New chastity belt for Amira

Tobbe

Completely dressed, I see no reason to use them. If her chastity belt fits well, there is no need to restrict mobility during the day. Then it becomes more like a punishment.

Angelina

Vanessa ,even if easier to manage in such case,can still impact us a lot.

of course, it's never easy, even if I had these breaks, I would have to live 13 of 14 days of chaste life without any chance of release

Vanessa Sexy,but not slutty,clothes were allowed?

where exactly is the difference ? 🙂

Vanessa It helps to make the change of clothing more discreet!😉

luckily nobody noticed anything 😉

Vanessa And emotionally.

is the same for me

Amira so it is just one more week to go!

how long are you going to wear the tighbands?

Amira I still didn't manage to forget that I wear them for one single second.

I haven't manage that after almost a year 🙁

Amira so it is a bit like a shift system.

it's the same with me

Tobbe This bands will never be comfortable! You will always be reminded that your legs cannot move as much as you want.

that is unfortunately true 🙁

Tobbe Then it becomes more like a punishment.

at least by @Amira it is thought like this after the 4 weeks

Sara2001

Many parents think it's a good solution when you are not supervised.

Tobbe

Some may be able to rely on their daughters? 😃

Ines

Tobbe
I think that people that make daughters most of time without motive, are sadistic bullies.
And I think that every belt should have bands, but for use them when is necessary protect us not for caprice.
And I think that bound "punishment" with "belt" is a stupid and insane fail.

Vanessa

Amira

It would be ended soon,good!🙂

Tobbe Therefore, I believe that it is only during the nights that they make the most use, to prevent touching.

And if the wearer is alone at home most of the day?

Tobbe

Not for reluctantly wearers!😉

Ines And I think that bound "punishment" with "belt" is a stupid and insane fail.

However it was used like this at first,for me.A bit too now,but not only.

Angelina of course, it's never easy, even if I had these breaks, I would have to live 13 of 14 days of chaste life without any chance of release

I thought more about how it would impact dating,but you're right too.

Angelina where exactly is the difference ? 🙂

Everyone have to find the limit for him/her,but generally sexy clothes would make people think a woman is nice,attractive,seductive...while slutty clothes make them think such woman is a whore,or only interested by having sex,with anyone,anywhere,and anywhen.

Generally,I know what would make me sexy,or slutty.But it would depends on other people,too.People very strict,very old-school about outfits for women would easily think a sexy woman is slutty,for example.

Angelina luckily nobody noticed anything 😉

Good!🙂

Angelina is the same for me

For almost all of us who wear it,I think.

Amira

I think I can understand you.There is not much you can do,try to focus on the fact your training is ended soon,it may help you a bit.

Amira

Be careful to not act like this,or it could make you wear these longer...Even if I know it's not easy...

Amira

today is a very complicated day for me. I don't know how to explain and I don't even know if anyone really can understand how I feel. For school I got out of the thighbands as it was agreed upon in the first place. And now I am back in them again since about 2 hours and it is as bad as it was when I wore them for the first time. Its like if my legs are rebelling against the restriction after they were free to move for half a day. I don't know how to handle that.

Angelina

Amira

i understand what you mean, even if i don't have this "release", you don't wear the tighbands very long and were free for some hours today. your legs got used to this freedom again and are now becoming resrictive again

sorry I can't really help you 🙁
try to stay calm and get used to the restricted freedom of movement again, even if it is hard and look at it positively, if I have calculated correctly, your training is over at the end of this week or?

Amira

Angelina
you're right it is going to be over then! I am so close to snap and yell at anyone cause of it right now. I just needed to let some of it out here.

Angelina

Amira I am so close to snap and yell at anyone cause of it right now. I just needed to let some of it out here.

I know that, and at least for me it's absolutely ok here, I hope you feel a little better 🙂

Amira

thank you so much! I hope it is going to be easier tomorrow!

Angelina

Amira thank you so much! I hope it is going to be easier tomorrow!

I wish you all the best 🙂

Ines But at the end is all about feelings,

this is the point where we find all the differences

Vanessa I thought more about how it would impact dating

that's right, another difficult topic 🙁

Vanessa .But it would depends on other people,too.People very strict,very old-school about outfits for women would easily think a sexy woman is slutty,for example.

that's exactly what i mean, i already knew which way your answer was going, but there is a big difference between how we see ourselves and how others see us. if i think i look sexy (or my girlfriend says so) doesn't mean that others think exactly the same

Ines for me at first was very strange things that I read here, for me was very strange girls see the belt as a punishment tool , and not as a way to feel protected.

i have to admit for me it was the opposite, for me it was strange that a girl like you can feel protected by the belt

aslan_asena

Amira I hope it is going to be easier tomorrow!

