Angelina definitely not if it would take longer than by car, my father wants me to use my time effectively and not just sit around

So he would remove your tightbands so you save time going to the university? I thought this wouldn't be an option.

    Sara2001

    maybe he would use a similar system like your dad uses with your sister when she has physical education, so that i have to open and close the tighbands myself so i can drive

      Angelina This would be good, I never thought your father trusts you so much. My father would never allow this, because a big difference to being free for a sports class is that you are alone in your car an the time you need differs a bit because of the traffic. This would give you time for playing.

        Sara2001

        well i don't think i would try anything in the car, besides i am still wearing the belt (and the bra but it is irrelevant for this situation)

        i think my dad would only agree if i play a video during the drive which shows the time i unlock the thighbands and then drive home, so no chance

          Angelina

          A good argument!

          Laura

          You may be right!πŸ™‚

          Sara2001 Maybe he thinks public transportation is an option.

          It is the case for many of us.

          Angelina no, and it's for the best, I'm just embarrassing myself πŸ˜‚

          You may try to learn a few new words everyday,to have some vocabulary,then learn more difficult parts,like grammar...But it would take time.And french is not the easier language to learn.

          Angelina maybe he would use a similar system like your dad uses with your sister when she has physical education, so that i have to open and close the tighbands myself so i can drive

          With pictures and such?

          Sara2001

          But with an effective belt,it won't be very risked...

          Angelina i think my dad would only agree if i play a video during the drive which shows the time i unlock the thighbands and then drive home, so no chance

          You would be closely monitored,if he decides it!

            Vanessa But with an effective belt,it won't be very risked...

            I feel if a belt would be secure enough from his point of view, she wouldn't have to wear the tightbands now.

            Angelina well i don't think i would try anything in the car, besides i am still wearing the belt (and the bra but it is irrelevant for this situation)

            Yes, but isn't important what your father thinks?

            Angelina i think my dad would only agree if i play a video during the drive which shows the time i unlock the thighbands and then drive home, so no chance

            This could work. He could open your tightbands before you start to university, you an record your drive until you bring the chain back in place. Then you can follow the day. Before you drive back home you can start recording again before you open the envelope, then you can remove the chain and put the key in a new envelope, drive back home while recording and put the chain back in place before you stop recording you give the envelope back to your father.

              Vanessa You may try to learn a few new words everyday,to have some vocabulary,then learn more difficult parts,like grammar...But it would take time.And french is not the easier language to learn.

              we can learn a little bit together, I learn french and you learn german πŸ˜‰ but this is a bit difficult here, because then many people here would not understand us anymore πŸ˜‚

              Vanessa With pictures and such?

              exactly, we talked about it briefly (only briefly because my father is still hoping that i can drive with the tighbands). he said he would give me a sealed envelope and i would have to open it in front of a running camera and send him the video

              then I'd have to leave the camera on and drive home

              It's not easy but it's the only solution my father would accept

              Vanessa You would be closely monitored,if he decides it!

              exactly, only then would he accept it

              Sara2001 Yes, but isn't important what your father thinks?

              of course it's important, but a lot depends on whether I can convince him

              Sara2001

              almost exactly how it is planned, i would have to unlock the key if i had to unlock the tighbands before my driving home, do not re-seal the key if i record my whole drive home

              i write the german text under it because my translation is strange

              fast genau so ist es geplant, ich müsste den schlüssel wenn ich die tighbands vor meiner heimfahrt, wieder aufschließe den schlüssel nicht wieder versiegeln wenn ich meine gesamte heimfahrt aufnehme

                Vanessa You may try to learn a few new words everyday,to have some vocabulary

                The liaison makes this method almost useless πŸ˜‚ Meaning you need to learn phrases rather than words

                  Sara2001

                  if my father is not at home (which is very rare) i have to close the tighbands again when i get home and make a video of it

                    Sara2001 I feel if a belt would be secure enough from his point of view, she wouldn't have to wear the tightbands now.

                    Right.

                    Sara2001 This could work. He could open your tightbands before you start to university, you an record your drive until you bring the chain back in place. Then you can follow the day. Before you drive back home you can start recording again before you open the envelope, then you can remove the chain and put the key in a new envelope, drive back home while recording and put the chain back in place before you stop recording you give the envelope back to your father.

