strictfather
Good it started and that it starts to identfiy the main problems.
Ines Do your wife read sometimes this forum? Could be good thing, because she could ask us about this particular thing.
There are a lot of approachs in this forum, and basically all agree with the idea that a CB is not best idea for your girls right now.
Even she can talk with @Tere, and have a mother advice.
I doubt she could find more experienced advisors than here.
I think it could be useful for her to discuss with us,yes.Especially with the experience and opinion of @Tere.
strictfather
I don't agree with forced chastity,as you know.
But if your wife want your oldest daughter wear one,she can trap her in her words,too.She has to order a chastity belt for her,train to wear it and when ready,ask her daughter to come,give you the keys and tell her something like:"Ok,I now wear one,and haven't my keys anymore,as you wuggested;when should we order your?".
Ines For me is the only way possible. If mom wear a belt, it serves us as guideline, example and it can make a fairer keyholder. Even we, obviously, do not have the keys of our mom belt, we see the situation fairer itself.
I agree.
Ines think you are wrong, responsibility of parents is make rules in home, fair rules and maintain harmony. It is a big responsibility but it can not be shared with daughters. If things run well, merit of parents and if do not, maybe not only but always parents would have a big part of the fault. Give us the key can sound very democratic and cool, but really you are putting the girl and parents in same level, maybe very cool and maybe very comfortable for parents but what these parents are doing is share home responsibility. And it is not fair.
I'm not so sure about it.Ivana's do it with her daughters.Her daughters(at least the oldest one,who wear a chastity belt sooner than her sisters)have her key,and Ivana has the keys of her daughters.And Ivana's husband have the keys for all the belts.It seems it worked very welll.But her daughters were ok to wear the belt.
strictfather
Being a leader doesn't mean being a tyrant,like Ines specified.
You could have the final decision,but you may(and,in my opinon,should)discuss with other people concerned by this decision,hear their concerns and their ideas and take these into account.And only after thinking about it,discuss about what you would decide and take care to notice if it harms someone or if someone has logical doubts.If it is mainly ok,you should decide it and apply it,yes.But not before you did this.
Angelina e know that you have been sexually active quite often but your parents had only guesses and no proof so I find it somewhat exaggerated you understand what I mean ? my father had at least proof 😉
They had proofs.I was punished,including a temporary wearing of my chastity belt more than once for masturbating or having sex.And it was more often the case at university,so they thought(and they're right,even if I,of course,didn't tell it to them)it is because I'm more active sexually,and not because I was less careful.
Angelina besides, don't let Ines mislead you (nothing against you ines) there may well be 2 leaders at your home but you have to discuss your opinions and act as a unit to your daughters
I agree with you,partly,and partly with Ines.It can works if there is an odd number of leaders.Otherwise,one of the two leaders should be "the main leader".This way,we avoid to have situations when 2 leaders have opposite ideas,while no one can convince the other one,and no one give up.3 leaders can make the majority to one side;and having a main leader will help to take decision,even if both partners aren't able to agree about a decision.
