Should only females get belted?

Angelina

Vanessa He is in a happy and lasting relationship with his girlfriend presently,even if he sometimes have to wear a chastity cage,so it doesn't impacted much his relationship!😉

but he is one of the few men who involuntarily wear the belt/cage even if not permanently

Vanessa Anyway,it should be accepted totally willingly by both,no matter the reason,for using a chastity belt in a relationship,for the initial purpose.

of course, it's just my attitude towards it, I can't and don't want to

Vanessa Which we still plan to do,with Emilie!😉

😉

Vanessa

Angelina but he is one of the few men who involuntarily wear the belt/cage even if not permanently

Yes,even if I'm not sure if a man being a reluctantly wearer is way less common than a woman...But it should be(you know I think it is painful and dangerous for a man).

Max9

Right.A man have no hymen,but if he hadn't sex,he's virgin.

Ines I think that she means that a boy's virginity is not anything valuable.

It depends on each people,I think.I'm pretty sure some men want to stay virgin until they marry,too.

Sara2001 it is still not forced from my point of view

It is very important.

Sara2001 Forced wearing against someone's will would make the wearer very unhappy

I confirm...🙁

Sara2001 We try to reduce the "surprises" when it comes to the other ones expectations.

Good decision.

Angelina

🤣

Christine

Angelina please do not generalize, because I disagree with that statement

Correction. I meant straight girls only.

Angelina Why?

Coz guys don't have virginity

Max9

Christine Coz guys don't have virginity

How? If a man never had sex he's a virgin.

Angelina

Christine Correction. I meant straight girls only.

there are also differences between them 🤣

Christine Coz guys don't have virginity

if that's true, I have to rethink my entire knowledge of male anatomy 😂

Ines I think that she means that a boy's virginity is not anything valuable.

what is the difference ? if virginity is valuable, everybody may decide for himself, but I don't see any difference between men and women

Ines

Max9
I think that she means that a boy's virginity is not anything valuable.
I would not like that my man would be a cad, but if he had his own experiences, even it can be good, but is different for us.
So the concept of "male chastity" is not equal to "maidenhood", it is not important.
It is my opinion about the topic.

Renita

Max9 Probably she meant hymen.

Christine

Max9 If a man never had sex he's a virgin.

But nobody knows.

Ines

Angelina
Mmmmm...
No, here I disagree.
Of course I do not try to convince anyone, but for me is quite different. I think there are different implications for girls and boys about this topic.

Angelina

Ines Mmmmm...
No, here I disagree.

at least I made you thinking 😉

yes i understand what you mean, i see even the boys think very differently about it

i often see men and women very equally. i sometimes wonder if it is because i am bi 😂

Renita

Angelina hmm, does that mean I'm not a woman?

You just have boy's implication here.

Ines I think there are different implications for girls and boys about this topic.

Renita

Angelina i sometimes wonder if it is because i am bi

Not a case, because @Vanessa is also bi, but belongs to "womens' party" here 😃

Sara2001

Vanessa It depends the reason why someone have to do this because his/her partner wants it.

Daniel clearly wants it and he wants it for power exchange, but it is still not forced from my point of view and I think this is the major difference.

Vanessa Anyway,it should be accepted totally willingly by both,no matter the reason,for using a chastity belt in a relationship,for the initial purpose.

I completely agree. Forced wearing against someone's will would make the wearer very unhappy, I don't think a relationship could work like that. Therefore we talk about anything as early as possible and we try as much as we can as early as possible. We try to reduce the "surprises" when it comes to the other ones expectations.

Angelina

Sara2001 and we try as much as we can as early as possible

but we're not gonna keep it that way just because you try now, are you?

Sara2001

Angelina but we're not gonna keep it that way just because you try now, are you?

Not necessary. If we feel we should keep it, we keep it, if not, we don't. It gives me a good idea what kind of things I can expect during marriage.

Angelina

Renita to "womens' party" here

hmm, does that mean I'm not a woman?

When I get my next cleaning break, I'm gonna go check what's going on down there. 😂

Laura

Angelina hmm, does that mean I'm not a woman?

I think it means you don't belong to the party answered "Yes" 😂

Angelina

Vanessa Yes,even if I'm not sure if a man being a reluctantly wearer is way less common than a woman...But it should be(you know I think it is painful and dangerous for a man).

Does your brother would like to write here? Does he know about the forum?

Max9

Vanessa you know I think it is painful and dangerous for a man

That's true. It is dangerpus and it can be very painful if somerhing goes wrong and if the cage / belt doesn't fit 100% to your body. But you simply keed to be cautios and so some breaks for being allowed to get hard freely without time pressure or something like that. doesn't mean he has to be made able to masturbate.
But normal everyday wearing is also a very nice feeling... as long as your bldy doesn/t try to get hard for too long

Vanessa

Angelina Does your brother would like to write here? Does he know about the forum?

He knows the board,but is not interested in writing here.I don't think he read us either.

Max9

I think too the dangerous part can be reduced a lot if it is possible for him to get hard without the cage often enough.

Angelina it's also better to test it now than when you are married and it might be too late 🙂

I agree.

Angelina

Way harder than for a woman,however.

Angelina

Renita

probably because I was raised by a man 😃

Sara2001 It gives me a good idea what kind of things I can expect during marriage.

well if it works for you it's ok. it's also better to test it now than when you are married and it might be too late 🙂

Renita

Angelina probably because I was raised by a man

It's not too late to change it.

Angelina

Christine

at least if the woman is not a virgin, she might notice it 😉

Max9

Christine That's true, saidly. But if they are caged, you will know. Just ask his mom... or who ever holds his keys.

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