Ines Can a team to win a title with a dumb goalkeeper? Yes, of course, but to have a good goalkeeper helps. A lot.
Getting back to this. Implying that a marriage works better under certain situation is not correct. There are a lot of life situation that impacts a marriage much more than the wife being a virgin: struggling financially, disagreement on critical matter, inability to have a child, losing job, depression, a beloved one death… and lots more. From my point of view is marginal, after the marriage she will not be virgin anymore. Love and commitment (a better term than hard work) are the ingredients for a good marriage. After few years, even less, there will be absolutely no difference if she was virgin or not. No difference at all. And honestly I see a lot of problems
- Not knowing if there is a sexual alchemy between them. I can understand that for start there is a lot of arousal. But how much it will stay? A Week? A month? Than it will fades
- not knowing about potential problems. Happened to a friend, marrying a virgin and then discovering she suffer from vaginism. So bad that he asks to null the marriage
- After few years she could feel the need to make for experiences she forfeited while younger. Also happened to a friend, left by their wife.
Let's be honest, we live in times that are much different from our parents. Lifelong marriage worked fine for them, where no divorce existed and the woman stayed at home caring for children.
Today it's no more. In Italy divorces are about half of marriage (48 divorce for 100 marriage) and its growing. In mayor northern cities even 2 on 3 of marriages end in divorce.
