Our families

Ines

I opened this topic to talk a little in general about family experiences. Maybe I have a little new:
Well,
Today a nice Sunday. We went to visit my brother, and again his girlfriend has stayed with us. As she is only a bit older than me, she search me a lot, and she seems like talk with me.
The important is that she slided a pair of sentences, and I do not know if my brother told her something about the belts...
Well, frankly, if she knows something she does not seem horrified at all.
She was so sweet, polite and boring as ever! 🤭

Vanessa

Ines

Maybe he thinks about convincing her to wear one?😉

Or,if their relationship is serious enough,and he trust her,he feel more at ease to disclose some more secret part of your family...

She seems to not be too much shocked by it,however.

Sara2001

Ines Would your brother tell someone about your situation without asking you before?

Nobody in my family would do this to me.

Laura

Ines As she is only a bit older than me

Is she also older than him?

Maximus

vaya reflotes! cómo te gustan!
OMG another one to read....

Ines Today a nice Sunday. We went to visit my brother, and again his girlfriend has stayed with us. As she is only a bit older than me, she search me a lot, and she seems like talk with me.

just a bit older? seems they had hurry be together complying with the families' rules 😄

PS: I'll take notes also

Readed, eres un poco bruja, yo no sé si lo haces a propósito o que ahora te da por alborotar el corral. Now I spent more time in this to be saved from other things..
But explains details again that were to be supposed, except if you didn't read all the forum..

Trying to preserve the sense for understanding from old posts, Ines take note 😛 , I quote all:

Ines I have to say that as guest my brother's girlfriend is a very grate surprise. She is even an acceptable running mate, but as she is from inner Spain, she always want go to run for the coast... And wind do not have mercy.... As I play indoor sport, I do not like much the wind.
And related to chastity, surprisingly smooth. But in her thinking is more necessary for married girls.
Anyway, I am happy.

Seems at the end she was left wanting to be keyholded, not just a brink....
See highlighted text, as sometimes teachers asks... could you develop that?

Ines

Vanessa
That was what occurred. He phoned me this night. He was afraid of have blundered, he did not. They just was talking and the theme arised.
Her family is pretty conservative and I think that helps! 🤭
In Christmas Holiday she will come to North some days... will see then.
For me is a nice bank test in order to see what may I make when I turn 18, and I will take profit of her.
Experience is the mother of the science.

Ines

Sara2001
Well, frankly I do not know, she was very subtle.
Anyway, she is his girl, so even if I do not know if she knows something, it would be into range of normal things that they spoke about families peculiarities 🤭.
I am not worry or angry, just a little intrigued.
He answered my WP, today he calls me 🙂.
Even if she knows about it can have advantages for me.
A kind of test bank.

Sara2001

Ines Even if she knows about it can have advantages for me.
A kind of test bank.

Yes, it can have positive aspects but you can achieve all these aspects when he had asked you before. I don't think it is extremely humiliating if decides who knows about your belt.

Luckily this would be absolutely unthinkable in my family. It would count a big impact to my dignity. I wonder that you happily accept this like it is something to make fun about. A chastity belt is one most intimate things.

Ines

Sara2001
I do not mind it so much. For me it is not nothing shameful in to wear a belt.
Only concerning can be about complications, but if he trusts, I do not see any problem.
I guess optic about belt is not the same.
For me is something normal, even nice.
I do not understand be ashamed for it.

Ines

Sara2001 A chastity belt is one most intimate things.

To have notice that a girl wear one? No I do not see that can be intimate, obviously, is not a public interest new, but that a person in family have notice I do not see absolutely none importance.

Vanessa

Ines

I've the same opinion that @Sara2001,I feel it very intimate.

Laura

Yes!😉

Ines It would be nice, and for sure it would be nice towards my brother, but... she has the choice!

Maybe,as they started to talk about it,they both have thought about her wearing one,even if not discussed it together.What would you tell her if she asks you about chastity belts,and the possibility for her to wear one?Should it be her who asked for it,or can your brother ask her to,and she can accept or refuse?

How this situation would help you if she doesn't wear one?

