Joh3 :
Hana If we continue
, I think, it will be better to creat your own thread.

My submissiveness - for me, it was also a quest for self-discovery of what I was missing... Or how to describe it. And then I discover, that I will be happy, if somebody take care for me - overseeing me, giving me limits,... I think you know what I'm talking about. And I guess I'm a little fetishistic too.

Do you have more than one Dom? it's a couple ,"head of house" is man
Is it a man or a women? as I mentioned
How Long have you been in the relation ship? I know them longer, but we started to dusciss this topic last year, and then I started by them by my 18.. I study hotel school (hotel, turism, administrative) and I was (of course I continue now but with "something additional..) by them for practice - theey own tourist accommodation with facilities around..

Welcome Hana. Your pic shows a Neosteel spaceless. What was your experience with measuring, delivery time and fit? What were the ergonomic challenges with this model on you - hips, thighs, pressure, chafing?

  • Hana replied to this.

    Damien Hi, yes I have Neosteel.. In that time when decided to order, it was 2-3months. ut we contacted Daniel directly. Order via internet can take longer. And depend how mach work they have of course. Current ituation I do not know. Of course it is important proper measurement and test and final adjustment of CB . The workmanship is good, no sharp edges or anything like that. Of course, it takes some getting used to and training to wear it. The CB is tight, you can feel it on your body but it shouldn't be painful.

    Laura the mail address looks like she goes by that name at least.

      So you went visit Neosteel twice, once for measuring and three months later for final adjustment? And now you the fit is so ergonomic on hips and crotch you can wear it almost full time? How many hours a week do you take it off? Thank you.

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        Damien Basically as you wrote. You have to start gradually and watch for any problems. After some training, long term wear is possible (with proper care and hygiene).. Of course is made from metal, so you can not expect same comfort like in cotton pantiesπŸ™‚, but i do not have any skin problems or painful, ... IUsually I have belt off usually only for meticulous hygiene or checks...

        Thank you for the general information about chastity belts, but I think there are very few beginners in this forum who need general information like it's made from metal. Do you want to share details about the personal challenges you face(d) in your training period, the psychological effects on you or the spots where the metal chafed or pinched you? what oils or band aids you use to help? discoloration of skin? special challenge of this very rigid model without a secondary shield? about the compromise between too tight over labia or not tight enough for protection? Did you have to adapt in sleep positions, some daily activity or sports? What is the agreement for length and/or supervision of your hygiene breaks? Is there regular time off without belt on? Any rules you agreed on?

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          Damien Yes, at first I was very shy, maybe even a little afraid. The first sensations of the tight solid metal and the inability to touch my private parts were limiting and humiliating. But as I wrote, I was quite tempted and probably even aroused in a way. I guess it deepened my submissiveness or devotion..
          The belt must fit snugly but must not be painful. The body, the skin has to get used to it, that's why the "training". It'll probably become a little more resistant in those places. A thorough and frequent shower is important. It's also good to use antipruritic ointments and similar products, calcium ointments,... (Bepanthen, Calcium pantothenicum,...) After wearing, after taking off, there are of course marks or blisters, but the skin must not be disturbed... It's like taking off a ring after a long time. It's most difficult in the area above hip bones. that's where it needs the most attention. But I did not have problems ..no damages of skin....lickily... The waist must be tight to the body and move with the body as if it were part of it, then there is no skin injury from friction. But yes, you have to get used to the tight pressure of the metal part.
          You are right Neosteel bejts are rigid, rigid solid material ,, can not be bended , you have to accept bit discinfort and it tooked some time too - until it was "normal" for my mind, for my body. For almos all models you can have long or short frontshield (long goes to waist,, short is fixed in front).With thigh belt is not big chance for problems with labia - maybe girl with biggers can have bit problem, but even by them they should not move much in belt and be painfull.
          A bit challenge can be to find positions for sleeping - the metal between your thighs pushes you quite hard if you're lying on your side. I saw somewhere here advice to use pillow between legs, it help. But for me is probably the best sleep on back or sleep on belly. So it's good to have something there too and get used to the fact that it can be a bit of a pressure on belly (locking). At first I woke up quite often, later mainly when moving (when I changed position in bed). But gradually it became less.. Normal activities are ok with the belt. You need to learn to sit a little more carefully or more slowly. Walking is also ok.
          Yes we have agreement - "big" hygiene i do not do alone of course. It is according to the need - for example, if it is hot and you are sweating, it is better to do it more often. But the minimum is once a week. Of course, they check me to avoid health complications. Hygiene, shaving, skin care...
          Yes we extablish some basic rules.
          Feel free to ask here or directly to my email. I prefer more specific questions if I may ask.

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            CathER I checked your posts and there is almost nothing about you...