Chastity contract

Vanessa

Even if I don't like much to talk with my parents about it,being able to if I need and want to is better,sure.

Angelina

i would have to know your parents to analyze this situation. the main thing is that you are psychologically well and that your parents take care of it

Vanessa

Angelina

Yes,I hate to have to wear it,but that have not impacted myself badly,psychologically and emotionally,and I know I could talk with my parents if it is needed,even about this.

And it seems it is the same for:you accept reluctantly to wear it,but you aren't hurt psychologically and manage it well.

Angelina

Vanessa And it seems it is the same for:you accept reluctantly to wear it,but you aren't hurt psychologically and manage it well

exactly, i hate to wear my equipment, but my father is aware of his responsibility as a keyholder and takes care of me when i feel bad 🙂

Vanessa

Angelina

My parents act the same,even if I talk with them about it less than you talk with your father about it.I know they won't let me stop wearing it without consequences(except if it is for health),but they would try to help me to feel better if needed.

Angelina

Vanessa

that's true, there would be very bad consequences if i wouldn't wear my equipment anymore, but my father also works on making it as comfortable as possible. even if it is not always easy

Sara2001

Angelina but my father also works on making it as comfortable as possible. even if it is not always easy

I know you explained it, but I still don't understand it. If your father wants it to make it as comfortable as possible for you and if you can't reach orgasm by playing with your breasts, why do you have to wear a chastity bra 24/7? I can understand the belt and the tightbands because they add security, but the chastity bra? What does he want to achieve with your chastity bra?

Vanessa

Angelina

It seems it is the case for several of us,our parents are strict about our chastity devices,but they try to make it more bearable for us.

Angelina my father would like to keep the fights against the belt very low. therefore the chastity bra

Do you think it works this way?Or not that much?

Angelina by making it pleasant i mean something like my father is thinking about having an air conditioner installed in my room in summer

It wouldn't be the case if you wouldn't be in chastity?In my house,we have installed air conditioner(warming the house in Winter,refreshing it in Summer),now,but it is not related to chastity.

Sara2001 Your chastity should be as strict as possible but he wants to make your life as comfortable as possible as long as your chastity is as strict as possible.

Similar for me and for you too,it seems.

Angelina he never changes the chastity itself

Even if it is what we want a lot to change(in a more free way,or course)!😉

Angelina

Sara2001

that's quite simple, he doesn't want me to stimulate myself sexually by playing with my breasts, because then i think more often about sex and mastubation and also fight more often against the belt. my father would like to keep the fights against the belt very low. therefore the chastity bra

by making it pleasant i mean something like my father is thinking about having an air conditioner installed in my room in summer

Sara2001

Angelina That was the pictures I had in mind. Safety first. Your chastity should be as strict as possible but he wants to make your life as comfortable as possible as long as your chastity is as strict as possible.

Angelina

Sara2001

exactly, my father changes things so that it is easier for me to accept my chastity. but he never changes the chastity itself

Angelina

Vanessa Do you think it works this way?Or not that much?

in the beginning i was fighting more, but in the meantime it is really like this that i think it is because of the bra less fights

Vanessa It wouldn't be the case if you wouldn't be in chastity?

maybe so, but when i tried to convince my father, this argument helped me 😉 hmm that was probably the first time that my equipment helped me 😂

Vanessa Even if it is what we want a lot to change(in a more free way,or course)!😉

That will do Camryn, not my father. 🤣

Vanessa

Angelina in the beginning i was fighting more, but in the meantime it is really like this that i think it is because of the bra less fights

I'm surprised,I would have thought that there would be more fights after you had to wear the chastity bra too,and that would not have reduced after some time wearing it.

Angelina maybe so, but when i tried to convince my father, this argument helped me 😉 hmm that was probably the first time that my equipment helped me 😂

😉

At least you got some advantages of it!

Angelina

Vanessa I'm surprised,I would have thought that there would be more fights after you had to wear the chastity bra too,and that would not have reduced after some time wearing it.

like i said, the first 2 to 3 months it was more, but now it is less because i have less possibilities to stimulate myself, unfortunately exactly what my father wanted

Vanessa At least you got some advantages of it!

i have one advantage 😂

Angelina

Vanessa Not often punished,good for you.

but this is also because I already know the punishments through the contracts 😉

Vanessa

Angelina

Is the deterrent effect strong enough to make you disobey the rules less?

More than if you know something would be severely punished,but not knowing exactly what would be the punishment?

Vanessa

Angelina like i said, the first 2 to 3 months it was more, but now it is less because i have less possibilities to stimulate myself, unfortunately exactly what my father wanted

Is the frustration easier to manage since you wear the chastity bra too,or worse?

Angelina i have one advantage 😂

Let's hope you'll get more!😉

Angelina

Vanessa Is the deterrent effect strong enough to make you disobey the rules less?

usually yes

Vanessa More than if you know something would be severely punished,but not knowing exactly what would be the punishment?

in any case, i think if i didn't know the exact penalty, i would risk more. because then i would think that i could negotiate the penalty (if i get caught)

Angelina

Vanessa Is the frustration easier to manage since you wear the chastity bra too,or worse?

it is not easier but less common.

I'd say the frustration is higher, but I'm less likely to get frustrated, you know what I mean?

Vanessa Let's hope you'll get more!😉

I can't imagine that 😂

Vanessa

Angelina in any case, i think if i didn't know the exact penalty, i would risk more. because then i would think that i could negotiate the penalty (if i get caught)

It makes sense.

In my case,I know more or less what punishment I may get if caught,but,even if not defined before,I never succeed when trying to negotiate...

Vanessa

Angelina it is not easier but less common.

I'd say the frustration is higher, but I'm less likely to get frustrated, you know what I mean?

Yes,I think I understand it.So it can help you a bit,at least.

Angelina I can't imagine that 😂

I guess you haven't expected it would play a part in the fact you get air conditioner in your room,so,who knows,you may get other unexpected advantages!😉

Angelina

Vanessa ,I never succeed when trying to negotiate...

because I learned a lot from my father and also through the contracts, I can negotiate very well.

but through the contracts my father can prevent that 🙁
but I can also prevent arbitrariness 😉

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