I really need some advice

Harry

I’ve been thinking about wearing a chastity cage and giving my parents the key. I’m 20, male, a student, and I still live with them. This is a personal decision that I believe would help me feel more disciplined and focused on my studies. To make it clear and organized, I found someone online who drafted a contract outlining the rules and expectations for everyone involved.

However, I’m nervous about how my parents will react. I’m not sure if they’ll understand why I want to do this or if they’ll think it’s strange. Since I still live with them, I’m worried it might create tension or make them see me differently. I just want to figure out a way to bring this up respectfully and see if they might consider it

And I saw a lot of people here a lot, so maybe you can give me ideas on how to do it.

Renita

Harry I’ve been thinking about wearing a chastity cage and giving my parents the key

They will laugh at you.

WriterAlexis

Harry

I just want to figure out a way to bring this up respectfully

Send the request by email, but change the signature line to "Respectfully, Harry."

Damien

Maybe you want to try a time lock, or find a girl who shares your preference. Wearing a cage is a perfectly valid sexual choice, but I personally don't see parents as the right partners for that. Good luck!

Harry

Damien

I can totally understand what you mean. But the problem is that I’m not interested in having a relationship with a Somebody at all and I don’t have friends that would do it.

My parents were never strict at all, and they always wished that they were strict. Had friends that were not allowed to go out often or at all. And some of my friends even had to do all of the household chores.

My parents never made me do a lot of chores.
They are not strict. I personally think that I am just very undisciplined.

Harry

Damien
My parents said yes so there is no need for a friend anymore. Finallllly

Sasha

Harry I’d suggest firstly begin wearing one on your own, make sure the results are as you expect and that you can handle this.
From there start with a time lock and explore lock times, again seeing what works for your goals.
And if you really want them to hold the keys just say it, no real way around it or to bring it up gently.
As a side note, since you’re living at home why not express your desire for discipline now? Possibly living under rules similar to a teens, it’s been a big help for me personally. I didn’t have it growing up and it’s been a big help getting it now in my journey to become a better adult.

Harry

Sasha

I am so sorry. I wrote it kinda stupid up there.
I already have a cage and wore it multiple times And it’s been already two weeks, but I don’t have the courage to just ask my parents.

And the time thing would not work because I know that I would never use the time lock. I Thought of putting the key in my parents bedroom, so I cannot get it at night. But I never had the courage to do it.

So you think I should just go up to my parents straightforward and say that I want them to hold the key and this is the contract?

Sasha

Harry I mean if it’s what you really want not many other options.
But before you do that make sure you seriously think about the other points I mentioned. And if you don’t mind me saying it, it sounds like you grew up rather undisciplined maybe consider asking for that guidance and restrictions now as a condition of staying in their home

youdontknowme

Harry I already have a cage and wore it multiple times And it’s been already two weeks, but I don’t have the courage to just ask my parents.

How long have you worn it before agreeing to all that?

Harry

Sasha

It is really what I want. But I Did not know how to tell them. I think that you are right that I should go up straightforward and tell them.

Do you mean like telling them also that I want more guidance and restriction?

Sasha

Harry You mentioned you didn’t have it growing up. If you feel it’s something that will help in your life, and make your future success better then yes it may be worth asking for

Harry

Sasha

I will. But Like I already mentioned, I had somebody made me a contract and he wrote it in the contract So when they read the contract, they will realise it.

Sasha

Harry Well you know what you need/want better than I do. Might be helpful reading my content and getting an idea how I live Let us know what you decide

Harry

Sasha

I think I decided that I would tell them.
Do you have a contract that I can read?

Sasha

Harry Mines pretty simple as the chastity goes. Gear stays on 24/7. I get one break a month if my grades are above a B average. And I’m required to inform mom of any cheating attempts. Showers are timed as well to prevent cheating.
This is also entirely consensual and I can end it after a cool down period. Or use the nuclear option to end it immediately if something goes very wrong
My other restrictions, my siblings are 15 now, and I have the same rules they do.

Angelina

Sasha My other restrictions, my siblings are 15 now, and I have the same rules they do.

i know some of your rules, but i don't think this statement is particularly meaningful. for example, if your siblings have no or very loose rules, it's not particularly strict for you either (just a side note from me)

Harry

Renita

I just asked them if they would do it. They were shocked but said yes. They asked some questions but they will do it.
I told them i will give them the contract in the later and then i and they can sign it.
I did it. I cannot even belive myself that i just asked them

Renita

Harry They were shocked but said yes.

Didn't they tell you, that you were not a girl?

Damien

Harry there's always need for friends, and in my opinion also for love. Still, congrats for achieving what was important to you!

Sasha

Harry Happy you got what you wanted hope it works out the way you think it will

Harry

Damien

So today I will print out the contract and I will sign it and they will sign it.
I am so happy

Harry

Sasha
Damien

I hope it works exactly how i want.
I am currently adjusting the contract and i will open a new discussion for it to get some corrections and advices if needed.