                    Doing it everyday wouldn't be pleasant,but it could work,I agree.

                    Angelina we can learn a little bit together, I learn french and you learn german πŸ˜‰ but this is a bit difficult here, because then many people here would not understand us anymore πŸ˜‚

                    The board would be hard to read for many people!πŸ˜‰Some posts mixing english,french and german... πŸ˜›

                    Angelina exactly, we talked about it briefly (only briefly because my father is still hoping that i can drive with the tighbands). he said he would give me a sealed envelope and i would have to open it in front of a running camera and send him the video

                    then I'd have to leave the camera on and drive home

                    It's not easy but it's the only solution my father would accept

                    As I said,not pleasant(and a bit boring)to do it everyday,but at least,there would be a possibility,even if you can't drive safely with thigh bands on.

                    And it would mean you can only use the car for going at university and back home,not for leisure...

                    Laura

                    Right,but it should be enough to be able to write in french and be understandable.

                    Angelina

                    And what happen of the key,in this case?

                      Vanessa Doing it everyday wouldn't be pleasant,but it could work,I agree.

                      that would not be a problem, a good key holder should do that

                      Vanessa Some posts mixing english,french and german...

                      in a few topics only the two of us are writing. what do you think about me writing only in french and you only in german in these topics ?, we can write the english text below πŸ˜‚

                      Vanessa And it would mean you can only use the car for going at university and back home,not for leisure...

                      why should it only work for the university ? the same system can be used for everything, even if it is very complex

                      Vanessa And what happen of the key,in this case?

                      I would have to put the key in an envelope, seal it and record all this

                        Angelina that would not be a problem, a good key holder should do that

                        I think more it would not be pleasant for you,to have to always record it when driving.

                        Angelina in a few topics only the two of us are writing. what do you think about me writing only in french and you only in german in these topics ?, we can write the english text below πŸ˜‚

                        It would be useful if I plan to write in german,which is not truely the case for now!πŸ˜‰

                        And it would take a lot of time.

                        Angelina why should it only work for the university ? the same system can be used for everything, even if it is very complex

                        A lot of opening/locking these,and a lot of videos to review;possible,but probably not too often.

                        Angelina I would have to put the key in an envelope, seal it and record all this

                        Logical,yes.

                          Vanessa A lot of opening/locking these,and a lot of videos to review;possible,but probably not too often.

                          Yes, it would took her father a lot of time. I can't believe he would allow her many drivers. I just imagine my father would have to watch hours and hours of one of us driving. Very boring.

                            Vanessa I think more it would not be pleasant for you,to have to always record it when driving.

                            there are two possibilities. either i film myself or i am not allowed to drive. i do not have many choices

                            Vanessa It would be useful if I plan to write in german,which is not truely the case for now!πŸ˜‰

                            And it would take a lot of time.

                            it's true, it would take too much time

                            and I don't plan on writing in French πŸ˜‚

                            Vanessa A lot of opening/locking these,and a lot of videos to review;possible,but probably not too often.

                            I guess I wouldn't drive much, but if I want to drive it's the only option.

                              Sara2001 Yes, it would took her father a lot of time. I can't believe he would allow her many drivers. I just imagine my father would have to watch hours and hours of one of us driving. Very boring.

                              he can watch the videos in fast forward πŸ˜‰

                              but it's true, i should probably only allowed to do important rides

                                Sara2001

                                It's what I guess too.

                                Angelina there are two possibilities. either i film myself or i am not allowed to drive. i do not have many choices

                                Sure,it would be the less worst one....

                                Angelina I don't plan on writing in French πŸ˜‚

                                πŸ˜‰

                                Angelina it's true, i should probably only allowed to do important rides

                                Too bad to have a car and not be allowed to use it often...πŸ™

                                  Vanessa Too bad to have a car and not be allowed to use it often...πŸ™

                                  but still better than having no car and not being allowed to drive despite having a driver's license πŸ˜‰

                                    Angelina

                                    Right.

                                    And as a car is used several years,you would be able to use the one you would get without thigh bands,after your marriage!πŸ™‚

                                      Vanessa

                                      exactly that I mean, better few rides than none πŸ™‚

                                      and after my wedding it does not matter anyway