Laura If I was your girlfriend I would let you out.
That's just a different point of view. Because he's not her boyfriend - he is her sub, slave or sissy?
Anyway, he is her toy and tool ... like when you buy a car and upgrade it with an alarm system so nobody else can steal your car - would wou uninstall the alarm system afterwards as lobg as it doesn't reduce the cars funtions you need?
Many dominant females keep their subs chate, in deed. Makes then more attentive and obident. And they can't get hard for soneone else or just at all, ecxept if she alllws him to get an erection.
And some even cuckold their slaves (fuck other men or have one lover) if they want sex, so they don't need to unlock their slave and might risk his obedience and trained view of her superiority.
You're just not the girlfriend or boyfriend. Oyu're a slave or sub owned by the mistress / master. That's just a different condtitution. Some even own several slaves /subs /sissies / whatever they are. Like one male being feminized by her as a maid, one for sexual services, one to torture, one for claning the shoes eith the toung ... and what else comes to their mind.
if people like to live like that I'm fine with it.
But nibody has the right to force somebody do something they don't want to do.