Sara2001 No, it's not related to eachother.
However,she had to wear it because she started dating him,right?Even if she would maybe have had to wear it,but later,if not...
Sara2001 t was just after the walk. I have no idea about this Saturday, I already asked my brother to help us. It looks like he has time.
Let's hope you keep this walk!
Sara2001 I don't think so. A safe word is extremely important when you don't know the other one. But as long as you have it, it feels like a kind of trial period for me.
It can be used at first,for a set duration,and discarded after a while.
Sara2001 Then she would pay a high price. I often feel it's similar to your situation.
The consequences would be the same?
In my case,my parents know they should never do something that would damage strongly my relationship with Emilie,however,as,if they make me choose between Emilie and them,they would lose me,as I would choose Emilie.
Sara2001 I think this is not the root cause, but he wants some things to be sure, where he can trust Daniel but not his Ex-boyfriend. He had nothing against her relationship, but it shouldn't impact her rules.
In this case her rules should have been a bit more closer to the ones you have with your boyfriend.
Sara2001 Isn't it the same for you? Her rules where adjusted to some extend, but not massively.
I'm way less restricted than her.
At first,after the approval talk,I was pretty free about what activities to do with a boyfriend/girlfriend(as long as it doesn't include sex),and I haven't to wear my chastity belt,except if I disobey about sex or masturbation.And I had no chastity bra,nor thigh bands(except for some punishments,but only for a short time).
More recently,with Emilie,after I have to wear my chastity belt permanently,it is somehow more restricted(chastity belt permanently,chastity bra often,thigh bands sometimes...),but I've more advantages than your sister too(including sharing my bed with Emilie,as long as she wears her chastity belt during the night,too).
And,if I feel something is dangerous/difficult for our relationship,I can discuss with my parents,and they would try to find a way to make it better for us(except if it includes chastity,of course).It applied often to my precedent boyfriend/girlfriend,too.
Sara2001 I hope she will find a new loving man when she is older. Someone who loves her deeply enough to wait,.like Emile does for you.
As long as the rules,and the way your father manage it,are the same,the risk of the same end is big.
Joh She will pay a high price anyway.
I think so,too.Having a lasting relationship in this situation can be hard.
Angelina i think we would both feel uncomfortable
In this case,it may not be worth trying,yes.
Angelina but the rules as such speak against the equal relationship, it doesn't work that way. it might have helped if your sister had been given more freedom the longer the relationship lasted.
Right.
Angelina ACTIVELY supports the relationship.
Same for my parents and my relationship with Emilie.
Sara2001 his daughter is able to play with herself,
Not related to her relationship,her chastity belt do the job.
Sara2001 her daughter doesn't learn how to manage a household
Can be the case.She can share it with her partner,or adapt it as they like.
For example,with Emilie,we decided we would share it,or,if one stays at home while the other one works,the one staying at home would do the main parts of the tasks.
Sara2001 her daughter is out of the house at night without a man to take care of her.
Her boyfriend would have taken care of her.It is now she isn't in a relationship anymore that it can happen more easily.
Sara2001 But what would you have expected him to do? That she get rid of her curfew, that he can sleep in our home? I think it's not that easy for him to find the right amount of rights and rules for her.
Later curfew if with him,(but not totally no curfew);and,if not acceptable they share her bed,let him sleep at house,in another room,and maybe lock their door during nights.There is many ways to adapt rules...
Angelina i am in favour of linking it to the length of the relationship, small relaxations the longer the two are together. if your father says the belt stays until the wedding there is not much she can do, but there could be small relaxations in the thigh bands or the bra, like with me, or (also like with me) that her boyfriend is allowed to sleep with your sister after a certain length of the relationship. he does not have to give up his rules, but he should make the rules relationship-friendly. 🙂
I agree,and good examples.
Sara2001 That's one of the reasons why Saturday walk was established.
Too small advantage,and too late.
Angelina he remains the same person with or without chastity devices, and she should keep telling herself that, because only through self-confidence can she prevent the devices from intimidating her character.
I hope it would not impact how she would manage future relationships...And she would not do like @catherine98,who doesn't dare to date a man she likes,due to her chastity devices...
Angelina i wouldn't want to say it so harshly because it's pure speculation, but i think so too. the chastity equipment may also have been just an excuse, or at least not the main reason
I'm not so sure.Except if he had lied directly to her while explaining his reasons to break-up with her;I can understand how he thought and felt.If she was not limited at first,or the rules have adapted more,he may not have felt pity for her,and that could have changed the situation.
