Free from CB

I don't think they would prevent us to meet when Emilie doesn't wear her chastity belt,as they know we would not accept it.They would like it,and may propose it,but we would be allowed to say "No.",without such consequences.

It is still a bit too soon to be married for now,even if we want to marry in the future.

Angelina

Vanessa

i don't want to pressure you to get married, you should do it whenever you want, i just want to list it as an alternative in case your parents go too far

Vanessa

Angelina

Yes,it would be a solution,but in last resort.Being married due to this,and not because we're ready for it,won't be the better start of our marriage.

Angelina

Vanessa not because we're ready for it

when will you be ready to
(your opinion) ?

Vanessa

Angelina

We want to have our own flat,and have been living alone together for a while.Being financially independent is important,too.

Angelina

Vanessa

do you think it's possible within the next year or two?

Vanessa

Angelina

I would like it,but it is unlikely.

It depends on the jobs we'll get;and the more experienced we're,the more we have chances to get a long term one.Then it'll be easier to find a flat.

Then,we want to live together a few months,and then start to prepare our marriage.

Angelina

Vanessa

that means it may well take until you're 27 or 28 to be free ?

somehow i feel sorry for you, but i think it's good that you organize an independent life before you get married

is it the same problem with your twin brother, he still lives at home?

Vanessa

Angelina

It can easily be the case,yes...But I think too it is better to be independant(financially and not living with my parents anymore)first.

It is the same for my twin,yes,but he's more free than me,as you know.However,he tends to think like me,marrying his girlfriend only when independant,and after trying to live alone together a few months.

Angelina

Vanessa

is your brother's job situation as difficult as yours?

i hope that financial independence will soon be possible and that both of you can be free 🙂

Vanessa

Angelina

Yes;mainly,until we have enough experience,we have a hard time to try to get a long term job.Having a diploma help,but many employers only offer short term jobs to people without much experience(and it is generally cheaper for the employers).

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