amber Sorry about that. I don't fear people on this website, i just fear that 1. my mom doesn't find out about the website and 2. that nobody who know me in real life find out i have to wear the belt. So I'm nervous every time I go here. I forgot that i posted about my birthday, so when i saw it in the table i thought that someone here recognized me in real life or something and got scared (i hope it makes sense).
Hi Amber,
I'm sincerely super happy to read from you.
I thought you had definitively fled this forum so it makes me happy to see that this is not the case.
In relation to your concerns, I would say that you have absolutely no need to worry about someone around you who might come to this forum. Don't be anxious about this. I’ll explain why :
He has two major obstacles to overcome.
Interest in the Chastity Belt.
To come to this site you must at least have a curiosity about the CB. And if this curiosity is nonexistent then NO chance that a person of your entourage can arrive "by chance" on this site.
In addition Laura recently told us that there were less than 250 visitors for a total population of 7.5 billion people on the whole planet ! Suffice to say that you would have 1000 times more chance of winning the Euromillions rather than someone from your neighborhood arriving on this forum.
It is therefore important that you rationalize your fears with this (statistical) proportion in mind.
On the other hand, since your mother does indeed have a certain interest in CB, this obstacle cannot be opposed to her. And if she does research on the subject there is actually a probability that she can discover this site. The risk should therefore not be overlooked. So we have to tackle the second obstacle.
The language barrier.
If your mother is not an English speaker it is likely that she is doing research in her native language which should prevent her from having access to this forum. But if your mother has no difficulty with English then there is indeed a risk that should not be overlooked so that she can discover this forum sooner or later.
In order to be able to reduce your fears I suggest that you only mention to laura@unwedchastity.org
your true country of origin using an email address that you could create only to exchange in relation to the chastity belt.
@Laura as the person in charge of this forum, will be able to inform you of the number of people from your country who come to connect to the forum. And if you live in a small European country it is possible that you are the only one to connect from this country. Therefore it will demonstrate that your mother has not had access to this forum until today.
And if Laura subsequently detects the presence of a newcomer from your country, she could notify you by email. If in doubt with a newcomer from your country, just check your mother's schedule with the new connection on the forum.
In addition, if you want to be sure that your mother has never visited this forum, you should try to have access to her phone or computer in order to check her visit history.
I hope my message useful will be for you. And in case you want to exchange in private I send you my personal email address: napo.vesontio@gmail.com
In fact this mode of communication could be useful compared to the means of circumvention which I will be called upon to propose.
In fact if one of these means were to work, I would especially not want one of the parents to be aware of this possibility because it could then prevent the girl to masturabte or even punish her for trying to cheat.
I don't want a girl to be punished because of me. It would make me feel very guilty. Therefore I share some of your fears in a way.