Home and family rules

Vanessa

Sara2001 n present them, but he doesn't want me to ask for getting out of the bra.

So,you have to choose well your words,I guess.

Sara2001 We are just in the very beginning, but he already has a good feeling when I am in the mood and when I really don't want it. In 80% it is working.

Let's hope it'll be 100% when married!😉

Sara2001 Yes, anything else is still very bad but manageable.

I agree.

Sara2001

Vanessa So,you have to choose well your words,I guess.

Yes. It's difficult but also feels like a little game, even if the consequences for asking are not fun. So far he doesn't open my chastity bra for playing. I miss it a lot, but on the other side he shows me how much he loves me. Indirect he also shows me that he not only loves my body but also the person.

Vanessa Let's hope it'll be 100% when married!😉

I think 100% is not possible, but we should get close 🙂

Natescage

Sara2001 this is a big problem I see all the time, people love the body not the person, and it's hard to tell unless you are not attractive lol.

Valadar

Sara2001 Indirect he also shows me that he not only loves my body but also the person.

Yes that is veey important to be loved and enjoyed wholly. Im happy for you Sara. As this dynamic in a relationship is not really celebrated or appreciated these days...

Vanessa

Sara2001 Yes. It's difficult but also feels like a little game, even if the consequences for asking are not fun. So far he doesn't open my chastity bra for playing. I miss it a lot, but on the other side he shows me how much he loves me. Indirect he also shows me that he not only loves my body but also the person.

Yes,I imagine a bad choosing of words lead to very unpleasant consequences...

I can understand it.As he can't have sex(not completely,at least),nor playing with your breasts now,it is a good sign he likes you for yourself,sure.

Sara2001 I think 100% is not possible, but we should get close 🙂

You're right.100% is probably not possible to reach.

Natescage it's hard to tell unless you are not attractive lol.

Or locked in a chastity belt!😉

Sara2001 I think a chastity belt is relatively uncommon.

I think too.

Sara2001 I think there is a big difference, because in TiH everything is based on making the relationship stronger and happier for both. It's not just in one direction. I get a lot in return and I have a saying in everything, just not the final saying.

It is not the same in TPE?I've to say I don't know much about these way of life...

Natescage

It seems way harder,and not a good relationship for the submissive...

Sara2001

Valadar As this dynamic in a relationship is not really celebrated or appreciated these days...

There is still a community practicing this. They are just not visible because it's not well accepted these days.

Natescage

Sara2001 you mean the chastity belt community or just the larger no sex b4 married folk's.

Sara2001

Natescage you mean the chastity belt community or just the larger no sex b4 married folk's.

Mostly the Taken in Hand/Domestic Discipline community but also the no sex before marriage community. I think a chastity belt is relatively uncommon.

Valadar

Sara2001 Mostly the Taken in Hand/Domestic Discipline community but also the no sex before marriage community.

I have heard of the Taken In Hand/Domestic Discipline Community (I didn't know it was similar to the no sex before marriage community) May I ask how do you see it as being different when we talk about about it being in a marriage, than say in the TPE (Total Power Exchange) community? Wouldn't you say there are lots of similarities? Just curious / interested in your opinion.

Natescage

Valadar accept total power people are fetishist people I believe

Sara2001

Valadar I have heard of the Taken In Hand/Domestic Discipline Community (I didn't know it was similar to the no sex before marriage community)

I think there is only a one way relation between these communities.

Valadar May I ask how do you see it as being different when we talk about about it being in a marriage, than say in the TPE (Total Power Exchange) community?

I think there is a big difference, because in TiH everything is based on making the relationship stronger and happier for both. It's not just in one direction. I get a lot in return and I have a saying in everything, just not the final saying.

Valadar Wouldn't you say there are lots of similarities? Just curious / interested in your opinion.

For sure, but I think mainly on the surface, but I am not that experienced with TPE.

Valadar

Natescage I agree with you the interesting point is that that like Taken In Hand they also seem to believe in voluntary female submission in we go by the traditional gender roles.

Natescage

Sara2001 yeah toe is totally different there is no influence or say of the submissve. In more extreme cases they are literally a slave. This is far more common with fetishists as is obviously very illigall if not consentual. However it does seam like the dominant does care for the submissve, but only in there eyes. They "assign" the submissives needs instead of letting her communicate her one needs and considering then seariously like taken in hand/domestic dicaplin like what Sara has.

Natescage

Vanessa no unless it's someone who eather has a fetish for that or something sinister is going on. Sara's situation if there is consent and love is very different (with Daniel, I know with her father it is non consentual)

Vanessa

Natescage

Yes,it can work only if someone like a lot to live this way.I agree,@Sara2001's relationship seems way less extreme.

Angelina

I'm back 😃

the punishment was harsh but fair, i think i understood that i will follow this rule better in the future luckily camryn was with me which made the whole situation a little bit more pleasant even if it was all confined to my room

i got rid of the connection chains, my essay is finished and i am allowed to go on the internet again 😉 unfortunately i still have my padlock on the tighbands and maybe it will stay even beyond the 2 months 🙁 but this is not decided yet

i have a lot to read now, it might take a few days and i will only write on the most necessary things, because otherwise it takes too long. but soon i will write more again 😉

i have already seen that there are a few new names here, welcome to all 😃

i will start reading now 😉

Laura

Angelina I'm back

Welcome back.

Angelina have a lot to read now, it might take a few days and i will only write on the most necessary things, because otherwise it takes too long. but soon i will write more again

And then a few days to read new posts 😂

Sara2001

Angelina my essay is finished

Welcome back, we missed you 🙂

I would love to know what you wrote on all these pages. It would be great if you can go into some details. The topic feel important but not "big" enough for me.

Angelina maybe it will stay even beyond the 2 months 🙁 but this is not decided yet

Why? Have you done anything wrong again?

Vanessa

Angelina

Welcome back!🙂

Good you were still allowed to meet with your girlfriend,I understand it made it a bit easier.

Sorry for the lock for your thigh bands;take care to behave very well to increase the chances to be allowed to use a chain again after the punishment is ended...

Sara2001 I would love to know what you wrote on all these pages.

I wonder too.

Angelina probably again an overreaction from my father because my misbehavior has to do with my equipment again 🙁

i hope i can prevent this

I hope for you too.Maybe he will calm down about it before the end of the punishment,and would tend more to accept to let you use a chain again,instead of a lock.

Laura Let's wait for @Vanessa 🤣

😉

It takes time to read and write on most of the topics here!

Angelina

Laura And then a few days to read new posts 😂

at the moment I'm almost halfway done 😉 I have the whole day off today 😉

Sara2001 I would love to know what you wrote on all these pages.

if I make it in time I will write more, but currently I am busy with reading 😉

Sara2001 Why? Have you done anything wrong again?

probably again an overreaction from my father because my misbehavior has to do with my equipment again 🙁

i hope i can prevent this

Angelina

Laura And then a few days to read new posts 😂

read everything in just under 9 hours 😃 😃

Laura

Angelina read everything in just under 9 hours

Let's wait for @Vanessa 🤣

Renita

Angelina Good job. I don't have time to read everything here 😃

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