Ines It is a constant in this forum, she is giving her opinion, here everyone speak by herself, nobody can talk for all the people.
It is obvious that not every husband is her husband.
It is evident that not every relationship is her marriage.
Maybe that is part of the language barrier, but your posts are often blanket statements - without any explicit qualifiers, it is difficult for outsiders to determine what you consider universal truths and what you consider personal experiences. Whether or not we understand it is only one part of the equation. But even if new members and (obviously) guests do not participate in this topic, there might still be many that read it. For their benefit, we should be very clear what statements are what works for us, and what statements are how we believe the world works / should work. For their sake, it is important to offer competing views to what has worked in a few particular relationship. And that goes double for that other thread, where a new user has participated.
