F.A.Q. draft

Laura

amber my mom doesn't find out about the website

Why do you think she is not in already?

amber

Laura
well... f*ck. I didn't think of that.
I hope she isn't, and if she is, i still don't want her to know that i'm here.

Vanessa

amber

It is understandable.I would not like someone discover I wear a chastity belt due to my posts.

Laura

There is often a risk;I hope too my parents never discover this board too.

amber it seems like she considers making me wear it permanently

It wouldn't be very surprising.Most of us here are wearing it permanently.

amber But after getting the belt it got much stronger.

It is common.

Angelina if you are afraid that you should wear the belt permanently, you should ask 😉
if your mother really wants it, it will happen and maybe it is better if you know about it 😉

I think too.

Angelina yes i understand, it is very unsafe on public toilets and also not really a nice place to masturbate 🙁 also it could have serious consequences like with the sister of @Sara2001

Yes,it is a good example to what not to do,unhappily for her.

amber

Does it mean,that,in some years,you can stop wearing it?

Angelina i personally can ask my father all the questions i want to ask without direct consequences

I can too,but don't like to.

Laura

Good idea.Even if not sure her mother would appreciate it.

amber I don't think she is on the forum, there's no reason for her after buying me the belt.

Maybe to decide if wearing it permanently is useful or not;or to know how to manage it if she wants you to wear it,even part time only(like presently)for years,etc...

Angelina I would recommend it to her

I agree.But,on the other hand,won't it be easier for her if she doesn't know the pleasure she's prevented to get anymore?

amber

Angelina
About my current situation - it's almost the same. I got used to wearing it, just slowly became a part of daily routine (though i still hate it as much as before though). Still have to wear it at homE only, but a few times I had to wear the belt outside because mom wasn't home to unlock me. I talked with my mom after having to wear it outside, and it seems like she considers making me wear it permanently (she didn't say that directly, so i'm not sure, and i don't want to ask her directly about it).

Esteban
I had the desire before the belt too, but i was scared to do it. But after getting the belt it got much stronger. I did want to try it some times, but it's impossible.

Esteban I try to circumvent the effects of the belt so that girls can touch. I will soon propose a new bypass.

OMG YES
can't wait to see it!

Angelina

amber

you don't need to be afraid to write here, nothing bad can happen to you, you just share your thoughts and emotions with us there is nothing wrong with that 😉

if you are afraid that you should wear the belt permanently, you should ask 😉
if your mother really wants it, it will happen and maybe it is better if you know about it 😉

Esteban

amber OMG YES
can't wait to see it!

You also need to know that my means of circumvention will be based on the purchase of small everyday objects not necessarily very expensive for an independent person (10 to 15 €) but sufficiently expensive for a young girl of 14 who does not have 'salary.

So you need to have a minimum of pocket money to be able to get your small everyday items otherwise mission will be impossible.

As I do not know if you have been able to read most of my previous messages, you should know that I am very angry strict with parents who impose the wearing of the belt on their daughter.

I am deeply revolted by this practice which goes against my liberal convictions. (It also got me some confusion about this on this forum)

Personally I clearly chose my side. I have chosen to help girls be able to regain their sexual freedom to which they are entitled.

And failing to find an effective means of circumvention, I try to advise them as best I can to try to relieve their moral suffering. This is the main reason for my presence on this forum.

You also need to know that being a boy I am not an expert on female feeling or pleasure. It is therefore possible that my workaround proposals are not feasible.

I am only proactive but I have no guarantee as to the result.

Laura

amber Is she also single by chance?

amber

Angelina
Well, you're right, if she decides to make me wear it permanently there's not much I can do.
But I'd rather not bring that up with her so that she doesn't get any ideas.

Angelina

amber

just ask her how she imagines the future wearing of the cb ? then you don't give her any ideas and know in the worst case

do you have any chance to masturbate? (if you do not wear the cb)

amber

Angelina
I generally avoid asking her questions about my chastity belt lately because there's no way i can change her mind about it anyway. And the less i bring it up, the less chance there is that she makes things worse somehow.

Angelina do you have any chance to masturbate? (if you do not wear the cb)

not really. I don't want to do it in a school toilet (or any public toilet).
I could do it while on my period but ew, that's just gross.

Angelina

amber

yes i understand, it is very unsafe on public toilets and also not really a nice place to masturbate 🙁 also it could have serious consequences like with the sister of @Sara2001

i can understand that you are uncomfortable with such conversations and you should only do it when your mother is happy 😉 however i think it is better if you talk to your mother, the uncertainty will make you very unhappy

also
since you don't masturbate anymore anyway, it would not be too much of a challenge to wear the cb permanently 😉

Esteban

amber not really. I don't want to do it in a school toilet (or any public toilet).
I could do it while on my period but ew, that's just gross.

That said, I think you should take advantage of the few moments of freedom you have left so that you can still have a chance to discover yourself sexually.

So even if the idea of masturbating in the public restroom is not great or not very glamorous, you should definitely not wait to be definitively blocked to regret not having seized this opportunity.

Remember this French proverb "In the kingdom of the blind, the one-eyed are kings".

All the testimonies of the girls in this forum demonstrate that their situation has NEVER evolved in the right direction. The restrictions imposed by their parents have always been harder and harder.

So a friend tip:
Don't wait until you are locked up 24/7 because it will be too late for you, unfortunately, to go back.

If you are released from the belt during menstruation enjoy it anyway!

I think most of the girls in this forum would be happy to have this opportunity (to be released only on this occasion).

So just out of respect for them who are blocked 24/7 I invite you to take advantage of the little freedom you have left.

In addition, you must know that the privileged area of female pleasure is located on the outer part of the vulva (the clitoral area).

