Which chastity belt do you recommend?

Ines

Amira
Chinese Fancy Steel without bands is not best way to avoid it! 😅

Amira

Ines
but if you arent sure if it is the right thing for you it at least isn't as expensive.

Vanessa

shinydiamond77

Surprising she accepted easily;especially if not told before.

Anyway,I doubt you would be satisfied by the security of it over time,if you bought the discreet one you showed us.

shinydiamond77

As other people told you,take care to discuss with her,and know how she feels.

Amira yes, you absolutely are. you are outside of the belt and we're inside of it.

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Angelina as far as the belt is concerned, sorry even if it works well now, you will be looking for a reasonable belt in a month (more likely a week) 😉

I agree.

shinydiamond77 No, and I'm glad she can't with the belt on.

So chastity belt,not abstinence one.

Christine

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Ines

Sure!Even without bands,a more classical chastity belt would work better.

Ines

Even a fancysteel one,and not a chinese copy,would not be effective against masturbating;it may make harder to achieve orgasm,but not prevent it,I think.

Why have you left the idea of buying a My-Steel one?

Amira

Right,it is a risk.

Angelina that's right, it is very important to talk openly with the key holder about the belt at any time 🙂

I agree.

Angelina in any case, fancysteel is just as unsafe as the toy belts from china. as you said, it might be safe enough to be used as a abstinence belt, but never as a chastity belt

It's my opinion too.

Angelina in general, girls between 16 and 20 are sexually much more active than before and then this cheap belt. absolutely incomprehensible

Even older.Mainly,as long as they're students and go to university or similar,they would more likely be more active sexually,except if they're engaged or married(or in a long lasting relationship).

Ines Good points in my opinion are that is discreet, very nice and I think that with the bands it can be very effective. In my opinion is a good secondary belt, to go out, you can use a lot of dresses and in places where we do not have plenty of time and intimacy to experiment 😅. It has detachable secondary shield too, however as it is not a 24/7 belt, this detail has less importance.

If it is only to go out and wear a discreet one during it,it can be useful,yes.

Ines

I'm not sure "abstinence belt" is often used,except on our board!😉

Ines

Amira
Please, Amira, do not miss interpret me, and in fact I do not have any problem with Fancy Steel belts. In fact, since I left idea of buy a MySteel, I am thinking in ask a Fancy Steel in its place as "secondary belt", but a Chinese copy and without bands... well, I have doubts about effectiveness preventing touches.
For that I thought they only wanted an abstinence belt.

Amira

Ines
I understand what you mean. I more hope that there are no bad chemical substances in the chinese belt.

Angelina

Amira thank you, it was just thinking how I would have felt uf no one told me about the belt before I got it.

that's right, it is very important to talk openly with the key holder about the belt at any time 🙂

Christine @HHelen is. But she looks more like a teenager.

at least she acts like a teenager 😂

Ines I have doubts about effectiveness preventing touches.

in any case, fancysteel is just as unsafe as the toy belts from china. as you said, it might be safe enough to be used as a abstinence belt, but never as a chastity belt

Ines However, I was reading old posts and her approach to belt is strange, her daughter is so young to wear it and she will left the belt with 17 years. Frankly, I can not understand it!

as @Amira already said I also think it is a very unusual way to give a 14 year old a chastity belt and to free her with 17 again. with 14 I masturbated but not yet thought about sex, now I am almost 17 and think much more about it.

in general, girls between 16 and 20 are sexually much more active than before and then this cheap belt. absolutely incomprehensible

Ines

Amira
Hypoallergenic steel is very important, you were not in forum still, but even with had problems with the back of my thighs in winter for stay a lot of hours sit studying for several days.
So, comfort and health in one side and safety in the other have to be total.
However, I was reading old posts and her approach to belt is strange, her daughter is so young to wear it and she will left the belt with 17 years. Frankly, I can not understand it!

Amira

Ines
What helped you with your skin issues? I actually think that a belt at 17 is more necessary than at 13 or 14, but that depends on the person.

Ines

Amira

Amira What helped you with your skin issues?

First of all, I did not wear bands for some days, and Aloe Vera and a cream with vitamins A and D make good job.
And when you will stay a long of time sit at bands (weeks of hard studying), wear them low in a place where you do not press against your flesh.

Amira I actually think that a belt at 17 is more necessary than at 13 or 14, but that depends on the person.

