Every girl should wear a chastity belt

Saintprudence

Pru's report!

I've gotten accustomed both to being out of the belt and being in charge. It took a few days for both instances, but I'm accustomed to it now. It helps that Goody really threw herself into her role as belted housewife. I doubt I could hold out during an actual leadership fight between us! I kind of like the strength and confidence it gives me. I'm hoping to hold on to that later on after this. I enjoyed feeling special, like her protector, at the grocery.

After fifteen months being essentially continuously belted, I'd forgotten how hard once-easy things had become, and only notice now that I'm doing them the easy way! When I walk, I can FEEL where the thighbands would once have arrested any further motion. It's been some months since I was out of the bands, so I didn't really realize how restrictive they actually were since I rarely tested them.

Here's the part where it gets complicated. I avoided self-touch for the first couple of days, which was easy enough from force of habit. But on day three I self-pleasured with Goody's help, and twice in the last two days I've done it alone. And the funny thing is, I don't feel too guilty about it. Maybe a twinge of old catholic belief, but not crippling. I liked it. A lot.

Weird. I almost miss the guilt and shame that forced me into the belt in the first place. And this is after going to Mass regularly for a while. Maybe I'll ask a priest in confession about this, haha.

And now I'm two days out from having that gate closed again for good. Saturday night, I have to willingly go back into the belt and thighbands. And that's a hard thing to ask of myself right now.

I know I asked to be belted permanently. (Well, I more or less guided Goody into making me do it, but that was still my idea.) I even asked my mother-in-law to ensure I stay safely locked up until I can find a permanent keyholder if anything ever happens to Goody.

I planned to be a belted girl for the rest of my life. I was prepared for that. No self-touch, ever again. It just felt right and calming. And it's not just religion. Something about it makes me feel more pure, for lack of a better word. More like myself. The denial over a long time is like meditation that occasionally helps me go to a higher mental place. And I still like that idea. But dammit, on the other hand, orgasms feel REALLY good, you know? Goody will help me with those urges on occasion, but she also takes care to be a strict keyholder, at my request, so I'm frustrated and denied more often than I'm not.

I know that this path ends with permanent belting again. I'm just working my way through it mentally. I can't say I loved being belted, but I guess I do like it overall. And I do love being cherished by Goody, who seems pretty happy with me in a belt.

I've lived in its embrace for a solid year, and on and off for years before that. I'm just a little scared to step back into the belt willingly, knowing that this might be my last taste of freedom, ever, once it closes back on me.

Foxies

GoodyProctor

Saintprudence

This sequence of events has been one of the most interesting things I have read concerning this subject, I am sure, as experiences go, it isn't actually unique, but it is the first time I have read about such an exercise. Thank you both for posting.

Joh

Saintprudence knowing that this might be my last taste of freedom, ever, once it closes back on me.

Why should it be? You both can decide to every time to change it. If you have the feeling it is not right thing to do don't do it.
You can also set a time span to change again for a week or what suite you.

GoodyProctor

Saintprudence I planned to be a belted girl for the rest of my life. I was prepared for that. No self-touch, ever again. It just felt right and calming. And it's not just religion. Something about it makes me feel more pure, for lack of a better word. More like myself. The denial over a long time is like meditation that occasionally helps me go to a higher mental place.

When I joke about Pru writing like she's on the front line of the civil war, this is pretty much what I'm talking about, haha.

Vanessa

GoodyProctor It's helping a lot.

Good!🙂

GoodyProctor Now I know why people want double chains or cables!

Double chains seems not very good,cable if often considered as the "less worst" one.

GoodyProctor Avengers is trying to do the same thing that Spider-Man did, but it doesn't work anywhere near as well.

I agree.

GoodyProctor It was exciting for a while but the enemies are as repetitive as anything I've ever seen.

So, they don't improved a lot about it,too bad...Maybe the Wakanda expansion would do the job(I guess the one about Hawkeye was already mostly done when the game released,so too late to change it much)...

GoodyProctor but the reason I chose to accept a week in the belt is because Pru wanted it and I really like making her happy.

