Hey,
thanks for your input! So I guess Fancy Steel is out of the question. So what I now gathered from this form. My-steel and neosteel are the favorite brands. But I also think Tollyboy would be back in business soon. Any preferences there? Which brand has the better reputation? Is any of those belts easier to conceal?
Since imho the my-steel page is easier to navigate I tried a few configurations and I am still not 100% sure I know what everything is. I hope I don't any anyone here, but I guess some of you are the leading experts here.
Total vs comfort: As I understand it the difference here is basically the additional padlock that can be used to adjust the total model a little bit. I guess that does add extra security, since measurements can't be that precise unless you go to their shop in germany and also the weight of a girl can probably fluctuate a little. The con is the extra padlock that might be more visible. Can anybody elaborate on the pros and cons here a little bit? Security is obviously a concern, but it should be concealable under most normal clothing.
Chains vs String vs Crotch strap: I haven't seen anybody here who really endorses chains for long time wear. They are less secure, harder to hide and sometimes uncomfortable to sit, please correct me if I am wrong. So the question here remains String vs Crotch band. String is easier to hide and easier to wear I guess. Some people here raised concerns about security, since it is also easier to slide something under the front shield from behind when not wearing thigh bands. Crotch band is (a lot) harder to wear, but more secure. Also defecating seams a bit easier in those, or is that an illusion? I guess String gets the advantage here, though I am not quite sure. One question: Does the crotch strap allow access to the girls derriere without unlocking the belt? That would be something to think about.
Waist vs Hip: As far as I could gather. Hip gives more freedom of movement, but can have some friction problem on skinny hips and Waist is more secure, when not wearing any thigh bands, since the front shield will be pressed harder against your virginal region when you spreed your legs. Since she is a rather skinny girl and thigh bands are rather unpractical in day to day use I was giving security the advantage here. How grave are the movement restrictions on a waist model. Since she teaches Kindergarten she has to sit on/crawl around the floor with children quite often. Would that still be possible? Or does the hip model here have a clear advantage? I guess sports is out of the question with either model, or is there some sports you can easily do? Not from a concealment point of view, but a range of motion pov.
Ergonomic vs super-ergonomic: Ergonomic waistband is to reduce preasure points and I guess is a must for a serious belt. I don't really understand when you should use super-ergonomic instead. Is there a difference between hip and waist? Does it depend on the size of the girl, or the difference in size between hip and waist. Does anybody have any input here? What do you guys have?
Travel System: Yes, no reason against it.
Front Shield: Normal Version, since the girl is rather small. I am not even sure what the longer version is for. Does it provide extra security or comfort? Slottet or urine holes?
Secondary shield: I didn't see an option to buy a secondary shield, but it looks to me, that my-steel always have a secondary shield installed. Is that correct? How does it feel to pee in a mysteel? Are there any tipps on cleaning afterwards. How do you handle your "time of the month"? Do you have to be unlocked? Tampons underneath sound like they would prevent you from peeing....
Convex or flat front shield: I don't understand the difference here. Convex is more comfortable to wear, right? Does it also provide extra security, since there is no direct contact between shield and her lady parts? Is it harder to conceal under clothes?
Related question: I have wondered if it would still be possible for a girl to achieve orgasm with a strong vibrator if she just presses it against her front shield long enough. Is that a misconception? Are there any remedies?
Are there any accessories you would recommend. Thigh bands sound fun, but are not very practicable since you would have to throw away all her trousers and also have a big wardrobe problem in winter. Obviously not for long time use, but for play time or time at home. What about front and back dildos. I know this is an unwed chastity forum, but some of you probably already have a partner as a key holder or are not that keen on preserving their hymen, so I will ask this question anyway. If it isn't appropriate than please ignore it. Does anybody ever have the pleasure of trying one of those. Are they fun? Is it easy to achieve orgasm with them, are they just a small but constant source of pleasure, or are they just a nuisance? Who here would love to have one, if it was allowed to them?
Ines
I, that I hope become in a belted wife, I share your point of view, the question is... Does she shares it?
We will see. We have a pretty good connection here. She still demands her orgasms every time, but she accepts it if I she is denied one, because she hasn't earned one yet.
Vanessa
The first thing to do should be talking with her about it.She may be submissive about her sexual life,but may not accept to wear a chastity belt.Even for a few days.
You are obviously right. As I have said I haven't approached the subject yet and therefore there is no way of knowing if she will accept. Obviously we will have a long talk before, since this is still a big investment on my part and I am not going to force her to do anything. But I have a feeling she might be inclined to do it. Anyway before I do, I want to gather as much information as I can on the topic. Are there some good resources here on how to do maintenance for a belted girl? How often to wash the belt? How to shower? How to clean after peeing/defecating? etc.
BR
