milkymilo From an acespec perspective, I totally understand that bit. Nudity without context is not attractive or repulsive, it just is, and regular porn ranges from "why show me this" to "so what" to "this seems silly".

Personally do not relate to the sapiosexual term though since I find it frequently overused by people who want to communicate "I'm not shallow" - plus I personally prefer platonic relationships with the people I find intellectually attractive.

      youdontknowme fully agree with the labels. I am just me and what I am, I am not there to impress lol...jus be me. You are so correct so many of these terms are overused by people.

        milkymilo yes it is certainly worth a visit I hear from all the tourists that I get to meet.

        Why do guests come to you?
        I assume they won't be helping on the farm, but are on holiday. Are they coming to go hiking, or fishing, or mountain biking, or climbing, or just to do nothing? Or is it a good placed to do different sightseeing?

            milkymilo it is easier to accept and appreciate

            Three months of being locked out of a little but not insignificant part of your own body seems quite the challenge though. Do you want to describe your ups and downs? I imagine crisis and catharsis, in addition to acceptance and appreciation^

                milkymilo

                spectacular scenery here

                Does it look like hobbits live there?

                I'm totally jealous. Not about your belt, mind you. Just the setting.

                    Joh it's a holiday bed and breakfast set up. And yes hiking and fishing and hunting are big attractions here.

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                        WriterAlexis Not about your belt, mind you. Just the setting.

                        I mean, you had all the belted experience you could ask for. No need to be jealous of that 😛

                          milkymilo Hiking I Like but hunting and fishing is nothing for me.

                          Other question. Since you live on the farm how will you find a matching partner? From your experianc it could be avman or a women. Or Do you can rule out one?

                              Joh I am bisexual yes as it's who and what they are that matters as opposed to their body so gender is not really a concern.

                              There is a substantial town with a few social groups and clubs and also different events s through out the year

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                                  milkymilo I am bisexual yes as it's who and what they are that matters as opposed to their body so gender is not really a concern.

                                  This is great. So you have more posibilities in the end.

                                  milkymilo There is a substantial town with a few social groups and clubs and also different events s through out the year

                                  Do you go there regularly and has anyone caught your attention?

                                      milkymilo haha well not at that stage of needing it hard off yet but never know in time

                                      It means we have different temperaments 😂

                                      milkymilo and they met when she was in town again and started from there

                                      How did she tell him about her new "underwear"?

                                            what a nice conversation it's free from accusations and anger. Informative too, thanks to all.

                                            Damien many highs and not many lows other than the physical of adjusting to the belt and changing habbits

                                              Renita she told him about it when they were getting pretty interested in each other and after a few dates. She mentioned that she wanted to wait for marriage and he was thank fully respectful of that and did not pressure her in anyway

                                                  milkymilo She mentioned that she wanted to wait for marriage and he was thank fully respectful of that and did not pressure her in anyway

                                                  That's fine, but she also had to explain the belt. I doubt, that he didn't discover it instantly.

                                                      Renita yes she explained it and why when she was serious about him. He was a bit shocked as not all that common but other than that the idea obviously grew on him as he has continued her belting

                                                        milkymilo they met at school and were friends then. He was in the army for a few years and returned home

                                                        My guess was, since your cousin got her belt at 17, that he may have known about it from the time before army already. That surely would have made his later approach for dating less awkward. But if I got you right, he only learned about it later.

                                                            Marder no he wouldn't have known as she kept it as secret as possible especially in the early days and they were friends and not dating

                                                              milkymilo yes she is single, but she is not under their household so not under their rules so no reason why she would be in chastity.

                                                              She might be interested

                                                              milkymilo Otherwise by that logic every single female should be in chastity?

                                                              No, only those whose family is into it

                                                              Angelina I see you have understood @Laura's logic

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