Angelina and if it was the decision of the parents ? it does not change the character of the boy
There's a point in that
Ines I want a boy to take care of me... Not that he needs be cared himself!
Sounds a bit egoistic, doesn't it? I mean when the man has do work hard to gain the money for his family, comes home tired seeking for a bit of care and then again he has to perform care and doesn't recieve anything. While anything the girl does is having a great day spending the money the husband earns.
Might also be a question of the nationality. Here in Germany women and men are seen as equal. Both go to work, both take care of the kids, both get taken care of by their partner.