Every girl should wear a chastity belt

Max9

I was just kidding. Austria is my neighbour country, only about a two hour cars ride away from my place.

Jen

Laura well damn I though the Australia stuff was all a joke.

Max9
Won't even get out of my state in 2 hours.

Max9

Angelina , I would probably rather give the keys to my girlfriend

Most people you do that

Angelina you answered the question yourself

Actually I didn't. I said you don't like it, but I asked you qhat you don't like about it

Angelina

Max9 Actually I didn't. I said you don't like it, but I asked you qhat you don't like about it

what i don't like about it is not being able to live out my sexual abilities. let me put it this way. for volunteer wearers, my father would be a very good key holder. he has everything that many volunteer wearers would wish for. i would say that from a neutral position. but i am not neutral.

Joh

Jen Won't even get out of my state in 2 hours.

May I ask which state it is? Some are extremely large compared to Europe.
If I remember right Europe fits in Australia. From Portugal to the Urals in Russia.

GoodyProctor Honestly, wearing a belt for a couple of days is not that big a deal to me. It's that I'm pretty sure it's the start of something bigger that I'm not ready to deal with.

Than don't do it.

GoodyProctor Really, my biggest concern is that the fact I'm even entertaining this conversation is evidence that my perspective is shifting away from where I wanted.

Why that?
I am at the discussion over a long time and it is fun many times but I will never consider to wear belt.

GoodyProctor "sure, why not, belt for a few days, what's the worst that could happen?"

You could pass the point of no return.

Max9 It is a tool that helps you ensure that you have the control.

Sorry. I don't see why I get more control out of it. You are in control over yourself without belt or someone else is it if you wear one.

GoodyProctor

Vanessa Not if you're clear it would never be the case at the start.

If anything happens, it will certainly have clearly negotiated rules.

Vanessa

Angelina I would probably rather give the keys to my girlfriend ;

Understandable!😉

Jen And you all mess with my sleep everyone posts when I should be in bed

🤣

GoodyProctor

Logical,and wise.

GoodyProctor I hate feeling tied down

You would not feel this way with a chastity belt.

GoodyProctor The idea of being locked up by anyone else is even worse.

However it would not be a punishment,but a choice;don't you think you would feel it differently?

GoodyProctor t's that I'm pretty sure it's the start of something bigger that I'm not ready to deal with.

Not if you don't want to.

GoodyProctor know for a fact that if I accept any belt, she'll try to find a way to expand it.

Don't tell her.

Laura

Possible,yes!😉

GoodyProctor

A belt can always be destroyed/lockpicked.And,in your case,it would not be hard to get the keys back.

GoodyProctor Sometimes if I'm in a cranky mood I'll say it's none of her business, which she assumes is a yes.

I think every parents would think it is a "yes"!😉

GoodyProctor

Start by wearing it a day,not a night.

HHelen And I want to prevent such "experiments".

I've to admit that,in university and such,it is more sexual,and with more experiments.

But if you daughter is willing to stay virgin until marriage,she could keep it during her studies.

GoodyProctor

Jen I feel like what I do with myself and what I do with Pru are different instincts. But she brought that up and now I'm giving that some thought.

Jen

GoodyProctor all your writing sounds a bit like the voices in my head a couple of months ago - can't, won't, maybe it's not that bad, should I, .... I'm glad I landed on won't and didn't anything else would have been wrong for me. It wasn't clear to me at the time though my head was a mess - you remind me of this so I'm saying you shouldn't.

Instead why don't you challenge yourself to a week of only with Pru? As in you must be with her, and she knows, and if she wants to be involved she can. Not saying you have to unlock her, just be with her.

GoodyProctor

Max9 I hate feeling tied down. I have no idea how Pru gets to that calm place when she's locked up. My mother would lock me in my room as a teenager to get me to pray or if I skipped church or because I wore pants. Losing control like that does not feel fun. She told Pru that she would have belted me through college if she knew it was possible, and that chills me. She didn't want me to be a slut in college, which to be honest I sort of was, and she thinks she will be held responsible by god for the fact I gave up the church. She still thinks my masturbating is a sin. I was never one for authority. I still feel a little weird being in charge of Pru, but it works for her and I'm glad to make her happy. The idea of punishing someone else and locking them up is hard for me and it took a while to get used to. The idea of being locked up by anyone else is even worse. Honestly, wearing a belt for a couple of days is not that big a deal to me. It's that I'm pretty sure it's the start of something bigger that I'm not ready to deal with.

