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Laura

Milord If you don't want I'm fine, it's your forum and I respect this.

I didn't say so, I've answered your question to @Ines . I'm not against the idea

Joh

Laura Great. Does it mean we get one of of those closed Threads?

Angelina

like @Ines, i would be against it because in my opinion it is the opposite of what should be discussed here in the forum, but the real problem is where the boundaries lie. What is still considered serious use and what falls under BDSM?
and yes, we also have political threads, but it wouldn't keep me out of the form if they didn't exist

Milord

Angelina you have the idea that bdsm and serious are mutually exclusive. This is not true. Bdsm is not only play, can be a lifestyle and it is deadly serious. For us, for example, is the way to express our mutual love and commitment. The belt is part of it, it's not a separate thing. For sure it's unusual, it's not for everyone, but why my use of chastity belt is less serious than any belted wife around?

Sin

Angelina but the real problem is where the boundaries lie. What is still considered serious use and what falls under BDSM?

It's almost like we need a BDSM thread so we can discuss such things!

Angelina

Milord you have the idea that bdsm and serious are mutually exclusive.

no rather the opposite and that's the problem. if we could just separate it, then your idea wouldn't be a problem, but because it's not always clearly definable, I see it as problematic

youdontknowme

Most of all, it stops advertising that sort of stuff to the public. Experiences like Lukas and his girlfriend are clearly kinky in nature, but at the same time the entire experience, from the use of tamper-evident seals to the reason they got into that relationship in the first place, are related to his parental chastity dynamic that has no place in a kink forum. Hiding those topics from public view seems to be a great way to allow discussion on such matters while not confronting the general public with it.

Joh

I agree with @youdontknowme view and arguments. And if we call it e.g. PowEx (Power Exchange) thread it would not attract people because of the wording.

Milord

Joh no problem for me in using whatever tag.

MissBlossom

Joh And if we call it e.g. PowEx (Power Exchange) thread it would not attract people because of the wording.

Sounds good to me.

Joh

I agree with @Sin . We can discuss it in a closed topic.

Tasha

Hello, it's been something that's bothering me. This forum doesn't seem to have a favicon?

Favicon for those who don't know is the icon that appears on the tab. It doesn't show up for me, I've tried it in different browsers, but none seem to work.

It helps me find this site from my bookmarks because I use the icons for the websites in my app for bookmarks.

Milord

Tasha

Ask @Laura

Laura

Tasha This forum doesn't seem to have a favicon?

I forgot about it 😂
Need to find right one

Tasha

Milord i know Laura would check it anyways 😄

Milord

Angelina

More problematic than putting a belt on your daughter? I mean, there will be some people that will be interested, and some that will not be. This one will need even see it, so what is the problem?

You are not interested in bdsm, so for you it will change nothing. It will be invisible. And we will not talk about minors or forced.

For example, my wife complained few days ago for being belted for specific reason tied to our relation. I've not shared them because I feel there are out of place. If I have a protected area I would have explained our reasons

Angelina

Milord More problematic than putting a belt on your daughter?

no, on the contrary, but it's about what this forum was created for. there are countless fetish forums about chastity where a lot is written about BDSM, this forum has always meant something to me because there was more serious talk about real chastity and I would prefer it to stay that way

Milord

Angelina you will not read

Nothing will change for you

Joh

Angelina 's about what this forum was created for. there are countless fetish forums about chastity

This closed area would help to ensure that contributions that tend in that direction are not visible in the forum.
The world is diverse and not black and white and so there are fluid transitions. but can be discussed.

Angelina

Milord you will not read

it's not about me personally, i might even read it because i'm curious, but it's about the overall direction of the forum

Milord

Angelina

Not very coherent honestly

Damien

Milord You have always been polite in this forum, so why insult Angelina now when she expresses her feeling as to where this forum should go? You have been the single most defining contributor here, your posts have dominated most visible threads for a few months now. It's ironic, because I mostly share your opinions, and some things you have written clearly needed to be written here. But I think our older people thoughts will be better appreciated if we concentrate our comments in threads that are important to us, and enjoy the privilege of just listening to young people in chastity sharing their young people feelings in other threads.

pestulens

Milord While I am not sure I agree with her, I thought she made her point quite clear and understandable.

Angelina

Milord Not very coherent honestly

i am not uninterested in the topic of BDSM, i just think that this is not the right place for it. this is just my personal opinion, in the end @Laura and @Ines should decide that

Tjc I have observed over the years that some people need to comment and share their opinion every chance they get.

I plead guilty and I think @Milord is no different than me 😂

Joh The world is diverse and not black and white and so there are fluid transitions. but can be discussed.

it can and i agree with you. the point is simple, there are so many forums where chastity is discussed in the context of fetish and BDSM, i would like to get a place where it is not the topic

Milord But in case, I apologise to @Angelina if she felt insulted

i didn't feel insulted, all good, a normal discussion 🙂

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