Hiding your chastity belt

Vanessa

Sara2001

I don't know any other wearers too.Even if I think I was probably not the only one wearing it in my university.

Tobbe It is difficult to spot someone in the environment wearing a chastity belt.

You're probably right,but when wearing it,especially at first,we can easily have the feeling that everyone notice what we've to wear.

Angelina I cannot understand, it remains the same body 😂

It is more about the feelings,not the same situation than a supervised shower.

Sara2001 Do you have knowledge of belted women who are in a man led relationship with rules and consequences?

I guess it is less uncommon than wearing a chastity belt!😉

Laura Because if go to a manufacturer for measurements you must live in Germany, otherwise it's too far 😂

No manufacturers doing it in the USA?

Laura

Vanessa No manufacturers doing it in the USA?

Not in my knowledge

Angelina

Vanessa Even if I think I was probably not the only one wearing it in my university.

i am 99% sure that i am the only one at the school 🙁

Vanessa It is more about the feelings,not the same situation than a supervised shower.

i don't think we can get a unified view any more 😂

Abby82

interesting, i have had similar experiences. that's why i write here very often, it helps to control my emotions better, because now i know that other girls are in my situation too 🙂

Laura

Abby82 Usually when im frustrated i come here to read instead of shouting at parents for example

You should also write more like Angelina does

Vanessa

Laura

I'm surprised no major brand is based on the USA.

Abby82

Maybe Fancysteeel?I guessed it was more for fetish,but @Ines seems to like this one for going out and such,but not for permanent wearing,while secure enough,and not too uncomfortable.

If your parents want a major brand,it would be secure,I think...

Abby82

It is one of the purposes of this forum,to help wearers of chastity belt manage it!🙂

Angelina i don't think we can get a unified view any more 😂

I think it is one of the few subjects we would disagree,yes!😉

Angelina

Vanessa I'm surprised no major brand is based on the USA.

that surprised me too

Vanessa It is one of the purposes of this forum,to help wearers of chastity belt manage it!🙂

well, it's rare to dissuade parents from the idea, so I would say it's the main task 😉

Vanessa I think it is one of the few subjects we would disagree,yes!😉

is ok, you are still like a big sister here in the forum 🙂

Tobbe

Vanessa I'm surprised no major brand is based on the USA.

There have been very good manufacturers in the United States. AccessDenied, William Jones Chastity, Locked-In-Steel.
Unfortunately, some owner died and no one managed to take over and continue. Other manufacturers have come afterwards, but failed both with production and promise to customers and after a while disappeared with several angry people who paid advances.

Vanessa

Angelina is ok, you are still like a big sister here in the forum 🙂

Thank you! 🙂

Laura

Have she told you you would have to wear one too,when discussing it?

Verrouille

My-Steel are good ones,too.

Alex it seems to me that it is noticeable.

Even if not much the case anymore,I often felt everyone could notice what I'm wearing when I started to wear it.

Alex

Is this topic just for girls, or is secrecy under clothes also relevant for boys?

Laura

Alex If he wears a belt, what's a difference?

Angelina

Laura

then you might have known something from Locked-In-Steel Jillian 🙂

Alex

for both genders 🙂

Alex

Well, there really is no difference. I just wear skinny jeans or sweatpants and men's thongs - and only a small bump is visible in the front. But all the time it seems to me that it is noticeable.

Laura

Vanessa Have she told you you would have to wear one too,when discussing it?

Yes, I knew it

Sara2001

My sister thinks about telling her boyfriends parents about her equipment. I worry a bit if she should do it and what the best way may is. My father expects a good plan from her before he thinks about his okay. I can absolutely understand that she doesn't want to hide it anymore. I have never met them, but from what my sister is telling me, they are very nice people with a very liberal view. Strongly beliving in freedom, gender equality and things like that.

