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Tasha

Hello, it's been something that's bothering me. This forum doesn't seem to have a favicon?

Favicon for those who don't know is the icon that appears on the tab. It doesn't show up for me, I've tried it in different browsers, but none seem to work.

It helps me find this site from my bookmarks because I use the icons for the websites in my app for bookmarks.

Milord

Tasha

Ask @Laura

Laura

Tasha This forum doesn't seem to have a favicon?

I forgot about it 😂
Need to find right one

Tasha

Milord i know Laura would check it anyways 😄

MissBlossom

Joh And if we call it e.g. PowEx (Power Exchange) thread it would not attract people because of the wording.

Sounds good to me.

Angelina

Milord you have the idea that bdsm and serious are mutually exclusive.

no rather the opposite and that's the problem. if we could just separate it, then your idea wouldn't be a problem, but because it's not always clearly definable, I see it as problematic

Milord

Angelina

More problematic than putting a belt on your daughter? I mean, there will be some people that will be interested, and some that will not be. This one will need even see it, so what is the problem?

You are not interested in bdsm, so for you it will change nothing. It will be invisible. And we will not talk about minors or forced.

For example, my wife complained few days ago for being belted for specific reason tied to our relation. I've not shared them because I feel there are out of place. If I have a protected area I would have explained our reasons

Angelina

Milord More problematic than putting a belt on your daughter?

no, on the contrary, but it's about what this forum was created for. there are countless fetish forums about chastity where a lot is written about BDSM, this forum has always meant something to me because there was more serious talk about real chastity and I would prefer it to stay that way

Milord

Angelina you will not read

Nothing will change for you

Joh

Angelina 's about what this forum was created for. there are countless fetish forums about chastity

This closed area would help to ensure that contributions that tend in that direction are not visible in the forum.
The world is diverse and not black and white and so there are fluid transitions. but can be discussed.

Angelina

Milord you will not read

it's not about me personally, i might even read it because i'm curious, but it's about the overall direction of the forum

Milord

Angelina

Not very coherent honestly

Damien

Milord You have always been polite in this forum, so why insult Angelina now when she expresses her feeling as to where this forum should go? You have been the single most defining contributor here, your posts have dominated most visible threads for a few months now. It's ironic, because I mostly share your opinions, and some things you have written clearly needed to be written here. But I think our older people thoughts will be better appreciated if we concentrate our comments in threads that are important to us, and enjoy the privilege of just listening to young people in chastity sharing their young people feelings in other threads.

pestulens

Milord While I am not sure I agree with her, I thought she made her point quite clear and understandable.

Angelina

Milord Not very coherent honestly

i am not uninterested in the topic of BDSM, i just think that this is not the right place for it. this is just my personal opinion, in the end @Laura and @Ines should decide that

Tjc I have observed over the years that some people need to comment and share their opinion every chance they get.

I plead guilty and I think @Milord is no different than me 😂

Joh The world is diverse and not black and white and so there are fluid transitions. but can be discussed.

it can and i agree with you. the point is simple, there are so many forums where chastity is discussed in the context of fetish and BDSM, i would like to get a place where it is not the topic

Milord But in case, I apologise to @Angelina if she felt insulted

i didn't feel insulted, all good, a normal discussion 🙂

Tjc

Damien I have observed over the years that some people need to comment and share their opinion every chance they get. Often, it is just part of having a dominant personality. Sometimes, there is a need to be noticed. Sometimes, it is that what they think is so important it has to be shared.
I was taught a long time ago that an alternative is to ask yourself, before you speak (or write or post), does this need to be said?, does this need to be said by me?, does this need to be said by me right now? Doing this seems to.make interactions more civil and more productive.
Just my opinion.

Milord

Damien

Criticism on a behavior is not a insult to a person. For me the difference is very clear. But in case, I apologise to @Angelina if she felt insulted
In any case , my idea spawned by how difficult it is for me to talk about my relationship with Milady without talking about other aspect of our relationship.
Fine, I will just talk about the chastity part.
That’s it

Milord

Angelina

There are not a lot of sites. A lot of Bdsm for sure, but chastity is more often about male chastity. Belted slave, and I mean in a relation, more or less 24/7, are not so much.

Anyway no problem. I like to talk about my relationship, it gives me the feeling of an interactive journal, but I will do elsewhere. Here there are people I’m fond of and will be glad to share with them, but in the end I never intended to create all this fuss, and if my story has to be tolerated, this, and I have to agree with @Angelina, is not the right place.

Joh

Angelina it can and i agree with you. the point is simple, there are so many forums where chastity is discussed in the context of fetish and BDSM, i would like to get a place where it is not the topic

If you can point me to a fiting forum I will have a look at it.

A few years have passed since the forum was started. You are one of the examples that ended up in a steady relationship. You are now living in an equal marriage.
Sara has opted for TPE and is happy in her marriage. But even before she was in the relationship with Daniel, her reports didn't really fit in here. I don't know how often she still checks in but one comment was that it was too confusing to follow posts that were in different topics but belonged together.
Ines will later also live in a marriage, which is not common according to the usual views. Her family thinks it's the right thing to do.

I think a closed area in which the different lifestyles can be discussed is an enrichment for us. It's up to everyone to decide how much they want to contribute, if at all, and what they want to take away from it.

Angelina

Milord

why don't you make a poll or something, then we can vote, i only gave my personal opinion, i don't presume to speak for the whole forum and as i said before the final decision should be made by Laura and Ines

Joh A few years have passed since the forum was started. You are one of the examples that ended up in a steady relationship. You are now living in an equal marriage.

right, but that has nothing to do with the forum, only with my own story. Sara has always been one of those who have been very careful not to mix her somewhat special relationship with what this forum is about and Ines has so much experience with serious chastity that she is very valuable as a user (even if we have different ideas about how the forum should develop)

youdontknowme

I am inclined to agree that this is not the right forum to describe a relationship that is purely based within a lovers' sexual dynamic - while most chastity forums on the web are about male chastity in the context of play sessions, they are still better suited than this website.

On the other hand, stuff where such power exchange dynamics interact with sexually abstinent lifestyles - whether that is orgasm diets a la Spork or the interaction of erotic play with sexual abstinence a la Lukas - those are different and might merit becoming opt-in (and thus hidden from newly-registered members) to allow those discussions that cannot really take place anywhere else on the one hand, while not advertising such stories to readers on the other hand.

WriterAlexis

I'm curious, would the BDSM section of the forum be as closely moderated as the general topics? Or more laissez-faire like politics?

Milord

WriterAlexis there will be no bdsm section, so this is not an issue I suppose.

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