Angelina I hope you're not angry with me, I tackled you pretty hard today, hopefully you do not get it wrong
No, I'm fine, I just don't like it when people think the way we do the things we do is based on arbitrariness or weakness or because I'm stupid and I don't like it when people think my father or my boyfriend act like a dictator. But I think I have to accept that as long as I accept that I have not the same role and the same rights in a relationship then the man, I'm seen as weak and the man as extremely dominant.
I think this kind of relationship leads to a very deep trust between me an Daniel and this feels phantastic. I think everybody who haven't tried it on her own cannot imagine what the result is when he rules out of love and not out of the need to have power. That's such an important difference and it feels like it is so consequent overseen.
I had never expected that I will once fight so hard for this lifestyle 🙂
Yes, I don't like to be spanked or to be put in the corner. Yes, I feel very humiliated when I have to get it. Yes, I only have a limited veto and I hate it if a rule is not like I want. But normally all these things turned out really good for me at the end.
Like the rule that I'm not allowed to argue with him in public. Since I follow this rule more strict, he knows that I will agree to everything he says no matter if I like it or not and since then he takes very good care to only say and suggest things in public he knows that I would not disagree, to do.
Vanessa What makes it valid or not?
I think it's the same for all of us. Something things are overseen by our parents/partners/fathers and when you point to these things and/or side effects, it can change a lot.