Chastity belt under wedding dress

if you are planning a relationship with someone, you must be honest about your cb but also careful, only say it if you are sure you want to enter into a relationship 😉

Vanessa

Sara2001 Being locked again after the romantic part is then one or the not so good parts I things 🙁

The frustration should be awful,sure,but she won't be locked for long!😉

Not unusual for us.But not easy!

Angelina i think it is for the wedding night, a nice experience,

I think too.

Angelina i think i will leave it at this unique experience 😉

If it is pleasant,it would be good to do it again some times,don't you think?😉

Yes,it can be long until you're married and finally free again.And there is not many things we can do...Of course,ii is to possible to break the chastity belt,but there is generally bad consequences on family...Is it the same for you?

Even if I know it is harder to date while wearing it,you should still try to date.It can lead to great relationship too(I met my girlfriend,Emilie,when having to wear my belt permanently,and we probably marry together).

I agree.Be sure you can trust him(or her?)before revealing him/her you wear a chastity belt,and can't take it off until you're married.But you should explain it,not letting him/her found out when he/she would start to touch or caress you.

Very common feeling,especially when it's new.

If he/she is in love with you,there is good chance he/she can understand and accept it.And even support you.

I hope you'll find someone soon,too.

lucy

Angelina For now i am afraid that someone would notice that i am wearing one, almost always when going out i have the feeling that people can see it.
And maybe it will be even hard to find someone who would understand this, or maybe not.

Angelina

i also thought everyone would see it, but it's not like that, i wear tighbands and bra in addition to the belt and nobody sees it 😉

i also never thought i would find anyone who would accept my equipment, but i did 😉

lucy

Angelina I guess that feeling is just in the beginning and later i would not be so suspicious.
You are very lucky then 🙂 i hope everything will go well for you two 🙂

lucy

Vanessa Not easy for sure.
Oh my, i would not dare to try to break the belt, regardless how strong my urges will be. The belt is controlled almost every day by mom if i did not try to unlock it.
I will try to date but not at the moment, i do not feel like starting a relationship right now. But i am happy for both of you 🙂

Ines

Sara2001 Being locked again after the romantic part is then one or the not so good parts I things 🙁

I think in the other way... in that moment the girl must feel very owned for her husband, and if there is trust in him, the moment must be nice

Vanessa

Ines

Especially as it would be the first time she is in a chastity belt,with her husband having the keys.

lucy I will try to date but not at the moment, i do not feel like starting a relationship right now. But i am happy for both of you 🙂

Good you seem to be ready to start to date when you want it,even if wearing the chastity belt.

Angelina there is definitely something unique no chance 😉

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Angelina yes it's definitely better if we talk to our partner about the cb first, i think it's also bad if he/she finds out by chance, this could scare him/her off or lead to him/her not trusting us

Yes,it is a hard talk,but a necessary one.But there must be a lot of trust before...

It is the same for most of us...

Angelina

@lucy

thanks so far everything is going well 😃

you can break the belt at any time, you just get yourself a bolt cutter and break it through, but I think it would definitely lead to hard consequences or ?

@Vanessa

there is definitely something unique no chance 😉

yes it's definitely better if we talk to our partner about the cb first, i think it's also bad if he/she finds out by chance, this could scare him/her off or lead to him/her not trusting us

lucy

Angelina I think it would lead to very hard consequences if i would break the belt. So, no, i will not try to do it.

Ines

lucy So, no, i will not try to do it.

Try or not try. Result us the same.

Angelina

exactly, that's my argument when someone asks me why I don't just destroy the belt 😉 🙁

Angelina

that is unfortunately a very big risk, we have to know exactly if we can trust our partner. the conversation can go quickly in a bad direction, but if he/she accepts it, we can definitely be sure that he/she is the right one 🙂

Vanessa

I agree,such talks are often risked,and should not be done too easily or too often.It's one of the reasons,why,when I started to date a man and Emilie at the same time,I waited until I decide with who I'll want to have a relationship,before telling it to Emilie.The man I dated don't know I was wearing one whan I dated him;and still doesn't know about it,of course.

Ines

Vanessa reasons,why,when I started to date a man and Emilie at the same time,

Heartbreaker! 🤭

Angelina

that's good and right, we have to be sure that a relationship with cb can work well, before we talk about cb 😉

and as you noticed it was the right decision 😉

Renita

Vanessa The man I dated don't know I was wearing one whan I dated him

How is this possible? Didn't you kiss and hug?

Vanessa

Ines

🤣

In my defense,I liked both,but I didn't tell "I love you" to Emilie before I had break-up with him.

Yes,I made the right decision.

I'm glad to not have revealed that I wear a chastity belt to him.He was pretty angry at me when I break-up,and I would have been unsecure if he knew it and I would have feared he could tell it to other people,as a revenge...

Angelina

and that's the high risk we have to take. it would definitely be very bad if someone out of revenge would tell everyone about the failed relationship 🙁

so we have to be 100% sure

Ines

Vanessa I would have feared he could tell it to other people,as a revenge...

Then, with this detail, it is obvious that you made the right decision.

Vanessa

Yes.There is two times,mainly,when it is risked:when we tell it for the first time to our partner,and if we break-up with him/her(especially if it is us who decide to break-up).Breaking-up is never pleasant,but even worse for us,as it adds fear our "secret" could be revealed.

Ines

I've a lot of reasons to think I've made the right edcision!😉