Should only females get belted?

Vanessa

Angelina i admit that i would not have entered into this relationship if it had been different

I guess that,if the potential partner don't agree to this,both would decide to not enter in a relationship.

Angelina

of course to be completely happy in the end sexual pleasure is very important and if camryn does not want to marry me there will be no sexual pleasure so no completely happy relationship

Vanessa

Angelina

Right,if he/she knows that there would be no sexual pleasure(well,there can be some,but only for the free one,and not the main one)until marriage,even if we both want,and he/she doesn't want to marry,he/she can understand it won't be useful to start a relationship,as,without sex,it would very probably fail,sooner or later.

Angelina

Vanessa

exactly, unfortunately (or fortunately, as you want to see it) there is only this one way for a 100% happy relationship

and I am very happy that camryn is going to go this way with me 🙂

Vanessa

Angelina

I would say unfortunately;without chastity devices,we could start a relationship with no plan to marry,or even think we(us or our partner)don't want to marry,and,with time,we can change our minds,and marry.With our chastity devices,it would likely not happen...

So,someone wearing a chastity belt until marriage may miss some very good and long-lasting relationship,which can lead to marriage.

Angelina

Vanessa

that's right, without a chastity belt we could have a completely happy relationship for many years without getting married and maybe even marry after 10 or 20 years of relationship 🙁

Vanessa

Angelina

It happens pretty often that a couple wait a long time before marrying,even if truly in love,which would be very hard while wearing a chastity belt until marriage.It impacts a lot our decision about it.🙁

Angelina

Vanessa

of course it has a big influence, i have thought about it and probably i would marry camryn also without the belt, but then probably not before 10 years

Sarah

Vanessa so are you saying your wearing of the belt could influence you to get married earlier because getting married is required for the belt to be removed,?

Vanessa

Angelina

I think too it would impact my decision about marrying with Emilie.I would marry her later,I think,if there is no chastity devices involved.

Sarah

Yes.But it would not mean I would marry before being sure of my choice.

Angelina

Same opinion.

Tobbe

Not for me.I don't want to keep the belt on,and Emilie don't want me to stay belted either.But we would probably use it as a game between us,however(sometimes me wearing one,sometimes her wearing one,sometimes both).

Tobbe and Tobbe

It should be discussed before the wedding.

Angelina

I agree to both parts of your post.

Laura

Sarah because getting married is required for the belt to be removed,?

Same for me

Sarah

Laura that is probably not the effect your parents imagined when you agreed to the belt

Angelina

Sarah

I keep saying we shouldn't just get married so we can get the belt off.

but it has a big influence on the decision

Renita

Saintprudence our dear Helen subscribes to a very old-school belief that belting should be reserved for women

Me too. I don't believe in male chastity devices of any kind.

Tobbe

Renita I don't believe in male chastity devices of any kind.

It is reserved for females to use chastity belts...

Saintprudence

Renita Would you deny the privilege of being locked up to those men who yearn for it, for reasons of either self-control or virtue? Or for those who may not yearn for the belt but probably need or deserve it?

Ines

Renita Me too. I don't believe in male chastity devices of any kind.

Here is the third in the club. I, either believe.

Vanessa

Max9

No other friend can do it?

Saintprudence (except her, haha.)

She has ordered one for her!😉

Renita and Tobbe

I agree,but not for the same reason than you,I guess.I don't think chastity should be only available for women,but I think long term chastity(especially without release)can be painful and dangerous for a man.

Christine

I don't think so.Some women could appreciate his decision.

Angelina for people who masturbate excessively

I agree.It would be a good reason for it,but only if they ask for it.

Renita A guy should persuade a girl and not vice versa.

Why?I don't think it is still the case nowadays.

Max9

Not too much for a single man,I think.

Angelina

It would be a lot!

Renita

Saintprudence Would you deny the privilege of being locked up to those men who yearn for it, for reasons of either self-control or virtue?

I would stay away from them.

Angelina if such a relationship also works for girls it can also work for boys

A guy should persuade a girl and not vice versa.

Max9

I believe we all would life a way happier life if we all were chaste, except for getting children of course. Men and women. Unmarried in any way, maybe also when being married.
Indeed I found one cage I didn't manage to get out of jet. But jet. Yes, a belt was better also for men. But my cage is just such comfy, I don't really want to get out of it.

Angelina

Saintprudence preferably all women (except her, haha.)

that will change soon 😉

Max9 I believe we all would life a way happier life if we all were chaste,

I don't think so, except for people who masturbate excessively

Christine I would say such boy has zero chance for a relationship.

why ?, if such a relationship also works for girls it can also work for boys

Christine

Nick1 What would you guys say for a male who is considering asking parents for a chastity cage

I would say such boy has zero chance for a relationship.

Max9

Angelina I don't think so, except for people who masturbate excessively

Might be a point in it. I'd masturbate twice a day if I wasn't locked. And I think you're not really happy being unlocked and .asturbatint that often.

Christine

Angelina why ?, if such a relationship also works for girls it can also work for boys

Coz, if he is asking parents about things like this, it means he didn't have relationships so far and want to give up instead.

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