Angelina

But,when you ask her at her birthday,her answer would last until her next birthday,right?

    Angelina

    I think it is not bad this way.If she would want it,she would have to ask for it,knowing the consequences,so no forced wearing,and she would understand it is serious,not a game nor a fashion item.

      Vanessa

      exactly, that's what I'm trying to say 😉

      but I want to end this discussion because it is really only very theoretical 😉

        Vanessa

        that's right 😉

        whereas I would find it more interesting why my daughter should ask me that

          Angelina

          Anyway,if it happens,you would already have some ideas about the possible ways to use it with no forced wearing!😉

            Vanessa

            yes, but i still find the idea very unrealistic and i am not sure if i would like it

              Angelina

              Why you wouldn't like it if she would ask you?

              But I agree,it would probably not happen.

                Vanessa Why you wouldn't like it if she would ask you?

                probably because my own experiences are not very positive 🙁

                  Vanessa

                  but at @Tere it was voluntary, so she can give her daughters positive feelings towards the cb, which I unfortunately cannot 🙁

                    Angelina

                    Sure,I guess it is harder to explain positive feelings when we were wearing it unvoluntarily...I wonder how @Tere got positive feelings about it(but I may have forgotten,if she told it before).

                      Vanessa .I wonder how @Tere got positive feelings about it(but I may have forgotten,if she told it before).

                      I think because her husband has the keys and not her father 😉

                      • Tere replied to this.

                        Angelina Vanessa

                        Hello girls,
                        I think that in deep down, it's simpler than you think. Even though in general, the mentality regarding the chastity belt is positive, too, here with my daughters, sometimes there are crises, and we have to deal with them.
                        As I told you a few months ago, my beginnings with the belt was totally voluntary, and even in terms of giving some "spicy" to my marriage.
                        But, over time, I realized that the chastity belt is an incredible tool for developing a type of woman.
                        That ideal of a woman who is happy in the consciousness of knowing herself protected, and why not, a little possessed, by a husband or parents who love us.
                        I think only girls who are represented in that ideal are good candidates to wear a belt.
                        As I said a long time ago, reading your stories, my soul breaks, to see how many of you are unhappy being led down a path of femininity in which you do not at ease.
                        I hope I have answered you, although I haven't been in for several weeks, Ines has kept me up to date.
                        Greetings to all!

                          Tere

                          hi, nice of you to write again 😉

                          i think you are completely right with what you write, the problem is that i or @Vanessa don't have this philosophy and therefore can't pass it on to our daughters 🙁 but i understand that the cb in your family has a different and much more positive meaning

                            Tere

                            Thank you for the details,it is interesting.

                            It is understandable you like to wear it if you've this sort of feelings about feminity,and,in this case,yes,you can consider chastity belts positively.

                            Angelina

                            I agree.We haven't the same feelings,and,so,can't tell our daughters about such feelings.It is mainly a restriction for us.

                            It is probably way easier to wear it and accept it,with positive feelings.Even if it seems there is hard times,even in this case!

                              Vanessa Even if it seems there is hard times,even in this case!

                              of course, and fights probably still exist.

                              but in general the feeling is more positive

                                Angelina of course, and fights probably still exist.

                                I think so.It it is a normal,and even probably instinctive,reaction,to fight a chastity belt.

                                Angelina but in general the feeling is more positive

                                Yes,they have way more positive feelings and thoughts about it than many of us.

                                  Vanessa I think so.It it is a normal,and even probably instinctive,reaction,to fight a chastity belt.

                                  nevertheless i think that in families like @Ines and @Tere there are much less fights