Talk to parents about sex and masturbation

Dee

Vanessa the weird part is, they never talked about masturbation. Their reason is just that “there is no fooling around with other boys” while I’m going to college and single. So I guess they don’t want me to masturbate but also don’t want to talk about it?

Once the belt is on and I’m wearing the thigh bands, I’m free to go around but still have to come home around 11 pm though.

Vanessa

Dee So I guess they don’t want me to masturbate but also don’t want to talk about it?

I think they want to prevent you to do it anymore,but don't feel at ease discussing it.I think it clearly play a part in their decision,however.

Dee Once the belt is on and I’m wearing the thigh bands, I’m free to go around but still have to come home around 11 pm though.

Good,even if you've a very early curfew!Is it the same when you go to a party?

Laura

Dee Their reason is just that “there is no fooling around with other boys” while I’m going to college and single. So I guess they don’t want me to masturbate but also don’t want to talk about it?

I tend to think your parents have read my story on the misterpoll 😂

Angelina

Dee

so this means that since you were caught masturbating, you were not allowed to leave the house and are not allowed to leave again until you get your cb ?

Vanessa Not surprising,as main manufacturers of chastity belts(good brands,at least)are german!😉

I didn't know that then 😉

Dee So I guess they don’t want me to masturbate but also don’t want to talk about it?

i have said it many times before and i will say it again, if the parents want the daughter to wear a cb (with secondary shield) they should be able to talk about mastubation

Laura I tend to think your parents have read my story on the misterpoll 😂

I think we should activate parental protections on our side. 😃

Laura

Angelina I think we should activate parental protections on our side.

It's currently impossible 😂
Being serious I think @Dee 's case is typical 20 years ago and now. And probably we will see more girls

Renita

Angelina i have said it many times before and i will say it again, if the parents want the daughter to wear a cb (with secondary shield) they should be able to talk about mastubation

And I can repeat same number of time, secondary shield is not about masturbation only, but any kind of non-penetrative sex.

Vanessa

Angelina so this means that since you were caught masturbating, you were not allowed to leave the house and are not allowed to leave again until you get your cb ?

I wonder too if they restrict her more since she was caught,until she get the chastity belt.

Angelina i have said it many times before and i will say it again, if the parents want the daughter to wear a cb (with secondary shield) they should be able to talk about mastubation

Yes,they should have a talk about it,even to explain clearly the reason(s) for the chastity belt.

Renita And I can repeat same number of time, secondary shield is not about masturbation only, but any kind of non-penetrative sex.

Right.But a talk about both can be done.

Laura Maybe masturbation is just a side effect like for my parents

I think for most of us,preventing us to masturbate was an important part of our parents' decision to make us wear a chastity belt.

Angelina it would not be a chastity belt but a abstinence belt

Which could be "better" for us!😉

Ines

Angelina have said it many times before and i will say it again, if the parents want the daughter to wear a cb (with secondary shield) they should be able to talk about mastubation

Angelina, I think it is much more general than this.
I think, and I reinforced this thinking after read to many of you (in fact I think there is only a exception to this), that when parents decide that the best is make their girl wear a belt, it is to protect us. To take care of us. That this includes the impossibility of touch ourself, yes but, I think it is far more deep and general, even than impossibility of have sex.

Angelina

Laura Being serious I think @Dee 's case is typical 20 years ago and now. And probably we will see more girls

I think you're right, unfortunately 🙁

Renita And I can repeat same number of time, secondary shield is not about masturbation only, but any kind of non-penetrative sex.

but I think it is the main idea for many parents 😉

besides, that was not the main point of my statement 😉

Ines

Laura

Renita secondary shield is not about masturbation only, but any kind of non-penetrative sex.

I agree with both of you. Chastity belt means a type of behavior, a time ago we talked about it, and in Western Europe and USA the risk of involuntary intercourse for us, is, thankfully, very low.
And when you, or our parents, decide protect us with a chastity belt, I think in most of cases there is not a girl masturbating as a model of behavior. And I think it is very logical.
If one of my daughters would wear a CB, it would be the safest as possible, in other way, the entire concept is weak.

Renita

Angelina besides, that was not the main point of my statement

What was the main point then?

Angelina

Renita

that parents who want their daughter to wear a cb should talk openly about sex and masturbation

Laura

Angelina Maybe masturbation is just a side effect like for my parents

Angelina

Laura Maybe masturbation is just a side effect like for my parents

parents should also be able to talk about side effects 😉

Ines If one of my daughters would wear a CB, it would be the safest as possible, in other way, the entire concept is weak.

of course it contradicts the basic concept, it would not be a chastity belt but a abstinence belt

Renita

Angelina parents should also be able to talk about side effects

She is a big girl already.

Angelina

Vanessa I wonder too if they restrict her more since she was caught,until she get the chastity belt.

I'm afraid that's my assumption 🙁

Vanessa I think for most of us,preventing us to masturbate was an important part of our parents' decision to make us wear a chastity belt.

exactly, i think not many parents would allow their daughter to have a cb but masturbate 🙁

Renita

Angelina exactly, i think not many parents would allow their daughter to have a cb but masturbate

Unfortunately that's true.

Vanessa

Angelina exactly, i think not many parents would allow their daughter to have a cb but masturbate 🙁

Sadly,I think you're right.

Angelina

Yes.Even if masturbation is less "risked"(no STD,no unwanted pregnancies...),they don't like we do it too.

Ines but I do not like the fact that a girl can masturbate.

Can you explain why a bit more?I think it could be interesting to know more opinion about it,not only the one of our parents.

Ines Of course I think that a chastity belt only can be used willingly, but if I have a daughter, wearing belt or not, of course I will try to transmit her, that is not nice do it. I just hope she take my opinion in consideration, because being realistic, it is a thing you can not impose.

Would you forbid it,or only try to convince her to not do it?

Ines That this includes the impossibility of touch ourself

I don't think it is necessary to protect us...

Angelina

Renita

most parents see it as a way to prevent two things at the same time. and parents who don't like sex usually don't like masturbation either 🙁

Ines

Renita

You can call me old fashioned, and please, take account that I am going to write my own opinion, I do not pretend state a true or a scientific fact.... but I do not like the fact that a girl can masturbate. It is the same that when I see a girl drunk or a girl smoking.
Can be atavistic, but I do not like it at all.
Of course I think that a chastity belt only can be used willingly, but if I have a daughter, wearing belt or not, of course I will try to transmit her, that is not nice do it. I just hope she take my opinion in consideration, because being realistic, it is a thing you can not impose.

Renita

Ines but I do not like the fact that a girl can masturbate. It is the same that when I see a girl drunk or a girl smoking.

Nobody likes but it's natural.