You should be proud. Wearing leg bands is a big thing. The only chastity tool scaring me even more would be a chastity bra (especially during summer times).

I really adore your strength. 😀

Ines

@Amira, It is important you think what means for you wear a chastity belt, and if sense of protection worth it the issues that can cause the thigh bands.
However, there are two points about the particular, in one side, thigh bands should not be weared when you need freedom of movement or it is not necessary such complete protection.
However, and talking seriously, is true that sometimes we do not need full freedom, and in fact a tight pencil skirt is far more restrictive than thigh bands and we wear it a lot of times (and pencil skirt and heels far far far more restrictive 😂, even if I do not have still a very long pencil skirt).
But at the end is all about feelings, I like the feeling of protection and dependence, and for me thigh bands, used with brain worth it. If they do not give you any good feeling, maybe is time to talk to your parents.

Ines

Vanessa However it was used like this at first,for me.A bit too now,but not only.

And result in bad, and logical relationship with the belt, for me at first was very strange things that I read here, for me was very strange girls see the belt as a punishment tool , and not as a way to feel protected.
Use it as punishment, have to arise rejection in the girl.
Nobody wish wear a clothe as punishment.

Tobbe

Ines I think a chastity belt sometimes give the girl more "freedom" to do things all by herself. The parents know that she is protected and more permissive. Then it is not a punishment.

Vanessa

Ines

I don't think I would like much more the chastity belt,nor thigh bands,even it is wasn't used as a punishment at first...

Tobbe

Some people convince their daughter this way too:if she accepts to wear it,she would have more freedom(I think especially at Ivana,who convinced her daughters this way,but it seems it is the case for @Amira,too).

Ines

I don't agree with my parents at all,but I think I can understand how they thought.They think that punishing me by making me wear one would be a deterrent enough to make me think twice to do it again,or,at least,would limit how often I can "misbehave".And,when they decided I should wear it until marriage,so not as a punishment,I've so say I felt it worse than being punished this way,as I had free times without it on,when used as a punishment;which is not the case anymore...

Angelina that's right, another difficult topic 🙁

Right,difficult to discuss it,and to decide when explaining it to a boyfriend/girlfriend,especially while knowing he/she may be shocked and decide to stop the relationship after it...

Angelina that's exactly what i mean, i already knew which way your answer was going, but there is a big difference between how we see ourselves and how others see us. if i think i look sexy (or my girlfriend says so) doesn't mean that others think exactly the same

We agree about it.For some people,like people who only notice us in the street and go away,it isn't needed to care about them,but for some people,like employers,colleagues and such,it is different,if they think we're slutty,instead of sexy,it could impact us badly...

aslan_asena The only chastity tool scaring me even more would be a chastity bra (especially during summer times).

Chastity bra is awful emotionally,and it is all but comfortable to wear it in Summer.

Ines

Tobbe
But is not reality for some girls.
For me, in general are good things, but for a "punished" girl is different.
Specially, because in some cases, if they are not trolling, some parents have a very "special" (Not in positive sense) psychology.

Tobbe

Ines That's the problem! We not know if they are trolling, or if some mostly speaks the truth and add some "punishment" to make themselves more interesting.

Angelina

Vanessa ,I've so say I felt it worse than being punished this way,

this is absolutely understandable, wearing the belt as a punishment is certainly very uncomfortable, but it is not as bad as wearing the belt permanently 🙁

Vanessa decide to stop the relationship after it...

now if he/she ends the relationship it is bad, but much worse is that he/she could spread the word and we would have problems 🙁

Vanessa ,like employers,colleagues and such,it is different,if they think we're slutty,instead of sexy,it could impact us badly...

it might also be harder to find a job 🙁

Vanessa

Angelina this is absolutely understandable, wearing the belt as a punishment is certainly very uncomfortable, but it is not as bad as wearing the belt permanently 🙁

Yes,especially as I knew I would be free again after my punishment...It helped,even if I already hated to be punished this way,and was very frustrated during it.

Angelina now if he/she ends the relationship it is bad, but much worse is that he/she could spread the word and we would have problems 🙁

Sure.I was lucky it never happened to me(as far as I know;I think some exs could have discussed it with their friends after we break-up,but it never spread,it seems).But I don't like there is several people knowing I had to wear it,even if none of them know I've to wear it permanently now.

Angelina it might also be harder to find a job 🙁

Right.

Amira

Glad to read it is over now.I hope for you that you could avoid to wear it again,even for a few days!

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