Therefore this pleasure zone can be perfectly stimulated without any contact with the blood of your period which seems to disgust you.

I think the other girls will be able to confirm the accuracy of my Martian troll remark (lol).

amber

Angelina
yes, unfortunately talking to my mom about this is very annoying. She just says "you're too young to have access to your private parts without permission" like it's a military base or something.

Angelina

amber

in my opinion a very weak reason because every girl becomes sexually mature at a different age

hmm you have a very similar problem as @Lea and @lucy, asking questions is apparently very difficult for you 🙁

i personally can ask my father all the questions i want to ask without direct consequences

Esteban

amber yes, unfortunately talking to my mom about this is very annoying. She just says "you're too young to have access to your private parts without permission" like it's a military base or something.

That’s perhaps the only good thing about your future situation.
It would be interesting if you could bounce back by asking him:
"By the way, mom, at what age will a girl have the right to discover these things? "

Once she has given you a specific age:

You will be fixed on the duration of your sentence.
It could serve as an argument the day when your mother wants to impose the wearing of the belt beyond the age she had mentioned. Then you can blame him for being a liar and being unworthy of your trust. This will put her in a weak position by allowing you to negotiate occasional unlock periods.

Sara2001

Angelina i personally can ask my father all the questions i want to ask without direct consequences

Maybe because it can't get a lot worst for you 🙂

What could happen? A chastity belt on top of your chastity belt 😂

Sorry, I'm just joking. I can understand that talking open can be very difficult and could have bad consequences in the worst case.

amber

Laura Yes

Laura

amber Then you have a point

amber

Laura what do you mean?

Laura

amber Why doesn't she also wear a chastity belt? 🙂

Esteban

amber Sorry about that. I don't fear people on this website, i just fear that 1. my mom doesn't find out about the website and 2. that nobody who know me in real life find out i have to wear the belt. So I'm nervous every time I go here. I forgot that i posted about my birthday, so when i saw it in the table i thought that someone here recognized me in real life or something and got scared (i hope it makes sense).

Hi Amber,
I'm sincerely super happy to read from you.
I thought you had definitively fled this forum so it makes me happy to see that this is not the case.

In relation to your concerns, I would say that you have absolutely no need to worry about someone around you who might come to this forum. Don't be anxious about this. I’ll explain why :

He has two major obstacles to overcome.

Interest in the Chastity Belt.
To come to this site you must at least have a curiosity about the CB. And if this curiosity is nonexistent then NO chance that a person of your entourage can arrive "by chance" on this site.

In addition Laura recently told us that there were less than 250 visitors for a total population of 7.5 billion people on the whole planet ! Suffice to say that you would have 1000 times more chance of winning the Euromillions rather than someone from your neighborhood arriving on this forum.

It is therefore important that you rationalize your fears with this (statistical) proportion in mind.

On the other hand, since your mother does indeed have a certain interest in CB, this obstacle cannot be opposed to her. And if she does research on the subject there is actually a probability that she can discover this site. The risk should therefore not be overlooked. So we have to tackle the second obstacle.

The language barrier.
If your mother is not an English speaker it is likely that she is doing research in her native language which should prevent her from having access to this forum. But if your mother has no difficulty with English then there is indeed a risk that should not be overlooked so that she can discover this forum sooner or later.

In order to be able to reduce your fears I suggest that you only mention to laura@unwedchastity.org
your true country of origin using an email address that you could create only to exchange in relation to the chastity belt.

@Laura as the person in charge of this forum, will be able to inform you of the number of people from your country who come to connect to the forum. And if you live in a small European country it is possible that you are the only one to connect from this country. Therefore it will demonstrate that your mother has not had access to this forum until today.

And if Laura subsequently detects the presence of a newcomer from your country, she could notify you by email. If in doubt with a newcomer from your country, just check your mother's schedule with the new connection on the forum.

In addition, if you want to be sure that your mother has never visited this forum, you should try to have access to her phone or computer in order to check her visit history.

I hope my message useful will be for you. And in case you want to exchange in private I send you my personal email address: napo.vesontio@gmail.com

In fact this mode of communication could be useful compared to the means of circumvention which I will be called upon to propose.

In fact if one of these means were to work, I would especially not want one of the parents to be aware of this possibility because it could then prevent the girl to masturabte or even punish her for trying to cheat.

I don't want a girl to be punished because of me. It would make me feel very guilty. Therefore I share some of your fears in a way.

amber

Esteban that's a lot of advice! thanks! 😅
I don't think she is on the forum, there's no reason for her after buying me the belt.

Esteban So even if the idea of masturbating in the public restroom is not great or not very glamorous, you should definitely not wait to be definitively blocked to regret not having seized this opportunity.

it's not because it's not glamorous. Public toilets are dirty and disgusting. I'd rather not do it than do it there.

Esteban Therefore this pleasure zone can be perfectly stimulated without any contact with the blood of your period which seems to disgust you.

it's not just the blood, it's the entire area "down there" feels gross on a period.

Esteban In fact this mode of communication could be useful compared to the means of circumvention which I will be called upon to propose.

you can make a post for registred users only and write it there, it's probably easier

Angelina

Esteban

I would actually suggest this idea, but I have never done so because I am afraid that amber's mother might say the right age when she is married 🙁

otherwise i agree with you, i would take every opportunity in her situation. the worst thing that can happen is that she gets caught and is then permanently locked up, which will happen anyway if i have understood the last posts correctly

Esteban

Angelina otherwise i agree with you, i would take every opportunity in her situation. the worst thing that can happen is that she gets caught and is then permanently locked up, which will happen anyway if i have understood the last posts correctly

Yes I would like to be wrong but I am convinced that the less a girl rebels against the belt and the more the restrictions increase over time.

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