Which chastity belt do you recommend?

Renita

Vanessa It is very unlikely you find one if not searching for it,however.Sure,there is cheap ones on Amazon,for example,but it wouldn't be suggested if you're not searching especially for one.

It will pop-up among sex toys 😃

Angelina

Renita

this is true for every chastity belt, because in general the belt is often used as a sex toy 😉

Vanessa

Angelina but it is definitely much more restrictive than "only" the belt

Sure.

Renita It will pop-up among sex toys 😃

Maybe,but,even in this case,it would probably need some interest to know what it is and how it works.And many would think it is used only during foreplay.

HHelen

She want a very discreet one,and find the classical ones are not discreet enough.

Angelina unfortunately yes 🙁

I agree!🙁

Renita

I think it is only fetishists who buy one because they were inspired by a sex toy.

Renita

Angelina because in general the belt is often used as a sex toy

And the next question should be if there is a real prototype for this toy.

HHelen

shinydiamond77 I wasn't going to buy a full steel belt anyway, so a cable belt is the only option.

What's wrong with a full steel belt? At least it meets the expectations so far.

Angelina

HHelen

unfortunately yes 🙁

but probably the price is the problem

Angelina

Renita

i believe that most people who buy a brand name belt are either big fetishists, or really use the belt for its original purpose 🙂

but i'm not quite sure that was your question 😂

Renita

Angelina i believe that most people who buy a brand name belt are either big fetishists, or really use the belt for its original purpose

Or inspired by sex toys 😃

Laura

Renita Probably @shinydiamond77 did it this way 😂

Angelina

Laura

by the logic of the situation, she would have bought an expensive belt or?

Angelina

Vanessa I think it is only fetishists who buy one because they were inspired by a sex toy.

hmm, with some parents i wonder how they came up with the idea of the chastity belt. if they just did research how they can protect their daughter or if they already had this fetish 😂

HHelen

Vanessa She want a very discreet one,and find the classical ones are not discreet enough.

Meaning cheap.

Christine

Angelina if they just did research how they can protect their daughter or if they already had this fetish

The former.

Vanessa

Angelina

I guess it is probably the ones who do research on it.I doubt fetishists consider it as something which can be used for the original meaning,it is more used only as a sex toy for them.

Angelina unfortunately it is too easy to find this device 🙁

I agree!🙁

Tobbe Therefore I think My-Steel sells significantly more females belts, but also the smaller lock gives them a more feminine design.

It seems there is more people wearing a My-Steel one,here.

Angelina

Do you know why he choose to use another brand?

HHelen

Often the case,yes.

shinydiamond77

Hello everyone, I'm back with an update.
The belt has arrived. Long story short - it works as I thought it would.

Once it arrived I had to put it together, turns out it there's some assembly required. After that I showed it to my daughter. I didn't tell her about the belt until then, she was surprised. Without going into detail, I told her what the belt does.
I expected her to protest, but she didn't protest pretty much at all. She was worried, but she only asked questions about if it's possible to go to the bathroom while wearing it and such.
Fitting the belt took about 40 minutes, good thing it's is adjustable. After doing the last adjustments I asked her to put it on for real, and wear it for 2 hours.
Today she wore it for 3 hours, and I'll also ask her to wear it overnight.
So far she hasn't complained about any sort of pain or chafing. The biggest problem for her is going to the bathroom, but she'll get used to it. She also says she can feel the shield pressing from below, but it's not painful.
It took some fitting, but security is good. The shield covers completely, and because it's always pushing up it can't be moved aside.

Angelina hmm, with some parents i wonder how they came up with the idea of the chastity belt. if they just did research how they can protect their daughter or if they already had this fetish

I don't even understand why chastity belts can be a fetish. They're literally the opposite of sex.

aslan_asena

Christine The former.

My mother found out about modern chastity belts via google. She knew that there was an ancient western invention and wanted to know, if there were also modern versions. That was how she found My-Steel, Neosteel, Access Denied and so on.

