Secondary shield

Vanessa

Good you can try it too;if there is some problem with it,you'll be able to send it back and ask them to repair or exchange it.

Angelina

Vanessa

exactly and if the cb has to go back to the manufacturer, the changes will be finished by christmas 😃

Vanessa

Angelina exactly and if the cb has to go back to the manufacturer, the changes will be finished by christmas 😃

Good!

Renita Need to convince parents to change their approach

As one of the purpose of my chastity belt is to prevents me to masturbate,no chance they change their mind about it.

Renita

Vanessa Rarely the case,for most of us.

Need to convince parents to change their approach

Laura

Renita Need to convince parents to change their approach

According to your another post you are not successive in it so far.

Ines

Vanessa As one of the purpose of my chastity belt is to prevents me to masturbate,no chance they change their mind about it.

And I think this approach, about masturbation, is right.
I know that most of you are wearing reluctantly the belt, and most of you are wearing for a longer term than me and it could make me change my mind, but I think that avoid we can fall in the temptation is a goal of our belts.
Another thing is that some girls can thinking that it will be more bearable if they could experiment some sensations, but I think that absence of stimulation is the objective. And for that, for this sacrifice, I believe, every day more firmly, in that, this sacrifice, just must be done willingly.

Renita

Vanessa As one of the purpose of my chastity belt is to prevents me to masturbate,no chance they change their mind about it.

That's not about you only. And what do they try to achieve?

Vanessa

Ines

You're so cruel🙁

More seriously,I think it is not that good to prevent a woman to masturbate.Even if excluding the good parts we know(getting orgasms,feeling well,etc...),there is still valid arguments.It does no harm to anyone(except if excessive),and some people think it is good for the health(maybe there is scientific studies about the benefits of female masturbation,but not sure).And it is better for a woman to know her body,what she likes the most,how she reacts and such;it would help her to have a better sexual life later,with her husband.

Angelina

I hope too,and hope you'll "like" it!

Renita

I don't understand your first sentence.

They want me to not masturbate or have sex anymore until I'm married.

Angelina

my new belt should be delivered on friday, i am a little nervous and hope that the new belt is comfortable to wear 🙂

Renita

Vanessa I don't understand your first sentence.

You are not only girl suffered by secondary shield. Other parents might be more reasonable.

Vanessa They want me to not masturbate or have sex anymore until I'm married.

I understand, but why?

Angelina

Renita

there doesn't necessarily have to be reasons some parents just want it 🙁

@Vanessa
like it would be a little too well expressed, I hope that I can accept it 😉

Vanessa

Renita You are not only girl suffered by secondary shield. Other parents might be more reasonable.

Sure.But I think it is mainly used to prevent masturbation or some kind of sex.

Renita I understand, but why?

I've answered it before:

Vanessa Firstly,they probably thought I knew enough how my body react and how other men/women body react to be able to be a good wife,even sexually.Masturbating and having sex was forbidden,and severely punished,but they probably knew,without proof,I sometimes do it,but tolerate it.I guess they accepted I cheated a bit,while using these rules to be sure it is not too often,and accepted I learnt how my,and my partner's,body reacted when having sex/orgasming.

Secondly,I was going to start my Master's degree soon after(the belt was locked permanently a bit before the last partiels for my Licence),and,as these studies are harder,they probably thought it would be better for me to concentrate mainly on studies,not on sexual pleasure.

Thirdly,a bit shaming,but I tended to be more "sexual" since I started university...Masturbating more often,having new boyfriends/girlfriends more often...And,more disobedience,breaking my "sexual rules" more often,and often punished for it,including wearing my chastity belt for some time...My parents may have thought I should be "calmed" sexually a bit,then preventing it would be better than punishing me for it.

I guess there can be other reasons,but these are probably the main ones;not totally sure,however,I don't discuss it much with my parents,as I don't feel at ease to talk about it with them...

Angelina there doesn't necessarily have to be reasons some parents just want it 🙁

Right,they don't have to explain us exactly their reasons,it don't change things much...

Angelina like it would be a little too well expressed, I hope that I can accept it 😉

Better said this way,sure.😉

Renita

Vanessa I've answered it before

You are not doing your Master anymore.

Angelina

Renita

and now she needs to focus on finding a job 😉 , it definitely doesn't make any difference.

Vanessa

Renita

Yes,but I must now focus on my search for work,and related activities,then on my work,etc...And it is only one of the probable reasons.

Angelina

Especially as I want to do it well for every potential employer.

Renita

Angelina and now she needs to focus on finding a job

It doesn't require such concentration as study. Or a secondary shield should be worn for interview only 😃

Angelina

Renita

but to write the applications requires concentration, not as much as for a study but much 😉

Angelina

Vanessa

exactly, even if you don't like the cb (like me), you won't get distracted by mastubation from important things 😉

Renita

Vanessa And it is only one of the probable reasons.

Why not talk to them again since the situation has changed?

Vanessa

Angelina

I agree.I think that being prevented to masturbate and have sex,and trying to concentrate in other things(inclduing studies)to manage the urges,have impacted my study habits,and,so,my grades.

Renita

As it is not the only reason,and as they seems to like the idea of making me wait until marriage.

Sara2001

Vanessa As it is not the only reason,and as they seems to like the idea of making me wait until marriage.

I think that's very typical. My father thinks the same and Angelina's father, too. No matter how the circumstances are. Anything that prevents masturbation stays in place all the time until marriage or the key to the equipment will be given to our partners during wedding and then they decided how long, when and why anything stays in place.

Angelina

Vanessa

have your grades improved during your studies since you wear your belt permanently ?

I haven't noticed any changes in my school performance yet, but I was a good student before 🙂

@Sara2001

I agree with you 100% except for the last sentence 😉

Renita

Vanessa and as they seems to like the idea of making me wait until marriage.

So, they care more about your relationship with another girl than masturbation?

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