HHelen

GoodyProctor she would have belted me through college if she knew it was possible, and that chills me. She didn't want me to be a slut in college, which to be honest I sort of was

Were you a virgin before college?

GoodyProctor A close second is getting me to quit masturbating

How does she know it?

Renita

GoodyProctor But I figure that wearing an abstinence belt for a few days is the first step to getting a shield, and then staying in it longer

I share your concern.

GoodyProctor

Renita The x-factor in all this is that I know my mother in ways Pru doesn't. She's really enjoying running full speed into it, and that's great. She's submissive at heart, she likes being told what to do. This works for us because I like telling her what to do giggles. And so she gets along with my mom's authoritarian tendencies. She likes being locked up because it feels like being loved and protected and cared for, which she didn't get from her parents. I don't think I could equate being belted myself with love and care. My mother's highest priority for me is to get me going back to church. A close second is getting me to quit masturbating, all so she convinces herself she's not going to hell for failing me. I know for a fact that if I accept any belt, she'll try to find a way to expand it. Even if she's not technically involved. If she wants a girl to be belted and obedient and her china doll for respectable clothing, she has Pru for that, and it makes them both happy. It's not a game I'm willing to play with her.

GoodyProctor

Renita Really, my biggest concern is that the fact I'm even entertaining this conversation is evidence that my perspective is shifting away from where I wanted.

Laura

GoodyProctor the fact I'm even entertaining this conversation is evidence that my perspective is shifting away from where I wanted.

It is. I think you are not against the belt in principle, but want to be persuaded 😂

GoodyProctor

My habit is to throw stuff at the wall and see what sticks, but in this case even throwing stuff makes me take seriously the perspective of "sure, why not, belt for a few days, what's the worst that could happen?"

GoodyProctor

Laura That's kind of my problem. I love debate, I love the idea of bouncing around ideas and playing pros and cons on things. I get into that by instinct. And I've been trying real hard NOT to play that here. And failing!

Saintprudence

Laura It is. I think you are not against the belt in principle, but want to be persuaded 😂

I love how you’re my biggest co-conspirator here!

Man, at the rate I’m going I may never get out of the corner, haha!

Max9

@GoodyProctor I think you see a belt in a wrong way. It's nothing that prohibits you to do something. It is a tool that helps you ensure that you have the control.

GoodyProctor

Max9 I think you see a belt in a wrong way. It's nothing that prohibits you to do something. It is a tool that helps you ensure that you have the control.

If I have the keys, I'm not really prohibited from anything. And if someone else has the keys, I definitely don't have the control! And once locked I'm definitely prohibited from things.

Max9

Joh If you have the keys yourself your partner or someone else can't just touch you.

Joh

Max9 What would be bad about finding out, that you might like to just give it a try, deep inside you? Isn't it that not thinking about it is actually the real compromise you make because you'll nwver fimd put if you like something and thus make the compromise of going on the way you are used to in the "medium way" instead of trying something that you might realize to be the "best way"? What do you have to loose? Be honest to yourself amd if it a try.
At Mysteel for exampme you can try on some belts without having to buy them...
If you still don't like it afterwards, ok. If you do then go on doing ehat you like.

Angelina uhhh I don't understand you sorry

I have sometime problem to understand you as well. Could you use a spell check. It could help. I use English Dictionary at Firefox.

Max9

Joh I have the same problem in my first language 🤷‍♂️ some people just don't understand what I say... maybe I should make shorter sentences that you don't loose the overview.

Joh

Max9 I have the same problem in my first language 🤷‍♂️ some people just don't understand what I say... maybe I should make shorter sentences that you don't loose the overview.

Yes, shorter sentences will help but also correct your typo before you send.

Joh

Max9 If you have the keys yourself your partner or someone else can't just touch you.

If I don't want my partner to touch me, I tell her. That is enough. I don't need a belt for that.

« Previous Page Next Page »