Michael_K I dunno know much about modern belts but i think they are easy to open. I think this is the reason.
Okay i will ask her abour her mom but she is about 40 and I dont really think somebody could force grow up woman to wear it
Force not per se, but this is Russia and if grandmother wants it?
Michael_K of coarse its more than just sex but sex is really important isn't it? And her Grandmother... we havent see her till december im sure she will not even talk with us, and as i said she wants to choose a husband herself and i would not be the one after all this
Honestly, it's important but there are way more important things with a relationship. I don't think you are right that her grandmother would not accept you. If nothing else, your clearly care about this girl. You said she wanted to choose a good man - aka, not just want her granddaughter for sex, but for life. So, if you want to stay with this girl, then I think grandma would be open to it.