You are right, she is thinking in left usage in the moment where, maybe another people is starting.

Angelina in any case, fancysteel is just as unsafe as the toy belts from china. as you said, it might be safe enough to be used as a abstinence belt, but never as a chastity belt

I am going to give my opinion about original one: well, I think that it can have the shield a bit narrow, but with bands I think it can make perfectly the work. However, for the less coverage over our zone, probably the chain of bands should be much shorter than standard for other belts in order to avoid we try to defeat it.
It seem be tight too, that can make it uncomfortable for several days usage.

Good points in my opinion are that is discreet, very nice and I think that with the bands it can be very effective. In my opinion is a good secondary belt, to go out, you can use a lot of dresses and in places where we do not have plenty of time and intimacy to experiment 😅. It has detachable secondary shield too, however as it is not a 24/7 belt, this detail has less importance.

I am thinking in ask it when I finish the grade.

Ines

Vanessa Even a fancysteel one,and not a chinese copy,would not be effective against masturbating;it may make harder to achieve orgasm,but not prevent it,I think.

Why have you left the idea of buying a My-Steel one?

Well, I think that it can be safe enough, if you wear it tight and with bands. But I think it should be tighter than a standard belt, so wear it for days can be uncomfortable.
I think main drawback is that shield is very small, so, if we can struggle we could bypass the belt (I think... or maybe I have so many confidence in my flexibility 😂). But wear it for occasion of a trip or a wedding for example it can be so safe as the rest.
I think in buy a MySteel to wear it daily, changing with my current belt, but since secondary shield is not detachable make me reject it as "daily" belt.
So, for wear a belt just for a few days, I think Fancy Steel can be perfect.

Angelina in any case, fancysteel is just as unsafe as the toy belts from china. as you said, it might be safe enough to be used as a abstinence belt, but never as a chastity belt

I think that rightly weared (and in this belt it means tight, very tight), and with the bands with a short chain I think it can accomplish its mission. Of course to achieve same safety standards as other belt, probably need of a stricter wearing, but I think that for wear just for a few days, can worth it.

Angelina

Ines

the problem is that @shinydiamond77 doesn't think about tighbands, because she wants to make the belt as unobtrusive as possible, but i think there are 2 options, either add the tighbands or (which i think is better) buy a reasonable belt 😂

Ines

Angelina
For that I thought she searched an abstinence belt. Cheap toy, without bands... It can not serve for anything more.

Angelina

Ines For that I thought she searched an abstinence belt. Cheap toy, without bands... It can not serve for anything more.

that's right, she'll soon find out that the belt is useless 😉

Vanessa Even older.Mainly,as long as they're students and go to university or similar,they would more likely be more active sexually,except if they're engaged or married(or in a long lasting relationship).

Okay, I corrected it to 30. 🙂

Ines So, for wear a belt just for a few days, I think Fancy Steel can be perfect.

i think that fancysteel is very unsafe, but you wear the belt voluntarily so it could work (but only if you only fight very little 😉 but the shield is really much too small

shinydiamond77

Vanessa Surprising she accepted easily;especially if not told before.

Anyway,I doubt you would be satisfied by the security of it over time,if you bought the discreet one you showed us

I agree, before I showed her the belt I thought she would argue and protest a lot, but she was very calm. This is how it went:
when I first showed it to her I told her that the belt will put a shield over her private parts. She asked me if it's to prevent sex, I said that she's partially right, but more importantly it's to make sure she can't access there at all. I explained to her that she should not think that I bought the belt because I don't trust her, but because at her age it's very easy to act on impulse, which the belt prevents.
She thought it was reasonable, asked some more questions, and agreed to do the fitting.

I decided to follow @Amira 's advice and take it slow - today she's wearing it for 6 hours, and tonight it'll be the first time she wears it overnight.
So far there have been no issues with the belt - no rashes, no pain, no chafing, nothing like that. Going to the bathroom remains the biggest problem, but she's learning.
Security is good. I have adjusted the belt so that even when it's pulled down as much as possible the shield is still pressing up. The shield isn't very wide, but if you try to move it to the side, everything will move with it. It's physically impossible to get anything under the shield.

Amira does she know she isn't supposed to do it?

She knows she isn't supposed to touch there, that's what the belt ensures. However, I never mentioned masturbation specifically, because she seems not to know what it is, and the longer that is - the better.

