Angelina my father was present at the meeting and supported us πŸ™‚

I think it must be very scarry for him. It was a very, very big risk.

My father decided that he needs more time to think about it, he hasn't allowed my sister to reveal her equipment to his parents for now. She has to prepare them slowly.

    Sara2001 I think it must be very scarry for him. It was a very, very big risk.

    yes, but he can assess risk better than I can, so he wanted to be there. if it could have ended badly at some point, he would have stopped it

    Sara2001 My father decided that he needs more time to think about it, he hasn't allowed my sister to reveal her equipment to his parents for now. She has to prepare them slowly.

    well maybe it would be good if your sister would first only talk about the fact that it is a tradition in your family not to have sex until the wedding. that's how i did it with camryn in the beginning to "prepare" her, then her boyfriend's parents would be at least a little less surprised

      Angelina well maybe it would be good if your sister would first only talk about the fact that it is a tradition in your family not to have sex until the wedding. that's how i did it with camryn in the beginning to "prepare" her, then her boyfriend's parents would be at least a little less surprised

      Thank you. That's a very good suggestion. I will tell her your idea. Then she can explain that she gave it a try and so on. I think she needs a way to be open to them, that at the end nowadays she doesn't like her equipment.

        Sara2001

        good, if your sister's boyfriend's parents already know what it is about, it may be easier to talk about the equipment at a later stage πŸ™‚

        if there is any news, i am curious to hear about it πŸ˜‰

          Angelina if there is any news, i am curious to hear about it πŸ˜‰

          Not really, they only see them next weekend and I am not sure how fast my sister wants to go the next step. She is very nervous about it.

            Sara2001

            i mean this more generally, if there is news i would be glad about an update (no matter when) πŸ™‚

            it is understandable that your sister is nervous, do you know how her boyfriend stands by her plans?

              HHelen What else would you like to know?

              If there is no consequences if she didn't agree,nothing else.

              Angelina

              Me too.

              Sara2001

              I doubt it is a good idea.

              If they're shocked,they could easily tell their son he's not allowed to date her anymore...And he is the only one who had to know it,I don't think it is a problem if his parents don't know.If they're surprised they never sleep together,she can tell she want to stay virgin until she get married.

                Angelina it is understandable that your sister is nervous, do you know how her boyfriend stands by her plans?

                Not exactly. But she talks a lot about how open her boyfriend and his siblings are raised. That they are definitely more open about things then our family. So I expect that it is important for him, but this is just guessing. I think they wouldn't plan is lt if he doesn't like the idea.

                Vanessa If they're shocked,they could easily tell their son he's not allowed to date her anymore

                I worry the same or even worse that they go to the officials. But on the other hand, if she sleeps at his home or they go on holiday together, it can easily discovered. Maybe not the belt itself, but the spray bottle or things like that.

                But I think already suggested her to be very, very, very careful.

                  Or call police.

                  Sara2001 Not exactly. But she talks a lot about how open her boyfriend and his siblings are raised. That they are definitely more open about things then our family. So I expect that it is important for him, but this is just guessing. I think they wouldn't plan is lt if he doesn't like the idea.

                  well, she has to be careful in any case. of course you always have to consider why your sister wants to tell it. if the damage could be greater than the benefit it would be the wrong decision

                    13 days later

                    Laura Girls, what kind of clothes do you prefer to hide your chastity belt? Especially waistband, waist or hip style.

                    I think, as a boy like me, it is easier to hide the belt. I can wear anything. The only time where I'm worried about somebody can see my belt, is when I go swimming. But still then its easier to hide.

                      19 days later

                      I was recently reading on Twitter about hiding chastity belt and bra and one user had written that she uses silicone to hide her equipment from others and she said that it was the most effective way of dealing with people who notice stuff. She also included 2 links of products she uses to cover her belt and bra. She also said that on wearing on top of her equipment, it literally looked like natural skin and no one has noticed till date. I think she is a pro when comes to hiding her equipment.
                      https://www.amazon.com/Artificial-Mastectomy-Prosthesis-Crossdresser-Transgender/dp/B07H5GK3RT
                      https://www.amazon.com/Mypersian-Crossdressing-Silicone-Artificial-Transgender/dp/B07TDF33CR?th=1&psc=1
                      I apologize in advance if this is offensive to anyone but if this is a good idea, I think people who are insecure about their equipment will really benefit from this.

                        Jeff she uses silicone to hide her equipment

                        Very smart idea.

                        • Jeff replied to this.

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                          It would be interesting the aesthetic effect with the belt under it, and secondly, the transpiration under it can boil your skin.
                          Frankly, "hide" the belt under a skirt and even not a tight trouser is not very complicated.
                          With my hip belt even I am starting to use low cut dresses, an 0 problems.
                          Maybe a bra is different, but I think that this item for a belt is useless.

                            Jeff she uses silicone to hide her equipment

                            You should not believe in all you read! I don't think it is a good idea, if not only used a very short time. As Ines said, it can boil your skin. I also think it will tears quite easily. Silicon vs stainless steel is not a good combination.

                            • Jeff replied to this.

                              Ines
                              Maybe this could be of some help in countries where it is cold for most of the year. I also thought about sweating but the purpose of the silicone is to hide the equipment underneath only for some special outside occasions for a few hours. Having it on all the time is nonsence I agree, but it will prevent people noticing stuff about your equipment.

                              Regarding impressions under the silicone, wearing bra and underwear on the silicone covers the impressions of the belt and chastity bra. Plus wearing bra and underwear on the silicone makes it look more real and people won't think you are faking it and they think it is your natural skin.

                                Tobbe I don't think it will tear easily because it is high quality silicone and it should only be used to hide your equipment and not to be used as any chastity equipment. So this is only a suppliment on the chastity equipment so that people won't notice it and the wearer won't feel insecure about people noticing her belt or bra

                                  Jeff I do not think you understand my answer.
                                  I do not mean at all that it should be used as a form of chastity belt. Instead, I point out the problem that the metal will destroy the silicone. If you have hold in a a real metal chastity belt, you understand that it is not completely smooth and soft. Many places as D-rings, second shield, lock, where there is a risk of destroying both fabric and high quality silicone.

                                  This silicone bra "skin" has a flat inside and I think it is more a thing for transgenders. Not girls and women with real breasts.

                                  • Jeff replied to this.

                                    Tobbe D-rings, second shield, lock, where there is a risk of destroying both fabric and high quality silicone.

                                    Yes totally agree with you, but i think you can prevent that by wearing a sleeveless bodysuit underneath the silicone which not only absorbs sweat but also prevents tearing of the silicone. I am not sure this idea would work but it is just a thought.

                                    Tobbe Not girls and women with real breasts.

                                    Yes, I agree with you but I think modifications could be made to the silicone and since it is highly elastic material, I dont think it will be a problem for women. Like I said I have no experience with belts or bra so im sorry if i talk nonsense.