Belted siblings

Angelina

hi, i think it's very strange that your sister at 17? doesn't know what masturbation is. i think she should know because she can't do it anyway. but that's just my opinion

Lukas

Angelina Well, both our parents and the German school systems aren't that much about teaching sexual education. I learned about masturbation when a then-friend of mine told me and I tried it out. It seems my sister never found out until recently because nobody told her.

Laura

Lukas But she could find by herself that the belt prevented it

Angelina

Lukas the German school systems

You're German too? , welcome to the club 😉

Lukas It seems my sister never found out until recently because nobody told her.

i started doing it when i was 14 and knew what it was a little later but if your sister never did it is logical

Sara2001

Lukas Well, both our parents and the German school systems aren't that much about teaching sexual education.

I learned everything about sexuality and masturbation in the German school system. We had sexuality for weeks in biology class and society class. We learned everything from how to use a condom, how anti baby pill is working, anything about sex and pregnancy, even sex industry and prostitution was a topic. We had it several times, starting from elementary school.

Have you visited a private school? I thought even they have to teach it.

I also visited a school in northern Germany.

Lukas

Laura Yeah, that's probably right. Maybe she actually did and it's just that no one ever told that there's a name for what she can't do.

Laura

Lukas Most important that the belt works as supposed to

Lukas

Angelina You're German too? , welcome to the club 😉

Yeah, Northern Germany 😁

Angelina i started doing it when i was 14 and knew what it was a little later but if your sister never did it is logical

Well, I was 13 .

Lukas

Sara2001 I learned everything about sexuality and masturbation in the German school system. We had sexuality for weeks in biology class and society class. We learned everything from how to use a condom, how anti baby pill is working, anything about sex and pregnancy, even sex industry and prostitution was a topic. We had it several times, starting from elementary school.

Well, you're school sure did a better job than ours I would say.

Sara2001 Have you visited a private school? I thought even they have to teach it.

Both my sister and I went (or in her case go) to a half-private, christian school, I believe that's part of why they didn't teach us much about all those things except for "If you have sex, you can get pregnant our catch diseases, so make sure you only have sex with a person who is healthy and in a relationship with you".

Vanessa

Angelina

Yes,but if it is unusual for her,she may feel a bit unsure about how and when doing it.

But,yes,she should be happy about it.

Sara2001 Yes, he accepts that he can not change it and that she can not change it, too. He hates her restriction and feels very bad for her but so far he doesn't want to quit the relationship.

He seems very understanding and compassionate,and probably an important support for her;

Angelina

I agree.Talks are important for them.

He seems to accept it well.

Lukas

I think you can tell her.Even if she didn't know the word,she probably have some guesses about the fact.And that the belt prevented her to touch her "there",too,to prevent it.As long as she didn't experience an orgasm before,knowing what masturbation means would probably not change much her frustration,I think.And it would be helpful for her if she doesn't want to tell her friend about her chastity belt,but want to make her think she have done it.

Sara2001

It is uncommon in France,I think.If I remember well,we had only one lesson,for 1 or 2 hours about it,and it was mainly about the risks and how to protect us from them.

Renita

I don't think it would be helpful.Her friend may be in trouble if her parents don't like it and don't know their daughter does it.And if she guess they discovered it due tu @Lukas' family,their friendship would stop.

Renita

Lukas But anyways, the problem is, Emmie also told her to try masturbation

Maybe there is a way to inform her parents about it also to prevent further "experience".

Renita

Vanessa Her friend may be in trouble if her parents don't like it and don't know their daughter does it.

That's the goal.

Lukas I told her that she might be able to try it when she has her period next time and is able to unlock herself

It will end up she will not be unlocked anymore.

Angelina

@Sara2001

exactly the same with me, I had already in the primary school a small teaching unit, on the grammar school it went on from the 7th or 8th class with an intensive course of several weeks, in which I learned everything about mastubation, sex and contraception

@Lukas

it's probably because your school is Christian, in a public school the system is much more liberal

@Vanessa

i don't know how the school system works in france but probably your school was also very conservative

Lukas

Angelina it's probably because your school is Christian, in a public school the system is much more liberal

That seems pretty logical, yes.

