Laura Maybe we should create a section(tag) for wearers only?
Even if that excluded me from some of your conversations, I would be in favor of what will most secure the free speech of girls.
"Safety first".
In the rules of the forum you could make recommendations on confidentiality for example by advising newcomers not to mention their real first name in order to avoid too obvious identification of a parent who comes to discover the forum by chance.
And for girls who would not dare to take the plunge for fear of being identified by their parents, it might be interesting to offer an email address available which can only be viewed by forum moderators.
This would perhaps allow you to establish private contacts with girls wishing information on a specific point which would not have dared to ask it publicly.
And with your experiences, you can easily form your opinion on the relevance of their story and answer its questions.
Do you have the possibility to check if Amber has been tracked by another user? Check if someone who is from the same region and who read their messages almost exclusively.
I think I remember that you had big suspicions compared to someone who was following Angelina at one point by suspecting that her could be her father?
Have you noticed something similar for Amber?