Hi all,
sorry for going quite for so long. Guess we all had some challenging times.
Hope you and all your loved ones are well!
So I received my belt a few months ago. Gosh what did I get myself into here.
It really took me some time to adjust to it. And I guess, I should have listened to you all and should have gone for the hip version. It looks so much more comfortable when Ann is wearing hers.
But I am not complaining. It definitely had a huge positive effect on our sex life. I really really did not expect this at all.
As I feared, I am now wearing mine more regular then Ann does wear hers. But I am really ok with this. Don't get me wrong. I have my moments when I want to just throw it in the bin. Initially Ann and I put each other into theirs and just pretended they weren't there.
I got really frustrated because Ann made it look so easy while I was struggling to get used to it. I am still not sure if she is just an amazing actress or hers is really so much more comfortable.
After I while she tricked me into wearing mine by rewarding me if I did without complaining. I am allowed to put her in hers whenever I want as long as I am wearing mine at the same time. The problem though is, that I have the feeling I can't punish her with this. When have my moment and get really frustrated, I put her in hers. But it just doesn't bother her. Or at least seems like it.
So it lost its threat and "relieve" knowing she is suffering too.
Right now I am wearing mine pretty much whenever we are home. (Doesn't help, that I have been doing homeoffice for a couple of months now.) I haven't been brave enough yet to wear it outside. Although Ann is trying every trick in the book to get me do just that.
Ok, enough from me. Just one more thing, I am glad I agreed to doing this!