Hi all,

sorry for going quite for so long. Guess we all had some challenging times.

Hope you and all your loved ones are well!

So I received my belt a few months ago. Gosh what did I get myself into here.

It really took me some time to adjust to it. And I guess, I should have listened to you all and should have gone for the hip version. It looks so much more comfortable when Ann is wearing hers.

But I am not complaining. It definitely had a huge positive effect on our sex life. I really really did not expect this at all.

As I feared, I am now wearing mine more regular then Ann does wear hers. But I am really ok with this. Don't get me wrong. I have my moments when I want to just throw it in the bin. Initially Ann and I put each other into theirs and just pretended they weren't there.

I got really frustrated because Ann made it look so easy while I was struggling to get used to it. I am still not sure if she is just an amazing actress or hers is really so much more comfortable.

After I while she tricked me into wearing mine by rewarding me if I did without complaining. I am allowed to put her in hers whenever I want as long as I am wearing mine at the same time. The problem though is, that I have the feeling I can't punish her with this. When have my moment and get really frustrated, I put her in hers. But it just doesn't bother her. Or at least seems like it.

So it lost its threat and "relieve" knowing she is suffering too.

Right now I am wearing mine pretty much whenever we are home. (Doesn't help, that I have been doing homeoffice for a couple of months now.) I haven't been brave enough yet to wear it outside. Although Ann is trying every trick in the book to get me do just that.

Ok, enough from me. Just one more thing, I am glad I agreed to doing this!

    Zoe

    hi, i tried to read your story again, because i honestly didn't know who you are anymore (too many users here) 😂
    I gotta be honest, I didn't make it

    so can you do a short intro again (so why you wear the belt and what has happened so far ) ?

        Angelina

        Hi all,

        my girlfriend suggested wearing chastity belts a few months ago. I thought it was a joke at the time and laughed it off. But she kept mentioning it from time to time. So I finally caved in and agreed to give it a go.

        I am scared like hell. But what can I lose?

        I know, it is silly, but I would like to wear one that looks nice as well as beeing as comfortable as possible.

        It looks like a lot of you had not the luck to have a say. But if you had, which one would you want for yourself?

        Many thanks,
        (scared and curious) Zoe

        🙂

            Laura

            you really think I'll see that after 500+ posts in this topic ? 😂

            Zoe But if you had, which one would you want for yourself?

            i would definitely not wear a belt because i am convinced that i am a good girl even without a belt 😉

            but i think it's different in a relationship. good luck to you both. i understand that you sometimes hate the belt, but in general the belt seems to have a positive effect on your relationship 🙂

                Angelina but then you should make sure that she can breathe properly and does not get any problems with her skin.

                Vanessa Not good,if it is that tight.It could injure her.

                I take her health very seriously. We have a rule that if she feels any pain or she has any skin issues, she MUST tell me immediately. No issues so far. Also, I get a quick glance every time I unlock or lock her belt, although I don't look at that area too much to avoid embarrassing her.

                      Angelina

                      Right.

                      Laura

                      It was used,but not permanently.

                      Zoe

                      Thanks for giving us some news!🙂

                      Some big changes for you and your girlfriend,but it seems it was pretty good for both of you,and you don't hate your chastity belt too much.

                      Not surprising Ann manage it better,as her sex drive is lower than your sex drive.

                      Angelina

                      I think too health must be the number one concern when wearing a chastity belt.

                                Vanessa I think too health must be the number one concern when wearing a chastity belt.

                                this is exactly what i think, a chastity belt should never be worn at the expense of health

                                    8 days later

                                    Vanessa I think too health must be the number one concern when wearing a chastity belt.

                                    Angelina this is exactly what i think, a chastity belt should never be worn at the expense of health

                                    This is why I don't understand thighband usage. Having to always walk slowly seems too restrictive, especially for a teenager, and is very hard to hide in public. Not being able to move legs freely sounds very unhealthy, too. I can't imagine making my daughter wear something like that.

                                          shinydiamond77 Not being able to move legs freely sounds very unhealthy, too.

                                          well it sounds to me as unhealthy as wearing a cheap belt. i agree with you, it's a difficult situation to define. well there is a certain safety standard that our parents don't want to fall below and within this safety standard parents should take care of their daughters' health

                                            I think that both of you have part of reason.
                                            Usage of bands most of time is not healthy, for sure, but you need them if you wish wear a totally secure belt, but for sure, as @shinydiamond77 says, be unable of move legs for long time is unhealthy. Or even sit so much time with them, I remember my skin issues in Christmas.
                                            But, @Angelina is right in the usage of not branded belts can be source of problems for bad fit, bad long usage material, sharp, pinches...

                                              Angelina I know as you've talked about that before, and playing basketball often in these days would definitely have an effect on your eventual height. I have a male friend who improve his height a lot after school, may be through surgical operations elongating his leg bones. Your partner's willingness to be belted like you during the transitory period before your marriage sharing your feelings really moved me. I am glad that you and Vanessa both have good partners during these strange experience.

                                                  Yes once I worked with a female colleague who has graduated from a local island cheongsam school uniform secondary school for one year. I think she did not wear cheongsam all the day outside school or during the holidays, but her upper thighs always joined together when sitting or walking, although she was then wearing trousers. That is very strange posture. So if you have worn thigh bands 24/7 you are custom to it, you may still act like someone wearing very tight skirts even you are not and free from the bands. But how changes happen is worth reporting
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                                                  I also can't think of putting someone in a belt, except in cases like Indonesia rioting 1998 or some years ago there were news reports of mass raping in Germany, then wearing a belt is just protective like wearing masks. I think belting if it is a long term or wear more equipment that would cause hardship in real life. And at least masturbation should be allowed for long term wear. The difference is huge. Mental health affects physical health. If there's no other person, masturbation only make you feel well with no side effect if it is not excess while not affecting someone's chastity or relationships.

                                                    Laura Exactly but being belted for a long time may be too restrictive and uncomfortable?

                                                        Laura Many Christians here, without being belted, avoid premarital sex . A male schoolmate of mine even pray and stop masturbating . A man met another Christian and refrain from having sex for eight years until they married. There are some 'one night stand' people, but generally people in Far East are very family oriented and culturally sex conservative. https://chinese.gospelherald.com/articles/26007/20170731/%E5%AD%AB%E8%80%80%E5%A8%81%E9%99%B3%E7%BE%8E%E8%A9%A9%E5%AE%88%E8%B2%9E%E5%85%AB%E5%B9%B4%E6%AD%A5%E5%85%A5%E6%95%99%E5%A0%82-%E9%96%8B%E5%B1%95-%E6%84%9B%E7%9A%84%E6%95%85%E4%BA%8B%E4%B8%8B%E9%9B%86.htm