You can tell I do not have class today and I am bored because I am alone.
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Rereading threads to moderate I come across this one, and it occurs to me that maybe it would be interesting to make a reflection on the changes in the girls around me.
Recapping right now in my family it has been achieved that practically all of us wear belts.
Only my older cousin who lives independently does not wear it, although her mother is pushing for it. I think my uncle has enough to do with controlling one daughter outside the house. In my opinion it is a bit unfair that she is not made to wear it, but I understand the difficulty and that when she was old enough, she did not want to wear a belt at home.
The other one who does not use it is my sister-in-law, although we have already told her that this year, when we go on vacation, she better bring a belt or the rest of us will buy her one. ☺😂
My sister, fortunately has started wearing it, and without obligation of any kind.
I am more and more convinced that what made my sister not to wear a belt, was laziness. I think she looked with a bit of envy at the rest of us, proud, but her laziness was too great. I think when she matured she realized that her position was a bit absurd, that if the rest of us had to wear a belt, it was not very defensible, and finally she did what she should have done a long time ago.
Now she has ups and downs, like all of them at the beginning, and sometimes she complains, but she is proud to be one more and to be at the level of the others.
Not forcing, and seeing the belt and purity as a source of pride for us, has been the most effective system, but it is clear that every woman matures at a different speed.
