Damien Yes, at first I was very shy, maybe even a little afraid. The first sensations of the tight solid metal and the inability to touch my private parts were limiting and humiliating. But as I wrote, I was quite tempted and probably even aroused in a way. I guess it deepened my submissiveness or devotion..
The belt must fit snugly but must not be painful. The body, the skin has to get used to it, that's why the "training". It'll probably become a little more resistant in those places. A thorough and frequent shower is important. It's also good to use antipruritic ointments and similar products, calcium ointments,... (Bepanthen, Calcium pantothenicum,...) After wearing, after taking off, there are of course marks or blisters, but the skin must not be disturbed... It's like taking off a ring after a long time. It's most difficult in the area above hip bones. that's where it needs the most attention. But I did not have problems ..no damages of skin....lickily... The waist must be tight to the body and move with the body as if it were part of it, then there is no skin injury from friction. But yes, you have to get used to the tight pressure of the metal part.
You are right Neosteel bejts are rigid, rigid solid material ,, can not be bended , you have to accept bit discinfort and it tooked some time too - until it was "normal" for my mind, for my body. For almos all models you can have long or short frontshield (long goes to waist,, short is fixed in front).With thigh belt is not big chance for problems with labia - maybe girl with biggers can have bit problem, but even by them they should not move much in belt and be painfull.
A bit challenge can be to find positions for sleeping - the metal between your thighs pushes you quite hard if you're lying on your side. I saw somewhere here advice to use pillow between legs, it help. But for me is probably the best sleep on back or sleep on belly. So it's good to have something there too and get used to the fact that it can be a bit of a pressure on belly (locking). At first I woke up quite often, later mainly when moving (when I changed position in bed). But gradually it became less.. Normal activities are ok with the belt. You need to learn to sit a little more carefully or more slowly. Walking is also ok.
Yes we have agreement - "big" hygiene i do not do alone of course. It is according to the need - for example, if it is hot and you are sweating, it is better to do it more often. But the minimum is once a week. Of course, they check me to avoid health complications. Hygiene, shaving, skin care...
Yes we extablish some basic rules.
Feel free to ask here or directly to my email. I prefer more specific questions if I may ask.