Abstinence belt

Angelina

Ines Abstinence belt for me is a way of use sugar in a non totally willingly wearing.

i admit that in many areas i am also more in favour of final yes or no decisions. I see it differently with the chastity belt because it gives me more options to wear it, I understand what you mean, but I don't agree

Ines In the situation you describe, the girl not only should her secondary shield on, but wear thigh bands too. With a short chain. Very short. 😈

i think i can't remember my own post. what situation are you talking about exactly? Do you mean the situation of a girl being alone in her room at home? This is the situation I am in right now, sitting in front of my laptop alone in my room and writing with you 😂

Saintprudence It’s not chastity if you’re permitted to masturbate.

I have never said that

Vanessa

Ines Abstinence belt for me is a way of use sugar in a non totally willingly wearing.

I think it can make the difference between forced wearing and willingly wearing.

For someone in a similar situation than me,which would have to wear a chastity belt or break her relation with her family(and so would accept the chastity belt),and that the main purpose of the chastity belt is to make her stay virgin until marriage.And the wearer like the idea of still being virgin on her wedding night.

If she has to wear a chastity belt,she would stay virgin,but she would too be prevented from orgasm during years,which she doesn't like,so she accepts it reluctantly and it is close to forced wearing.

But,if she has to wear an abstinence belt,she knows her virginity is protected,while still possible for her to feel orgasms,and she would be ready to accept to wear it willingly.

Angelina it gives me more options to wear it

And the option of the abstinence belt would make it more manageable than a chastity belt.

Ines

Vanessa
Agree. For that I think an abstinence belt is a way of make easier a non willingly situation.
And all forced or semi-forced wearing is not desirable or acceptable at all.

Angelina

Vanessa And the option of the abstinence belt would make it more manageable than a chastity belt.

definitely, there is for example the possibility to stay a virgin but still not to completely renounce orgasms and there is the possibility to test your partner without putting yourself under pressure

Vanessa not even semi forced.

this is also a term which i think is misused, because this term would rather apply to us, because nobody here is put in the belt with brute force

Vanessa

Ines

I think in my example the second case(abstinence belt)is not even semi forced.

Vanessa

Angelina definitely, there is for example the possibility to stay a virgin but still not to completely renounce orgasms and there is the possibility to test your partner without putting yourself under pressure

I thought mainly about experiencing orgasms while staying virgin,but,yes,it would make us know if he/she could wait,or if he/she's not interested by us if we can't have sex.

Angelina this is also a term which i think is misused, because this term would rather apply to us, because nobody here is put in the belt with brute force

We can say "stop" if we want,sure,but the consequences would be very hard.It is more "forced" in my opinion,even if it is more by threatening us than physically.

Angelina

Vanessa I thought mainly about experiencing orgasms while staying virgin

that's true, but anyone can stay virgin without a belt, even with a abstinence belt

Vanessa We can say "stop" if we want,sure,but the consequences would be very hard.It is more "forced" in my opinion,even if it is more by threatening us than physically.

hmm, but i find the word forced not really appropriate, i would rather describe it with the word blackmail but its difficult

Laura

Angelina but anyone can stay virgin without a belt, even with a abstinence belt

With or without?

Vanessa

Angelina that's true, but anyone can stay virgin without a belt, even with a abstinence belt

Sure.

Renita Easier to wear.

I agree.

Angelina

Right.

Angelina

Laura With or without?

without

shinydiamond77

I don't understand the point of such a belt. If using one to stop a girl from having sex, why leave a way for her to access down there in the first place? If she wears such a belt, instead why not just use a regular chastity belt, and prevent her from doing anything there, not just sex? I think that if sex is forbidden, doing anything else down there should be too.

Renita

shinydiamond77 If using one to stop a girl from having sex, why leave a way for her to access down there in the first place?

Because the reasons is clear meaning is not allowed to have penetrative sex only.

shinydiamond77 If she wears such a belt, instead why not just use a regular chastity belt

Easier to wear.

Angelina

shinydiamond77

on the one hand because mastubation does much less "harm" than sex. she cannot sleep with the wrong person, she cannot become pregnant unintentionally etc. and on the other hand it is much more difficult to avoid orgasms in general than "only" sex

HHelen

shinydiamond77 I think that if sex is forbidden, doing anything else down there should be too.

She should have some sexual relief.

Renita Because the reasons is clear meaning is not allowed to have penetrative sex only.

Interesting idea.

shinydiamond77

Angelina

I guess if the girl is 17-18 years old or older, then it's enough to just prevent sex, although I think a belt is no longer needed at that age. Until then, however, a regular belt makes more sense.

Angelina

Vanessa

do you have so little time that you now comment everything with one word ? 🤣

HHelen She should have some sexual relief.

right, it makes a big difference. do you think your daughter would act more irritable if she had no satisfaction at all ?

Vanessa

HHelen She should have some sexual relief.

I agree,and it makes easier for her to accept the belt.

Angelina do you have so little time that you now comment everything with one word ? 🤣

🤣

Sometimes if I've not much free time or if I'm tired! 😉

Angelina do you think your daughter would act more irritable if she had no satisfaction at all ?

I think it would probably be the case for most wearers.

Angelina

I think too it would be interesting to know what she thought about.

HHelen

Angelina do you think your daughter would act more irritable if she had no satisfaction at all ?

Yes, and not only. There are more negative effects.

Mary

I would agree with you. I think it's best if nothing at all can happen or be made to happen. My husband would call it a "pure play", pun intended.

Angelina

HHelen There are more negative effects.

even if I think I know what you mean, what exactly do you mean?

HHelen

Angelina even if I think I know what you mean, what exactly do you mean?

I think you have your own experience and can tell better.

Angelina

HHelen I think you have your own experience and can tell better.

yes, i have my experiences, but every girl is a little different so i would be interested in your fears

HHelen

Angelina so i would be interested in your fears

Well, it's not a fear, I just don't see a reason for it. Just cons and no pros.

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