Vanessa Many of the reluctant wearers here have gone through some hard times with their parents,at the start,even if,often,it becomes good again after some time.
Vanessa after it was the start of permanent wearing too,my relationship with my parents was not very good..
It is understandable why, but so far my daughter wears it without any sort of anger at me; I think it's partially because I made it clear that the belt is not a punishment, and that she won't ever be punished for trying to take it off by herself, and partially because it's discreet so she can get used to it and not think about it more easily.
This week was the first time I accidentally caught her fighting the belt.
Earlier this week (before I caught her) I made the crotchband shorter so that the shield "sinks" into the skin more.
Next morning she didn't notice me on the living room balcony and thought I was still asleep, so she sat down and began trying to pull the shield away from herself, then tried to push it sideways before getting annoyed and going to the bathroom.
I haven't told her I saw that, but now I know that the belt really works.