It's sweet!🙂

GoodyProctor Pru doesn't have a mean bone in her body! I doubt she could be really harsh with discipline even if I really pushed her limits, laughs.

Good,especially for you!😉

GoodyProctor I've gone several days and even weeks without masturbating just because I didn't feel like it. But it really drives me crazy knowing that I can't.

Not surprising,the feelings are very different about not doing it because you don't want,and not doing because you can't.

GoodyProctor I don't know how long-term wearers deal with it.

It's hard,but we,generally,have not much choice.Except willingly wearers,mor eor less.

GoodyProctor Consequences or no consequences

I guess it depends which ones...

GoodyProctor her second question will be to ask to confiscate the keys.

And you can say "No,thanks.".

GoodyProctor

But if it is willingly wearing,with a boyfriend/girlfriend,it is easy to no accept to give the keys.

HHelen You didn't want to, but @Laura did and still got a belt.

Not necessary to do the same!🙂

HHelen No, I don't trust her in this and she knows it.

This lack of trsut is,in my opinion,a bigger problem.

HHelen The possibility of being without a belt will provoke her.

And?She would be alone,feel good,and it would not do any bad,as she didn't do ti excessively,when free.And,with her urges relieved,she would be able to concentrate more on her studies.

Jen No way Pru's keeping a straight face though - if you wear it mum's finding out.

I think it is possible,yes.

Angelina of course the grades should come first

I agree.

Angelina it shouldn't exclude that we are allowed to have fun sometimes as well 😉

But many parents think we can't study well enough,if we have "too much" fun...

Angelina yes, but i don't think the danger is high

Maybe not,but it is a risk.

Laura Don't answer at all

It may work,yes.

GoodyProctor right now I'm starting to regret doing even that much!

Why?

GoodyProctor I'm still a little sore that she made me stand in the corner until I agreed to apologize to Tobbe, which took a lot of effort, let me tell you.

🤣

I wondered why you apologize some time after your post,I undertsand it better!😉

Jen

Right!😉

GoodyProctor I've been belted for 25 hours, which is a record for me!

Congratulatiosn(I guess)!

GoodyProctor That one was for Laura and everyone else watching the show to see if I just give up and go fully chaste!

Well,you sound more positive about it than before,so...😉

GoodyProctor

Good for you that you can manage it well so quickly!

Saintprudence And that's a hard thing to ask of myself right now.

Not possible to discuss again your agreement?

Joh

I agree.

GoodyProctor

Joh She has a certain flair for the dramatic and has never liked belting halfway. She feels that being chaste should be a total commitment if it's even going to count as chastity. So while she could make the choice any time (and I'd probably even listen), it calms her nerves to feel like she's picked a path and stuck with it. I wouldn't say she's a belt fetishist, well maybe I would, but she definitely has a deep and poetic relationship with some elements of it. I recognize a lot of her common trigger words and phrases in her report. Especially regarding the topic of permanence. She'll be reading this to herself again on Saturday to work up her courage, I'm sure of it!

Angelina

GoodyProctor She has a certain flair for the dramatic

you both did 😉 your reports are very beautiful and exciting, but they read like a detective novel. 😃
no seriously i sometimes wish i could express my feelings the way you both do here but i am a rather simple minded person and can't write about my feelings that well (talk yes but not write)

Vanessa It's hard,but we,generally,have not much choice.

that is the point unfortunately 🙁

Vanessa But many parents think we can't study well enough,if we have "too much" fun...

for this reason i am always in favour of making precise schedules, we can show this schedule to our parents so that they see that we spend enough time studying and that we have earned the time off. 😉

Jen

Thanks for the updates interesting how you've both liked it. Your experience @GoodyProctor shows how much impact wearing a belt has on your mind - lots of other wearers here are obviously very affected but the sudden change in your writing is amazing to see.

Jen

Saintprudence The denial over a long time is like meditation that occasionally helps me go to a higher mental place.

And

GoodyProctor It feels like my body is just relaxing into the denial.

So wearing a belt is just like an extended day spa😅😂🤣

But seriously there's a few lines like this scattered amongst the thousands of posts which do make me wonder.

