if something goes very wrong
          My other restrictions, my siblings are 15 now, and I have the same rules they do.

              Harry I’ve been thinking about wearing a chastity cage and giving my parents the key

              They will laugh at you.

                Harry there's always need for friends, and in my opinion also for love. Still, congrats for achieving what was important to you!

                  Harry Happy you got what you wanted hope it works out the way you think it will

                    Renita If someone approached me about having their genitals locked away, my first thought would not be "this is a girly thing".

                        youdontknowme my first thought would not be "this is a girly thing".

                        It would be your second thought.

                          Harry

                          I just want to figure out a way to bring this up respectfully

                          Send the request by email, but change the signature line to "Respectfully, Harry."

                            Sasha My other restrictions, my siblings are 15 now, and I have the same rules they do.

                            i know some of your rules, but i don't think this statement is particularly meaningful. for example, if your siblings have no or very loose rules, it's not particularly strict for you either (just a side note from me)

                              @Sasha @Angelina makes a good point. It would be helpful for @Harry to have a more specific list of the restrictions that are applied to your siblings and, therefore, to you.

                                Tjc
                                We all have a curfew
                                Mom knows where we are
                                And certain content is age or time restricted.
                                I believe most would consider this reasonable restrictions for a child at that age, some freedom but with limits.
                                There are obviously household duties and rules but that’s not a restriction, normal for any home imo

                                  Harry Perhaps if you wish more structure and accountability and your parents have not been providing it, you may want to give your parents some suggestions of what you have in mind. The things that @sasha listed may be a good place to start.

                                    Harry I already have a cage and wore it multiple times And it’s been already two weeks, but I don’t have the courage to just ask my parents.

                                    How long have you worn it before agreeing to all that?