Abstinence belt

Vanessa

If she only get married to be able to have sex,it is not a good idea.

I think that,even if she wants to avoid doing it,it is probably hard sometimes to resist the urges,in which case,some willpower can be necessary,I think.

HHelen

It is very limiting about sex,yes,while not preventing orgasms totally.

Renita

Vanessa If she only get married to be able to have sex,it is not a good idea.

Not only, but it would motivate more.

Angelina

Vanessa it,it is probably hard sometimes to resist the urges,in which case,some willpower can be necessary,I think.

this is true, but what I want to say is that willpower is not the "main tool"

HHelen

Renita Hence her abstinence belt would motivate for marriage more.

Sounds like a good plan.

Vanessa It is very limiting about sex,yes,while not preventing orgasms totally.

In most cases it is not necessary.

Vanessa

Renita

As long as it is not the main reason for marriage,I agree it can help.

Angelina

Yes,but,even if not the "main tool",I think it is important too.It would be easy to not follow such decision,at least once,during years,if not enough willpower when a bit "weaker" or have stronger urges.

HHelen Sounds like a good plan.

Do you hope it would work this way for your daughter?

HHelen In most cases it is not necessary.

Depend of the goal of the chastity belt.

Angelina

Vanessa ,at least once,during years,if not enough willpower when a bit "weaker" or have stronger urges.

of course willpower is important, I don't deny that, but in my opinion it is not enough

Renita

Vanessa As long as it is not the main reason for marriage,I agree it can help.

It shouldn't be the main reason, futhermore it's not necessary they might not have sex at all, it's enough she can wear an abstinence belt anytime while they are not married.

HHelen

Vanessa Do you hope it would work this way for your daughter?

Pretty much.

Renita futhermore it's not necessary they might not have sex at all, it's enough she can wear an abstinence belt anytime while they are not married.

No parent would agree with this.

Vanessa

Angelina

So,we mainly agree!😉

Renita

We agree too!😉

HHelen Pretty much.

Is it the case presently?

HHelen No parent would agree with this.

Why not?She stays virgin(if she is),no risk for her to be pregnant and few risks of STD(and no if they don't do oral sex).

Angelina

Vanessa So,we mainly agree!😉

Yes 😉

Vanessa (and no if they don't do oral sex).

can you get STD through oral sex?

Renita

Vanessa Why not?She stays virgin(if she is),no risk for her to be pregnant

No, I meant sometimes sex might be allowed, but an abstinence belt most of the time while they are not married.

HHelen

Vanessa Is it the case presently?

It's too early.

Tim

Angelina can you get STD through oral sex?

Yes.

https://www.cdc.gov/std/healthcomm/stdfact-stdriskandoralsex.htm

Vanessa

Angelina

Not sure,but I think there is some risks.

Renita

If they can have sex sometimes,why she should wear an abstinence belt?

HHelen

Since how long she wears it?I don't remember well.

Angelina by my definition only mastubation is allowed with a abstinence belt, sometimes sex is forbidden, that is what the belt is for

An abstinence belt don't prevent oral sex.

Angelina but for me it is clear anyway that before i get married and there will be sexual activities, my girlfriend and i will be examined by a doctor 🙂

Not sure,but I think in France,a STD test must be done before marriage.

Laura

Renita No, I meant sometimes sex might be allowed, but an abstinence belt most of the time while they are not married.

@Megan , is this your situation?

Angelina

Renita but an abstinence belt most of the time

by my definition only mastubation is allowed with a abstinence belt, sometimes sex is forbidden, that is what the belt is for

Tim

Okay, I admit I didn't know that.

but for me it is clear anyway that before i get married and there will be sexual activities, my girlfriend and i will be examined by a doctor 🙂

Megan

Laura Not very regularly until I was engaged... Trying to find anyone right for me started as a 'bachelorette' type experience until I realized I had someone all along that came back to my area.

Laura

Megan Not very regularly until I was engaged...

I meant after your engagement

Tim

Angelina but for me it is clear anyway that before i get married and there will be sexual activities, my girlfriend and i will be examined by a doctor

Of course. That's the responsible thing to do.

Ines

Angelina by my definition only mastubation is allowed with a abstinence belt, sometimes sex is forbidden, that is what the belt is for

This is the point because I do not understand the use of an abstinence belt.
I am not against the girls that do not wear it, even if I lately see more and more advantages, but I believe that masturbation cab be "tolerated" but I do not think that a girl' s touches should be "approved".

Laura

Vanessa Not sure,but I think in France,a STD test must be done before marriage.

Better if they also did a virginity test 😂

Renita

Vanessa If they can have sex sometimes,why she should wear an abstinence belt?

To not let her have sex whenever she wishes.

Angelina

Vanessa An abstinence belt don't prevent oral sex.

yes, but oral sex is a different category for me 😉

Vanessa Not sure,but I think in France,a STD test must be done before marriage.

i don't know how it is in france, but in germany it is not compulsory, but we will do it voluntarily

Renita To not let her have sex whenever she wishes.

this is not abstinence, but maybe rather a kind of "sexual education"

HHelen

Vanessa Since how long she wears it?I don't remember well.

Around 6 months.

Vanessa

Laura

😉

But most of men and women don't care much about being virgin at marriage,I think! 😉

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