To get to the topic I asked about: After the discussion on here I told my sister what masturbation is. She immediately asked me how it works and I told her that a man or a woman touches their own genitals in a way that they like and that it leads to an orgasm for most people. Turns out she didn't even knew what an orgasm is (even I learned that at school, so it seems the school got worse instead of better over the last couple of years). I gave her my old biology book so she could do her own research and after a couple of hours she came back to me. As I expected, she was angry and frustrated because she couldn't try it out what Emmie told her to do. She said she tried but the belt made it impossible. After talking about the topic for a bit, I told her that she might be able to try it when she has her period next time and is able to unlock herself. Of course, masturbating in a school bathroom isn't ideal, but she could at least try it that way. Shen then told me that she is on her period since yesterday and that she would never had the idea to try it when she unlocked herself due to having her period. She thanked me for the idea and told me she might try it tomorrow. I guess after my worries of opening "Pandoras Box" it actually turned out okay when I told her.

Vanessa

Angelina i don't know how the school system works in france but probably your school was also very conservative

I think so.And it seems it is not mandatory,every school may be able to choose how to teach it.If the director,and some other important staff members,think masturbation is wrong,and having sex outside marriage is wrong too,they could easily decide the only part which should be teached is the one concerning health...

However,I managed to learn more about it by myself!😉

Lukas

It was probably a very stressing talk,and frustrating day for her!And she could hate the belt more,now she knows it is made to prevent her to masturbate,too.

Angelina i wonder if she even knew why she wears the belt?

She probably thought only about preventing her to have sex.

Renita That's the goal.

You're mean!

Renita It will end up she will not be unlocked anymore.

if she's caught,it could be stricter for her,yes.

Angelina

As she does it in the toilet bathroom,it is not very safe...@Sara2001's sister knows it well...

Lukas

Good she wasn't caught,but too bad she didn't managed to reach orgasm...But she probably need time to know what feel the best for her.

The main problem,in my opinion,is she's already wanting to try it again the next day;so it would be very hard for her when she would have to keep the belt on permanently until ner hext period,with no way to do it again when it is locked...And while not showing too much she's more frustrated now than before...

Angelina

Lukas

she didn't know what an orgasm was 😮

i wonder if she even knew why she wears the belt? also i wonder if you never talked about this topic?

even when i was free i never masturbated during my period, but if it's the only way i might try it, but she has to be careful not to get caught 😉

Angelina

Renita

only if she gets caught, so she has to be careful

Renita

Angelina only if she gets caught, so she has to be careful

She will be caught sooner or later.

Lukas

Okay, so my sister tried it today. First of all, she didn't get caught, so no problems with our parents. She went to the school toilet and tried it when she was changing her tampon. The only problem is, that she didn't make it to an orgasm in the time the break lasted. She tried what she found out after I let her use my laptop yesterday (she's finally getting more comfortable with using the internet so she might get onto this forum sooner or later as well). She said she really liked the feeling but that it took too much time. The break was over too soon so she had to put the belt back on before reallly achieving anything. She said she is very frustrated and "nervous" as she calls it (I guess the right word would be horny) ever since and that she can't wait for the next day where she can take off the belt at school. I'm feeling a bit sorry for her to be honest, but at least she got to try it for the first time.

Angelina

Lukas

if she tries it more often, it will also work, but she must always be careful 😉

Angelina

Vanessa As she does it in the toilet bathroom,it is not very safe...@Sara2001's sister knows it well...

but there is a big difference, sara's sister knew what an orgasm is and she knew what masturbation is, sara's sister has clearly broken rules, the sister of @Lukas could talk her way out of it by claiming she heard it and was curious. besides, she does not have as much to lose as the sister of @Sara2001

Lukas

I wish your sister much success 😉 it is only a small chance but she has it

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