She's definitely only interested in using belts for protection and control. Without any link to fetish plays.

Angelina

aslan_asena She's definitely only interested in using belts for protection and control.

just like my father, he was looking on google how to prevent mastubation and found the chastity belt pretty quickly

unfortunately it is too easy to find this device 🙁

Tobbe

Angelina unfortunately it is too easy to find this device

It's hard to find female chastity belts at Neosteels site!
Therefore I think My-Steel sells significantly more females belts, but also the smaller lock gives them a more feminine design.

Angelina

Tobbe

my first belt was from neosteel, so it seems to have been more of a coincidence that my father chose this manufacturer.

now i wear a mysteel belt which is unfortunately as safe as neosteel, but (i agree with you) the design and wearing comfort is a bit better 🙂

Angelina

Vanessa I guess it is probably the ones who do research on it.I doubt fetishists consider it as something which can be used for the original meaning,it is more used only as a sex toy for them.

actually I think so too, a cb can be used for both purposes, but very few people combine both

Vanessa Do you know why he choose to use another brand?

in the beginning he didn't know anything about mysteel, he only knew neosteel, only when he ordered the bra and the tighbands he discovered mysteel and at least he liked the design better (and honestly i did too, even if i don't want to gloss over the belt)

Amira

shinydiamond77

Good luck for you and for your daughter.

I think over night could be too early and may be too much for her at that point.

Angelina

shinydiamond77 I don't even understand why chastity belts can be a fetish. They're literally the opposite of sex.

because preventing sex can also be a fetish 😉
as far as the belt is concerned, sorry even if it works well now, you will be looking for a reasonable belt in a month (more likely a week) 😉

shinydiamond77 teenagers belted by their parents, and I'm a mom with a belted daughter. I feel like I'm from the other side of the fence.

no problem, there are also "older" women and also parents, we are a good mixture 🙂

Vanessa

shinydiamond77

Surprising she accepted easily;especially if not told before.

Anyway,I doubt you would be satisfied by the security of it over time,if you bought the discreet one you showed us.

shinydiamond77

As other people told you,take care to discuss with her,and know how she feels.

Amira yes, you absolutely are. you are outside of the belt and we're inside of it.

🤣

Angelina as far as the belt is concerned, sorry even if it works well now, you will be looking for a reasonable belt in a month (more likely a week) 😉

I agree.

shinydiamond77 No, and I'm glad she can't with the belt on.

So chastity belt,not abstinence one.

Christine

🤣

Ines

Sure!Even without bands,a more classical chastity belt would work better.

Ines

Even a fancysteel one,and not a chinese copy,would not be effective against masturbating;it may make harder to achieve orgasm,but not prevent it,I think.

Why have you left the idea of buying a My-Steel one?

Amira

Right,it is a risk.

Angelina that's right, it is very important to talk openly with the key holder about the belt at any time 🙂

I agree.

Angelina in any case, fancysteel is just as unsafe as the toy belts from china. as you said, it might be safe enough to be used as a abstinence belt, but never as a chastity belt

It's my opinion too.

Angelina in general, girls between 16 and 20 are sexually much more active than before and then this cheap belt. absolutely incomprehensible

Even older.Mainly,as long as they're students and go to university or similar,they would more likely be more active sexually,except if they're engaged or married(or in a long lasting relationship).

Ines Good points in my opinion are that is discreet, very nice and I think that with the bands it can be very effective. In my opinion is a good secondary belt, to go out, you can use a lot of dresses and in places where we do not have plenty of time and intimacy to experiment 😅. It has detachable secondary shield too, however as it is not a 24/7 belt, this detail has less importance.

If it is only to go out and wear a discreet one during it,it can be useful,yes.

Ines

I'm not sure "abstinence belt" is often used,except on our board!😉

« Previous Page Next Page »