Ines

Laura
No. She is half way! 19. She still lives with her parents, anyway my brother can not life his own, so, it is not very important.

Laura

Ines 19. She still lives with her parents

Right candidate for belted girl 🙂

Ines

Laura

🤭🤭🤭...
Well for me, in principle every girl can be good candidate.
It would be nice, and for sure it would be nice towards my brother, but... she has the choice!

Renita

Ines It would be nice, and for sure it would be nice towards my brother, but... she has the choice!

So let him talk to her about it

Ines

Vanessa I've the same opinion that @Sara2001,I feel it very intimate.

I would not like see it published on newspapers, but that a girl in family have notice about this is very natural thing. Maybe even they have talked about the usage, I did not ask it, obviously, and it is normal, if he talk about it explain his family experience.
I do not see nothing evil or shameful in it. As Angelina usually said, in some things, my family approach is quite different.

Vanessa Maybe,as they started to talk about it,they both have thought about her wearing one,even if not discussed it together.What would you tell her if she asks you about chastity belts,and the possibility for her to wear one?Should it be her who asked for it,or can your brother ask her to,and she can accept or refuse?

How this situation would help you if she doesn't wear one?

I do not know, really, but for me it would be nice, and I would be very happy for my brother. And I would be happy if she asks me for something and I can help her.
I will not hide or make up anything but if she takes the, right one 🤭, decision I would be glad of help her in guidance.
Anyway, it can serve me to see reaction of people when have contact with this reality. Useful anyway decide what she decide.

reactionary69

Ines Well your family has a spare one in the cupboard so...

🐎🐎🐎

😇🤣

Greetings (but not anymore from oop North)

Vanessa

Ines

True,if their relationship is serious,they can talk about it;as a family experience.But I would prefer it is not said to someone before I'm ok with it(and would prefer to do it myself).

Would your brother like his girlfriend wear one too?If they're already intimate together,would he be ok to not have her keys until they're married,even if it means they could not be intimate that way anymore?

Your help could be useful for her,if she decides to wear one.I wonder if she would do it!

I understand how it can be useful for you,when you would talk with her,yes.

reactionary69 Well your family has a spare one in the cupboard so...

Right,it can be used!😉

At least,it can be useful,if she wants to know how it feels before buying one.

And maybe,if @Ines' sister notices someone else using her belt,she would not like it and decide to put it on to prevent it to happen anymore!😉

Esteban

Vanessa And maybe,if @Ines' sister notices someone else using her belt,she would not like it and decide to put it on to prevent it to happen anymore!😉

She could just as well think that "her" belt has finally found its carrier. And to feel definitely released. 😉

Ines

Vanessa
😂😂😂
OMG, girls, you are the terror of unwed girls!

Vanessa Would your brother like his girlfriend wear one too?

Frankly, I do not have idea. He is very respectful, but I do not know if he would like her girls wear a belt.
About her belting, I think that is a decision of her girlfriend and her family.
But I would be glad of help her! She is a little boring for me, but in Christmas she will pass some days in my room, so for sure we will talk.

Vanessa And maybe,if @Ines' sister notices someone else using her belt,she would not like it and decide to put it on to prevent it to happen anymore!😉

As she says, it is not her belt, it is a belt with her measures. 😂

Renita

Ines but I do not know if he would like her girls wear a belt.

Only if he has key 😃

Vanessa

Ines OMG, girls, you are the terror of unwed girls!

🤣

We want to feel less and less alone in a chastity belt!😉

Ines Frankly, I do not have idea. He is very respectful, but I do not know if he would like her girls wear a belt.
About her belting, I think that is a decision of her girlfriend and her family.
But I would be glad of help her! She is a little boring for me, but in Christmas she will pass some days in my room, so for sure we will talk.

It would beinteresting to know more.

Ines As she says, it is not her belt, it is a belt with her measures. 😂

The difference is subtle!😉

Ines Well, I think that a good girl with a chastity belt, and a good boy with a key are the best couple possible. 🙂

Even if not married?

Ines

Renita
Well, I think that a good girl with a chastity belt, and a good boy with a key are the best couple possible. 🙂