Talk to parents about sex and masturbation

Natescage

Vanessa your parents accept your orientation? Seams like they are strict with your and Emilie but might be same for a boy.

Vanessa

Natescage

Yes,they accept it very well!🙂

Emilie's family,except her sister,is way more against it.Her parents accept it,but not support her(nor our relationship).

My rules would be the same with a boyfriend,yes.

Ines

Yes,but the belt would be enough to prevent us to be stimulated enough to orgasm...Only enough to frustrate us.

And,if you think we should not be able to get any stimulation,why are you against chastity bras?These prevent stimulation of another erogenous part(which,for some women,can too lead to orgasm)...

Natescage It would certainly help girls focus on school and other things if they can't spend hours trying to get more pleasure under the belt.

It has been discussed here(https://unwedchastity.org/d/80-sublimation-because-of-chastity-belt),and there is very differents opinions.Personally,I guess it helps a bit to focus on studies or work,in my case.

Renita

Never experienced it myself,but I guess the positions and moves during such sports can break our hymen slowly.

Ines

Vanessa I don't think it is useful.Chastity belts are very secure,even without it.

Yes... and no... I mean, your approach is same than @Renita , and it is a valid approach :belts are 100% secure for maintain virginity. But if the wished effect is avoiding possible stimulation that at the end will make feel us anxiety, you need, thigh bands.

Natescage

Ines so stimulation causes anxiety for you?

Ines

Natescage
It is not the stimulation, but the wish or the hope of can achieve relief.
It is better, in my opinion, avoid it. I think girl is calmer and less probable she has fixation with achieve a relief with the small stimulation we can obtain forcing posture.

Natescage

Ines OK so that is why bands should be used in your opinion. It would certainly help girls focus on school and other things if they can't spend hours trying to get more pleasure under the belt.

Renita

Vanessa No.Riding horses,or doing gymnastics,for example,can lead to it,too(or,at least,break the hymen)!

For me all of this is bad excuse for a girl expected to be virgin, but she is not for a long time 😃

Ines

Renita For me all of this is bad excuse for a girl expected to be virgin, but she is not for a long time

As I said... Renita is our own Clint Eastwood 😂

Ines

Vanessa Only enough to frustrate us.

You mention a key. Most safe is our belt, less frustration, less anxiety...

Vanessa And,if you think we should not be able to get any stimulation,why are you against chastity bras?

Well, I have various reasons, some more objective and another merely subjective:
I think that a bra is not related with the way that our families should protect us, you know my think that women are responsibility of whole family.
Secondly, because it seems that is very intrusive in our life, this is, it erase a lot of comfort (laying in bed, sit in chairs, choose of blouses) at very few positive consequence.
Next one, maybe is just my apreciation but, frankly, I do not know of none girls that tease her breast, and in my apreciation it is not so "kinky" as another touching.
And at the end, I think, I would not feel more protected or caresed wearing it.

Sorry, @Vanessa, I do not know if you expected more scientific answer... and mostly I talked about feelings.

Renita

Vanessa I guess the positions and moves during such sports can break our hymen slowly.

I doubt playing tennis can do it 😃

Vanessa

Ines You mention a key. Most safe is our belt, less frustration, less anxiety...

We can get aroused even with no touching...So,it doesn't change a lot of things...

Ines Well, I have various reasons, some more objective and another merely subjective:
I think that a bra is not related with the way that our families should protect us, you know my think that women are responsibility of whole family.
Secondly, because it seems that is very intrusive in our life, this is, it erase a lot of comfort (laying in bed, sit in chairs, choose of blouses) at very few positive consequence.
Next one, maybe is just my apreciation but, frankly, I do not know of none girls that tease her breast, and in my apreciation it is not so "kinky" as another touching.
And at the end, I think, I would not feel more protected or caresed wearing it.

Except the part about protection and caring(something I understand,but not feel),we can tell the same about thigh bands:it is intrusive,erase a lot of comfort and have not much positive consequences...

And it is not very uncommon to tease a bit the breasts,especially when wearing a chastity belt(the main erogenous area being out of reach)...

Ines Sorry, @Vanessa, I do not know if you expected more scientific answer... and mostly I talked about feelings.

No problem,feelings are important,too.

Ines

Vanessa we can tell the same about thigh bands:it is intrusive,erase a lot of comfort and have not much positive consequences...

For me they are not such terrible as you feel them. It is certain that you know they are always there, but they are not so disturbing for me. And yes, for me they are important, increase my safety and arise deeper feelings.
And they do not interfere so much in our feminity, I mean for us, play with our breast is very important for our aparience. I mean, for me, at least is the most important, with my hair, of my attributes as girl. It is not fair private us of feel nice wearing a blues with a bit of cleavage or a T-shirt a bit tight in our bust.
My opinion.

Vanessa

Ines

Don't you think the fact you're a voluntary wearer for thigh bands too may impact how you feel it,and so,think it is not so disturbing?And the fact you can have it taken off if needed?

I agree mainly with you about chastity bra.And for the choice of clothes,very restricted due to it,too.But thigh bands prevents to wear tights or pants.

Renita

As far as I know,no.

Ines

Renita
I hope so too! Pretty similar to badminton! 😂

Ines

Vanessa Don't you think the fact you're a voluntary wearer for thigh bands too may impact how you feel it,and so,think it is not so disturbing?And the fact you can have it taken off if needed?

No doubt about this point. And I do not doubt about your feelings, I do not think you exaggerate at all. When you are forced, you, have to see the things from negative side, and all is worst.
Be willingly, is the key.

Vanessa

Ines

I agree with you.Our situation probably impact both our opinions about it.

I think a voluntary wearer can manage it way better,yes.

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