Angelina

Sara2001

i have had similar experiences so i try to give some tips. the parents of camryn are apparently similar

the plan sounds very good. the important thing is that she explains to her boyfriend's parents what the devices do and why she wears them. i don't know exactly how much your sister has already told you about your family, but why is the most important point.

furthermore, the two of them should make it very clear that they still have a happy relationship. in my case, after i explained everything, i immediately sat down with camryn and started cuddling with her

maybe it would be helpful if your father is also there to support them.

good luck 🙂

Vanessa

HHelen What else would you like to know?

If there is no consequences if she didn't agree,nothing else.

Angelina

Me too.

Sara2001

I doubt it is a good idea.

If they're shocked,they could easily tell their son he's not allowed to date her anymore...And he is the only one who had to know it,I don't think it is a problem if his parents don't know.If they're surprised they never sleep together,she can tell she want to stay virgin until she get married.

Sara2001

Angelina i have had similar experiences so i try to give some tips. the parents of camryn are apparently similar

I think camrys parents where extremely and extraordinary open to it. I would with my sister that they are so open, too, but I think it is much more likely that they don't support a chastity belt at all. I fear that they could bring my family in big trouble. I worry that they think we are crazy freaks any my father needs to be arrested. I think it is a very complex situation.

To be honest, I don't understand why camrys parents didn't call the officials to "help" you. I think from an outsiders perspective, thats a valid thing to do.

James

Angelina furthermore, the two of them should make it very clear that they still have a happy relationship. in my case, after i explained everything, i immediately sat down with camryn and started cuddling with her

Oh, when did her parents find out?

Angelina

Sara2001 I think camrys parents where extremely and extraordinary open to it.

not really, it took almost 4 hours for them to understand it. and they only accept it, but they do not like it

Sara2001 I fear that they could bring my family in big trouble.

that is of course a risk, but i also understand that it is very difficult for your sister to have to hide it all the time. i think an open conversation is at least better than if she gets "caught" at some point and according to what you write here your sister is not very good at not getting caught

i would have to know the parents personally so i cannot answer yes or no.

Sara2001 To be honest, I don't understand why camrys parents didn't call the officials to "help" you. I think from an outsiders perspective, thats a valid thing to do.

because it's no help. it would have caused problems for all of us. the most important thing for camryn's parents is not to endanger our relationship. if this works best with the current rules, the better option is to accept it

James

we told them after we had a few months together

James

Angelina not really, it took almost 4 hours for them to understand it. and they only accept it, but they do not like i

Your dad knew you were saying this? Must have been a scary 4 hours.

Angelina

James Your dad knew you were saying this?

my father was present at the meeting and supported us 🙂

Sara2001

Angelina my father was present at the meeting and supported us 🙂

I think it must be very scarry for him. It was a very, very big risk.

My father decided that he needs more time to think about it, he hasn't allowed my sister to reveal her equipment to his parents for now. She has to prepare them slowly.

Angelina

Sara2001 I think it must be very scarry for him. It was a very, very big risk.

yes, but he can assess risk better than I can, so he wanted to be there. if it could have ended badly at some point, he would have stopped it

Sara2001 My father decided that he needs more time to think about it, he hasn't allowed my sister to reveal her equipment to his parents for now. She has to prepare them slowly.

well maybe it would be good if your sister would first only talk about the fact that it is a tradition in your family not to have sex until the wedding. that's how i did it with camryn in the beginning to "prepare" her, then her boyfriend's parents would be at least a little less surprised

Sara2001

Angelina well maybe it would be good if your sister would first only talk about the fact that it is a tradition in your family not to have sex until the wedding. that's how i did it with camryn in the beginning to "prepare" her, then her boyfriend's parents would be at least a little less surprised

Thank you. That's a very good suggestion. I will tell her your idea. Then she can explain that she gave it a try and so on. I think she needs a way to be open to them, that at the end nowadays she doesn't like her equipment.

Angelina

Sara2001

good, if your sister's boyfriend's parents already know what it is about, it may be easier to talk about the equipment at a later stage 🙂

if there is any news, i am curious to hear about it 😉

Sara2001

Angelina if there is any news, i am curious to hear about it 😉

Not really, they only see them next weekend and I am not sure how fast my sister wants to go the next step. She is very nervous about it.

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