HHelen

shinydiamond77 Is there something else I could do to help my daughter with her first belted week/month?

What exactly would you like to know?

Vanessa

Ines Well, I think that it can be safe enough, if you wear it tight and with bands. But I think it should be tighter than a standard belt, so wear it for days can be uncomfortable.
I think main drawback is that shield is very small, so, if we can struggle we could bypass the belt (I think... or maybe I have so many confidence in my flexibility 😂). But wear it for occasion of a trip or a wedding for example it can be so safe as the rest.
I think in buy a MySteel to wear it daily, changing with my current belt, but since secondary shield is not detachable make me reject it as "daily" belt.
So, for wear a belt just for a few days, I think Fancy Steel can be perfect.

With bands,it may be more secure;but I think too it is possible to bypass the belt if we struggle enough against it,even with thigh bands.However;for short duration use,it may do the job,especially if we're not alone during it.

Why do you want a detachable secondary shield,as you don't masturbate(and don't want to be able to)?

Ines I think that rightly weared (and in this belt it means tight, very tight), and with the bands with a short chain I think it can accomplish its mission. Of course to achieve same safety standards as other belt, probably need of a stricter wearing, but I think that for wear just for a few days, can worth it.

A voluntary wearer wanting to not cheat on it and with enough safe control to not fight it too much would probably find it very useful,but for an involuntary wearer,fighting it a lot,it would not prevent her to masturbate if she wears it several days,and with some time alone.

Angelina that's right, she'll soon find out that the belt is useless 😉

I wonder what she would decide...No belt or a My-Steel(or similar)belt?

Angelina Okay, I corrected it to 30. 🙂

Probably more accurate!😉

Angelina you wear the belt voluntarily so it could work

It is my opinion,too.

Angelina

I agree.Not a good belt about being comfortable too,so.

Ines

So,you plan to ask for it and try it?

Ines It brings me possibilities that does not bring my normal belt, dressing for example, but at cost of be more uncomfortable for the same safety.

For a party or similar,it could be useful,so,it won't be a bad idea,for such situation.

It seems all of us agree it would probably have to be worn tight and would be too uncomfortable to wear it for a long duration,and with some of us who have doubts about safety if fought a lot.In my case,I've a lot of doubts about using this belt for the main purpose more than a few days(but it would be a nice one for fetish games,anyway),and I'm pretty sure my parents would never accept I wear such one.

Tobbe

Ines Fancy Steel

The second shield is locked with screws from the inside. Therefore, the entire belt must be removed to loosen the shield!
It will therefore be more difficult to loosen it, but smoother shape on the chastity belt than those with padlocks in the crotch.

Ines

Angelina but the shield is really much too small

I think that tight, and with bands can be very safe, but, maybe, a bit uncomfortable for long term.

Angelina

Ines maybe, a bit uncomfortable for long term.

if the belt must be extremely tight to be safe, it can be very uncomfortable 🙁

Ines

Angelina
I think is only way, the small the shield, the tight must be. And in the hip, is the same, the tight is the belt less movement have, so, frankly, I think that enough tight must be safe, even if you can not wear daily all the year.
The price is quite similar to other belts.

Tobbe

Ines If it has to sit tighter against her crotch, the pressure will also be harder against the hip bones. Temporarily, it certainly works fine, but not as the only chastity belt.

Angelina

Ines

of course but in my opinion the schuild is too small to prevent anything, no matter how tight the belt is

besides i am surprised that you as an "ambassador" for chastity belts are so interested for a toy belt 🙂

Ines If finally my parents decide to buy me it, I will post my review 😆

what does your mother think about the belts ? she has enough experience herself

Ines

Tobbe
Yes, for that I will use it for few days, will see how long I can wear it.
If finally my parents decide to buy me it, I will post my review 😆

Ines

Angelina besides i am surprised that you as an "ambassador" for chastity belts are so interested for a toy belt

I think is not a toy belt at all. Of course it has a small shield, however in video in YouTube you can see that it is not so small as I thought.
But a smaller covering is countered for 2 elements, tightness and limiting angles of approach to the shield.
So, to "show off" we have to wear it tight, and tigh bands very close.
As I said it can be very safe this way, but it is not intended for long usage.
It brings me possibilities that does not bring my normal belt, dressing for example, but at cost of be more uncomfortable for the same safety.

It is my opinion, at least.

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