Drinking alcohol

Laura

Daniil How do your parents and people around you feel about same-sex relationships?

Well, it's not appreciated in my family.

Angelina

i give you an example

i work one day with my father and have a fight with him. if i would work with camryn this fight would also influence my private life, if i fight with my father i can go home to camryn in the evening 😉

Daniil

my dad is very open for it, only my grandma doesn't like it very much, camryn's parents think it is absolutely ok

Vanessa

Daniil How do your parents and people around you feel about same-sex relationships?

My parents have no problem with it;they feared a bit I would get bad comments and lose some friends due to it(they were right...),and told me it would be harder for us to have a family,the first time I asked to do the approval talk with my first girlfriend,but they supported me well.

However,with my present girlfriend,it is harder,her parents accept it a bit(even if they never say "love" when they talk about our relationship),but some members of her family are totally against it(I guess some of them would not allow her to date another woman,if they could decide(I guess they tried to convince her parents to make her stop the relationship,but,luckily,they haven't agreeed),even if it would make her unhappy).Her sister is very supportive with us,however.

Angelina i give you an example

i work one day with my father and have a fight with him. if i would work with camryn this fight would also influence my private life, if i fight with my father i can go home to camryn in the evening 😉

We can fight with our loved one for many things,and I don't think the ones about work are the more difficult to solve!😉

And the fights at work should not affect our life at home(not always easy,sure).

Angelina only my grandma doesn't like it very much

She doesn't accept it better,now?

Angelina

I don't think so,they probably only consider private life of other people should stay private and not be discussed publicly,especially by people not involved in it.Which is understandable,I think.

Renita

Daniil How do your parents and people around you feel about same-sex relationships?

Nobody cares.

Angelina

Renita

you're not having a same-sex relationship either 😉

Renita

Angelina you're not having a same-sex relationship either

Never. I'm just straight. But it doesn't mean I condemn others.

Angelina

Renita

thank you, but my point is that nobody around you cares because it doesn't concern you 😉

Renita

Angelina nobody around you cares because it doesn't concern you

I might be bi for them 😃 Seriously people of my circle consider the discussion of personal life of others as bad manners.

Angelina

Renita Seriously people of my circle consider the discussion of personal life of others as bad manners.

but then they're not very good friends.

Angelina

Vanessa We can fight with our loved one for many things,and I don't think the ones about work are the more difficult to solve!😉

but there need not be unnecessary disputes 😉

Vanessa She doesn't accept it better,now?

a little better, she ignores it most of the time, but unfortunately she does not like it 🙁

Vanessa I don't think so,they probably only consider private life of other people should stay private and not be discussed publicly,especially by people not involved in it.Which is understandable,I think.

when other people are around i agree with you, but when we talk intimately with our best friends there should also be conversations about private things

Vanessa

Angelina but there need not be unnecessary disputes 😉

Sure.

Angelina a little better, she ignores it most of the time, but unfortunately she does not like it 🙁

If it is a bit better,there is good chances she'll be finally ok with it,in some time.🙂

Angelina when other people are around i agree with you, but when we talk intimately with our best friends there should also be conversations about private things

In such circumstances,I agree.Even if it depends en each of us.Some can talk about it easily(especially with good friends),some are more shy.And,even with good friends,it is in semi-private with a few people only,not totally publicly.

Angelina

Vanessa In such circumstances,I agree.Even if it depends en each of us.

that's true, of course, I only assume myself, but you are right, it is different for everyone

Angelina

Vanessa

ah ok, these are very understandable rules, I think it is very important to pay attention to health.

what do your parents define as drunk, gives a maximum amount of alcohol, or rather your general condition?

Vanessa

Angelina I think it is very important to pay attention to health.

Right,I agree with them about it,too,even if I got severe punishments for such offenses.

Angelina what do your parents define as drunk, gives a maximum amount of alcohol, or rather your general condition?

Both.I should not drink more than 2 glasses of strong alcohol(like whisky,even if mixed with coca),or 3 of light ones(3 glasses of wine,for example).Beers,as it is not a glass but a bottle,is limited to 2,too.But,if I look drunk,I can be punished too,even if I tell them I've not drink more than allowed(rarely true,if I look drunk...).I don't like to have these limits,especially as I take care to not be drunk anyway.

Angelina

Vanessa

my father generally doesn't allow hair alcohol until i'm 18. my limit is similar i'm allowed to drink 3 glasses of wine or champagne. i'm even allowed to drink 4 glasses of beer or bottles (because there's not that much alcohol in them)

Vanessa .But,if I look drunk,I can be punished too

that's what my father wanted too, i asked him to take an alcohol test if he suspected it, so that i could prove the opposite. just because i look a little tired, i will definitely not be punished.

Vanessa

Angelina my father generally doesn't allow hair alcohol until i'm 18. my limit is similar i'm allowed to drink 3 glasses of wine or champagne. i'm even allowed to drink 4 glasses of beer or bottles (because there's not that much alcohol in them)

Harder rule for strong alcohol,but better one for beer.When allowed,how much would it be?2 glasses maximum,too?

Angelina that's what my father wanted too, i asked him to take an alcohol test if he suspected it, so that i could prove the opposite.

It is a good idea!

Angelina

Vanessa Harder rule for strong alcohol,but better one for beer.When allowed,how much would it be?2 glasses maximum,too?

hard alcohol is generally only allowed in germany after the age of 18, so my father acts according to the general law. how much i do not know yet, when i am 18 we will talk about it

Vanessa

Angelina

Same in France(but it applies to light alcohol,like wine or beer,too),and it was only allowed for me after I turned 18.

Angelina

Vanessa ,and it was only allowed for me after I turned 18.

also light alcohol ?

Vanessa

Angelina

Yes,except a glass of wine at family dinner.

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