Telling others about your belt

Michael

I have thought about telling my best friends about my devices sometimes but I have not told someone about it except for my gf and ex-gfs. Of course there is the fear that a relationship with a good friend might become worse (than it probably is not a really good friend, I know...) or that in the worst case this information about me might spread.
However, when I wear my belt I behave diffently because I am always cautious that noone notices the belt or device. This can imply that my friends recognize me as someone who behaves more reserved as usual which implies that the relationship might not be as good as it used to be. That's one reason why I sometimes wish I could tell my secret.

Do you feel the same discrepancy sometimes and how do you cope with it?

Angelina

Ines So, even he is bad in tennis, at least, the poor can have some fun playing.

I don't doubt it and if it brings you both closer together it is even better 🙂

Michael

i am physically more reserved because i do not want my equipment to be accidentally discovered, but my character is calm but strong in my circle of friends

Vanessa

Ines Even if I am not still his girl, I have trust in him. I do not know if I will win a boyfriend, but I am quite sure I won a friend.

Trust is the main part,sure.I hope your relationship evolve to boyfriend/girlfriend,and not only to friends,however.

Michael

Personally,my best friend knows it,and it is helpful to be able to discuss it with her(of course,we don't discuss mainly of it,but sometimes,it helps).

I tend to take care my chastity belt is not discovered too,but,as I'm more used to hide it,I act pretty natural.It is possible to explain we have some troubles with studies or work,too,to explain it.

Angelina i am stressed when i have a lot of work to do and would like to relax through sexual pleasure and can't

I understand you...

Tim

Ines for make short a long story (I think in USA say this way)

Almost. It's "to make a long story short"

Tim

Angelina i am physically more reserved because i do not want my equipment to be accidentally discovered, but my character is calm but strong in my circle of friends

How much do you think your behavior will change after getting married? Do you think they'll notice? ...and will it amuse you if they do notice, but assume the wrong cause?

Angelina

Tim How much do you think your behavior will change after getting married?

i don't think this behaviour will change much, it has always worked well so why should i change it

Tim

Angelina How you intend to behave... but you might act differently on an unconscious level. They might notice you seem more relaxed, a bit more open... the kinds of things that might prompt jokes about the stress-reducing powers of an active sex life.

Angelina

Tim

well, when i am with my friends i do not have a stressful situation, so these are the moments when my chastity equipment does not bother me much (except the thigh bands) i am stressed when i have a lot of work to do and would like to relax through sexual pleasure and can't

Michael

Tim How you intend to behave... but you might act differently on an unconscious level

That's exactly what I meant and people who know you well might recognize that.

Angelina my chastity equipment does not bother me much (except the thigh bands)

I understand that it is easy to hide a belt but thigh bands must take it to another level for sure.
I mean isn't it a problem to hide the noise they might make?
If you cannot run anymore or cross your legs, someone could notice that as well if you have don such things before.

Sara2001

Michael I mean isn't it a problem to hide the noise they might make?
If you cannot run anymore or cross your legs, someone could notice that as well if you have don such things before.

At least I always fear that someone will notice something, but luckily it never happened. You can cancel the noise almost completely when you wrap the chain. I try to prevent stairs whenever this is possible, I feel that's the highest risk that someone notice something. Sometimes I say that my muscles hurt from sport.

Vanessa Personally,my best friend knows it,and it is helpful to be able to discuss it with her(of course,we don't discuss mainly of it,but sometimes,it helps).

Same for me. Very important.

Angelina

Michael I understand that it is easy to hide a belt but thigh bands must take it to another level for sure.
I mean isn't it a problem to hide the noise they might make?
If you cannot run anymore or cross your legs, someone could notice that as well if you have don such things before.

on the one hand all chains are covered with rubber so that nobody hears anything, on the other hand I have never run outside of sports lessons so that nobody notices 😂

Vanessa Trust is the main part,sure.I hope your relationship evolve to boyfriend/girlfriend,

I hope so too, good luck @Ines 🙂

Sara2001 I feel that's the highest risk that someone notice something

that's right, that's why I only go stairs when I have to, or when I'm alone

Sara2001

Angelina that's right, that's why I only go stairs when I have to, or when I'm alone

My school has stairs, I have to use them. I always try to do it on my own. I really hate this aspect.

Max9

Sara2001 Why do you actually habe to wear tight bands in school? Are yout parents worried, that you could manage to stick a finger unser your belt in school? Ot judt that you can't wear pants ... or what's the reason for you tocwear them?

Angelina

Sara2001 My school has stairs,

yes, i have the same problem, fortunately only one staircase, but i always have to be careful

Max9 Are yout parents worried, that you could manage to stick a finger unser your belt in school?

that is rather the reason with me, with @Sara2001 there are other reasons, but she should write that herself

Sara2001

Max9 Why do you actually habe to wear tight bands in school? Are yout parents worried, that you could manage to stick a finger unser your belt in school? Ot judt that you can't wear pants ... or what's the reason for you tocwear them?

My father decided that I have to wear them 24/7. There is no exception. I do an apprenticeship, so school is any few weeks for a few weeks. It doesn't include sport, so no exception is needed. When my younger sister has sport in school, she is allowed to remove the chain between her tightbands for this time.

Angelina that is rather the reason with me, with @Sara2001 there are other reasons, but she should write that herself

The core idea is of course the same. My father is very strict when it comes to sexual pleasure for females. That we don't have any is his top priority. He thinks that we have to accept any additional restrictions that are needed to support this goal.

Angelina

Sara2001 The core idea is of course the same.

hmm, that's true, but when i marked you, i was thinking more about your lifestyle with Daniel 😂

Sara2001

Angelina hmm, that's true, but when i marked you, i was thinking more about your lifestyle with Daniel

After marriage it is consensual, that changes everything for me. Yes, after marriage it is mostly like to maintain my role, I don't know how to write it better in English.

Angelina

Sara2001 that changes everything for me.

yes, i sometimes forget that it makes a big difference for whom you wear the equipment 🙂

Sara2001 I don't know how to write it better in English.

hahaha it is always strange for me to write in english with a other german girl 😂

Joh

Sara2001 Yes, after marriage it is mostly like to maintain my role

Near by. I think you meant "Yes, after marriage it is most likely I maintain my role"

Sara2001

Angelina hahaha it is always strange for me to write in english with a other german girl 😂

Same for me, especially when you know exactly what you want to say but not how.

Vanessa

Angelina i sometimes forget that it makes a big difference for whom you wear the equipment 🙂

That's understandable the feelings can be very different.

Angelina

Sara2001 especially when you know exactly what you want to say but not how.

yes, this happens to me very often due to my poor knowledge of english 😂

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