Home and family rules

Angelina

Vanessa That she may continue to visit you.

I managed that, but some of my punishments have become harder, but it is worth it 🙂

Vanessa If I can understand my parent's opinion on it,your father one is understandable too.It is very different,but both seems logical.

yes there are different approaches, my father is convinced that my behaviour changes best when i think about it a lot and express these thoughts

Vanessa

Angelina ome of my punishments have become harder, but it is worth it 🙂

I understand you!

Angelina when i think about it a lot

It is one the main reason for my cornertime.

Angelina

Vanessa It is one the main reason for my cornertime.

that's true, but my father says it's better to write down my thoughts 🙂

Vanessa

Angelina

I think both can work,but differently.For some,cornertime would work better,but,for others,writing would be more effective.

Angelina

Vanessa

yes, but I am allowed to keep the essays I write (after my father has read them), so before I get to "stupid ideas", I can always reread what was wrong the last time

Vanessa

Angelina

Not a bad idea,does it help a lot?

bismarck

Angelina I think your essays may be post some time when it is appropriate as it may be very valuable for others to read, such as psychological implications, as they are done under some specific situations and it's better not to have another person in similarly unpleasant situations to get the feedback.

Angelina

Vanessa does it help a lot?

I admit it helps a little bit

Vanessa

Angelina

Good he decided to let you keep your essays,so.

I understand it can be useful to read your essay again if you know you may misbehave in the same way.

Angelina

Vanessa

this is the background, sometimes i think about doing something that is forbidden, then i think about why it is forbidden and if it does not occur to me i read my last essay

Vanessa

Angelina

Is it only remembering the reason for something to be punished that work,not remembering what was the punishment?

bismarck

I think it would be related to her experience,feelings and rules,it may not be useful for other people...

Angelina

bismarck

the only people who read it outside my father are my girlfriend and later maybe my children. 😂

bismarck

Angelina That's not difficult. There are plenty of tall men in Germany that you and your partner can make children with. Here to find such people are rather difficult and time goes by.

Angelina

Vanessa Is it only remembering the reason for something to be punished that work,not remembering what was the punishment?

well, it's always about the why.

it reminds me why something is forbidden.

Vanessa I think it would be related to her experience,feelings and rules,it may not be useful for other people...

i have often thought about writing a book about my life, but then i realize that i cannot do that to humanity 😂

Vanessa

Angelina it reminds me why something is forbidden.

Is it enough to make you avoid to misbehave?Even if you don't agree much with the rule?

Angelina

Vanessa

sometimes yes, sometimes no
it always depends on the rule and the punishment

Vanessa

Angelina

So,the possible punishment is also considered,not only why it it is forbidden.

Angelina

bismarck

uh tall men ???????

i don't understand you

Angelina

Vanessa

of course, before I decide to do something forbidden, I always think about why it is forbidden and what kind of punishment I will get if I get caught

Vanessa

Angelina

Me too.My punishments are less precisely defined as yours,but I can guess more or less what punishments I could get for misbehaving.

Angelina

Vanessa

well, you probably know your parents very well and know how they will react

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