HHelen The distance between a belted girl and a (belted)wife is sex.
Sex doesn't equal marriage. Sex doesn't equal love. Sex is just sex. I never said I was against having sex with my partner, I just want my partner to receive pleasure from me and me alone. I can't be the only person who loves romance, cuddling, kissing, showing you care. I want my wife to 'earn' my love and I want my love to be big, special, grandiose!
I want my wife to giddily count days like a child that's waiting for Christmas for the day that will be HER day. Whole day dedicated to her, her pleasure, her happiness and her satisfaction. Many couples I see get bored on sex, they get bored of each-other, I want to avoid that. I want a marriage that's filled with excitement and longing, not routine and boredom.