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Tabletop

Just testing if i can still post stuff 🥲

Angelina

Tabletop Just testing if i can still post stuff 🥲

seems to be working 🙂

Milord

Is it possible to create a BDSM that works like politics, visible only to a list of people, as to not offend uninterested one, that will allow us that are in bdsm to talk about chastity and kinky implications without bothering anyone else?

Ines

Milord

Up to @Laura , but my vote is against it.

Laura

Milord Is it possible to create a BDSM that works like politics

Yes it's possible

Milord why?

Because it's not BDSM forum

Angelina

Milord

like @Ines, i would be against it because in my opinion it is the opposite of what should be discussed here in the forum, but the real problem is where the boundaries lie. What is still considered serious use and what falls under BDSM?
and yes, we also have political threads, but it wouldn't keep me out of the form if they didn't exist

Milord

Ines why?

Edit to add some details:

Being an invisible section, it will not appeal fetish users from outside
It will be used to talk about bdsm and chastity with existing users. This is the main point here. There are a lot of BDSMers here that would like to exchange opinions, but respectful to the forum rules, they avoid
If noone is interested, it will just die by itself and no problem at all.

Joh

Ines Ivsupport this proposal. It would reduce the amount of Postings which Not fit good in.

Joh

Laura I think Lukas contribution AS an example would nicely fit in those thread. If you Not Like BDSM Name it different.

Milord

Laura it's not a political one either, but political posts are accepted.

Milord

Joh I can't explain a lot of things about my relationship because lot of things are tied to us being into a power exchange relationship, and me belting my wife is inside this dynamic. And I'm not the only one around

Laura

Milord Because politics is everywhere. I never met a forum without politics

Joh

Milord Most of the wearer live in a kind of power exchange relationship.

Milord

Joh mine is explicit

Milord

Laura

No, topics dedicated to WWIII are not everywhere. Valadar posts are much more out of place than a bdsm topic.

If you don't want I'm fine, it's your forum and I respect this.

Laura

Milord If you don't want I'm fine, it's your forum and I respect this.

I didn't say so, I've answered your question to @Ines . I'm not against the idea

Joh

Laura Great. Does it mean we get one of of those closed Threads?

Milord

Angelina you have the idea that bdsm and serious are mutually exclusive. This is not true. Bdsm is not only play, can be a lifestyle and it is deadly serious. For us, for example, is the way to express our mutual love and commitment. The belt is part of it, it's not a separate thing. For sure it's unusual, it's not for everyone, but why my use of chastity belt is less serious than any belted wife around?

Sin

Angelina but the real problem is where the boundaries lie. What is still considered serious use and what falls under BDSM?

It's almost like we need a BDSM thread so we can discuss such things!

Angelina

Milord you have the idea that bdsm and serious are mutually exclusive.

no rather the opposite and that's the problem. if we could just separate it, then your idea wouldn't be a problem, but because it's not always clearly definable, I see it as problematic

youdontknowme

Most of all, it stops advertising that sort of stuff to the public. Experiences like Lukas and his girlfriend are clearly kinky in nature, but at the same time the entire experience, from the use of tamper-evident seals to the reason they got into that relationship in the first place, are related to his parental chastity dynamic that has no place in a kink forum. Hiding those topics from public view seems to be a great way to allow discussion on such matters while not confronting the general public with it.

Joh

I agree with @youdontknowme view and arguments. And if we call it e.g. PowEx (Power Exchange) thread it would not attract people because of the wording.

Milord

Joh no problem for me in using whatever tag.

MissBlossom

Joh And if we call it e.g. PowEx (Power Exchange) thread it would not attract people because of the wording.

Sounds good to me.

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