Vanessa Not possible to discuss again your agreement?

Yeah permanent is a long time. @Saintprudence not sure if what you write is a fantasy or literal agreement you expect to happen. Not sure if you know either. Sounds like the break has been really positive - so might be positive to repeat sometimes.

GoodyProctor

Vanessa I think it is possible,yes.

I'm glad to report that tea with mother went without incident. Well, for me anyway. I tried to slow down the way chastity is making me withdraw myself. My mother would be suspicious if I wasn't boisterous and annoying! Pru did let slip that she was taking a break from being belted. She got a good lecture about self-control! When it's happening to someone else, it's somehow kind of funny, laughs. I was actually the one who broke security by saying "How do you know I'm not belted right now?" in the middle of that because I wanted to mess with her, but she just scoffed at the prospect and kept going.

Vanessa Well,you sound more positive about it than before,so...😉

Still doesn't mean I'm not counting the hours until tomorrow night!

HHelen

GoodyProctor "Yes" gets me in trouble but it's also the simplest answer

And for good. She will not ask it again.

Vanessa Not necessary to do the same!

Your parents also didn't agree.

Vanessa She would be alone,feel good,and it would not do any bad,as she didn't do ti excessively,when free

If she knows the belt is not always on, she will have stupid ideas.

Vanessa And,with her urges relieved,she would be able to concentrate more on her studies.

It will be allowed anyway.

GoodyProctor

Jen So wearing a belt is just like an extended day spa😅😂🤣

laughs! Not quite. It's more accurate to say my body is getting used to it. "Relaxing probably wasn't the right word.

Jen But seriously there's a few lines like this scattered amongst the thousands of posts which do make me wonder.

You are wise to view posts here with some skepticism.

Jen @Saintprudence not sure if what you write is a fantasy or literal agreement you expect to happen. Not sure if you know either.

Oh, she knows. The whole buildup is part of the fun for her, and now she has an audience. I'll stick with the agreement as long as she wants me to.

Angelina your reports are very beautiful and exciting, but they read like a detective novel. 😃

That sounds like a compliment so I'll take it that way! I think a lot of people here express themselves very well. It's one reason the forum still exists.

Vanessa

Jen make me wonder.

For a possible wearing,in the future,when it would not be your parents who would get the keys?😉

Jen might be positive to repeat sometimes.

I think so,too.

Angelina that is the point unfortunately 🙁

Yes...🙁

Angelina we can show this schedule to our parents so that they see that we spend enough time studying and that we have earned the time off.😉

Do you mean "time for relaxing" or "time without the belt",by "time off"?

GoodyProctor I'll stick with the agreement as long as she wants me to.

So,she can ask for a change?

GoodyProctor I'm glad to report that tea with mother went without incident.

Good for you!🙂

GoodyProctor . I was actually the one who broke security by saying "How do you know I'm not belted right now?" in the middle of that because I wanted to mess with her, but she just scoffed at the prospect and kept going.

You like to take risks!😉

GoodyProctor Still doesn't mean I'm not counting the hours until tomorrow night!

Are you free,now?

HHelen Your parents also didn't agree.

And I don't agree with them about it.

HHelen If she knows the belt is not always on, she will have stupid ideas.

I don't think it would matter,if she know it is only off if alone,and at home.

HHelen It will be allowed anyway.

But not as often as she would like.

Jen

Angelina they see that we spend enough time studying and that we have earned the time off.

Does it work do you get time off?
Bloody studying. It's hard to care.

Angelina

Jen Does it work do you get time off?

i can only answer this question in a few months, i haven't started my studies yet, but i think it can work, even when i was at school my father didn't care how much i studied but how successful i was.

GoodyProctor That sounds like a compliment so I'll take it that way! I think a lot of people here express themselves very well. It's one reason the forum still exists.

yes that was a compliment. unfortunately i can't express myself very well (in english), which is why i tend to write shorter answers.

Jen

GoodyProctor You are wise to view posts here with some skepticism.

Oh I didn't mean it like that - not those posts anyway - more just.. like I know relaxing was silly, but also you don't write relaxing if you're truly hating it.

Max9

GoodyProctor Still doesn't mean I'm not counting the hours until tomorrow night!

Even voluntary wearers do so in the beginning... till they are used to be locned up for some time...

GoodyProctor

HHelen And for good. She will not ask it again.

She'll never stop asking until the answer is "no, permanently, and I'll be going to church and confession regularly now."

GoodyProctor

Jen Oh I didn't mean it like that - not those posts anyway - more just.. like I know relaxing was silly, but also you don't write relaxing if you're truly hating it.

Thank you for making that clear. You're right that at this point I don't truly hate it. I don't like it, I definitely don't love it, but I don't hate it. I think after the past week, the belt and I have come to an understanding with each other. I have a little less fear and a little more respect after a week locked into it. I was mostly offline during the long weekend, which was a holiday in America, but I'm hoping to have enough time to write a final update today on the belting experiment. Preview: I'm not staying in it! laughs

Jen

Vanessa in the future,when it would not be your parents

Hmm might try.

Angelina

Vanessa Do you mean "time for relaxing" or "time without the belt",by "time off"?

i mean time for relexing, my father would rather not approve the other schedule 😂

HHelen

Vanessa And I don't agree with them about it.

So parents have more authority.

Vanessa f she know it is only off if alone,and at home.

I can't control her all the time.

GoodyProctor

Vanessa GoodyProctor I'll stick with the agreement as long as she wants me to.

So,she can ask for a change?

She can. Pru is complicated. Part of the game is feeling forced. She's a voluntary wearer in all the ways that matter. She got hit with masturbation guilt so bad that she feels guilty about her very effective ANTI-masturbation device. It feels sinful for her to enjoy it, so she bends her mind to not enjoy it. I've been around kinky people a long time. I even sort of am one myself, just not as dedicated as others. I know it gets weird sometimes. Since I'm the head of household, Pru can ask for a change and I'll decide if it happens. Usually she wants me to say no so all the responsibility is on me for keeping it going! I can't always guess the times she wants me to say it, so sometimes she ends up genuinely not liking how something plays out, laughs. It's an unusual dynamic but we make it work.

Vanessa GoodyProctor I'm glad to report that tea with mother went without incident.

Good for you!🙂

I'll admit I was pretty worried!

Vanessa GoodyProctor . I was actually the one who broke security by saying "How do you know I'm not belted right now?" in the middle of that because I wanted to mess with her, but she just scoffed at the prospect and kept going.

You like to take risks!😉

Yeah, that was pretty foolhardy. It's like Tobbe said at the beginning, I'm stubborn and want to show off how tough I am. I actually do want to get into a big argument with my mom about how I chose to wear a belt and she can't ever have the keys, but that would be a bad idea. Not worth the hell that would break loose.

Vanessa GoodyProctor Still doesn't mean I'm not counting the hours until tomorrow night!

Are you free,now?

I am, and for a good long while!

Vanessa

Jen

😉

Angelina

I guessed so;my parents would not accept either!

HHelen So parents have more authority.

Of course...

HHelen I can't control her all the time.

Only when you're sure she would stay at home,so.

GoodyProctor I don't like it, I definitely don't love it, but I don't hate it.

It seems your feelings have changed a bit!😉

GoodyProctor She can. Pru is complicated.

Good to know she can ask for a change

And thank you for the explanation,it is interesting to know how it works for you.

GoodyProctor I'll admit I was pretty worried!

Understandable!

GoodyProctor I am, and for a good long while!

🤣

GoodyProctor I'm holding open the prospect of doing it again short-term if Pru asks nicely and I'm in a good mood.

It may happen sooner than you think😉

Not so long ago,you were sure to never accept to wear it without having the keys,even less for a week,so...😉

GoodyProctor

It seems it was a very interesting experience for both of you,with a lot of thinking for you(and maybe for Prudence too,it was unusual for her to be the "dominant").

Laura

GoodyProctor She'll never stop asking until the answer is "no, permanently, and I'll be going to church and confession regularly now."

Or "I wear a chastity belt now" 😂

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