Age to begin

Ines

Jen
Well, wear the belt had implications.
If someone wears the belt in real life these implications arise.
And she discovered that wear it makes feel well.
She told us about it and my elder sister and me wear it and my little sister does not.
For all this background I know that forced usage is not only a mistake but also it will destroy a family and I do not believe so much the stories about wear a belt in classes, sports...

Ines

Jen Your mum wanting to 'freshen up' marrage -uh sure whatever there are some others here also- but why an unmarried person?

Yes, at least in Spain in that moment belts were almost unknown, and they discovered them almost accidentally.

And she discovered an entire world.
I think that some people will let the belt in "bedroom" and it is OK, but if you wear it seriously the relationship between wearer and keyholder can make you very happy.
The way in that you feel caressed, protected... As girl, at least for me, is the best you can feel.
If you like feel that way, my sister, for example does not (or she says it 😅).

About married or unmarried girls, well I think it is not very different. An unmarried girl should be protected fully and of course a married girl should have the most successful possible sexual life, (I do not believe in some things that I read here), but with the belt you feel protected, important and obviously give "the key" to your partner and let him decide the moment is a very intense feeling.
Ah, and no doubt, I can give the power of decision to my husband but I do not have vocation of martyr and he has to make me happy and full woman.

Megan

Ines Ah, and no doubt, I can give the power of decision to my husband but I do not have vocation of martyr and he has to make me happy and full woman.

Yeah and unless you do something like stab him with a knife or point the family gun at him I am guessing he will never hit you?
If you do threaten his life or safety like those 'domatrix?' women he should break your bones in a second

Jen

Ines About married or unmarried girls, well I think it is not very different.

Seems a big difference to me but not too you.

Ines give "the key" to your partner and let him decide the moment is a very intense feeling.

But the years beforehand.....

Ines The way in that you feel caressed, protected... As girl, at least for me, is the best you can feel.

So you tried a belt and liked it and that's why. That's just... Like it's crazy but also completely sensible

Megan

Saintprudence how have you convinced him to be at least okay with the belt and consent to keyhold?

Well I am working on that. 😅 Right now our house and my schedule are my Keyholder more than him.
He keeps putting the keys back down somewhere in the open like the kitchen table or nightstand.
At one point he asked me if he told me what time to expect him home could I fix dinner and 'self unlock'?
Not in those exact words but... I just don't feel comfortable without the belt for a long time.

Now he has made me extremely enjoy my role as a woman which makes life feel differently.

Joh

Megan Now he has made me extremely enjoy my role as a woman which makes life feel differently.

That sounds good if that's where it's headed.

Ines In my opinion, if the belt arises bad feeling in the girl, the it should not be used.

I agree.
You should only do what feels right.

Angelina there are reasons why i don't believe the story either but to try and pin it down to age is a bit superficial.

I got the same impression that other points doesn't match up.

Max9 might be turned on by a child in chastity

This is a good idea that should be taken into account.

Vanessa

Angelina maybe also trans/intersexual 😉

I would tend to think it is a bored man(especially because he used a man account first).

Jen At least when married there is time with the partner but unmarried there is nothing why would you do that?

So,you may accept it more when married?

Megan Well I am working on that. 😅

Does he starts to accept it more?

Megan I just don't feel comfortable without the belt for a long time.

Were you a reluctant wearer at first?I don't remember.

If yes,it is interesting it is now the opposite,and you don't like to not have it on!😉

Ines

Megan
I do not catch your point.
A man never should hit a woman anyway.

a_father

Jen is what a_father says correct?

You can find everything here on the forum, if nobody deleted the thread. I have given the story abbreviated because everything can be read here.

Megan

Jen nah I was a mess when I found out this could happen no way some 12 year old just dealing with this.

There is nothing bad that happened. It is just clothing that supports. Maybe you think I'm crazy but relax a little when you wear...

Ines

Jen But the years beforehand.....

Well, the years before I believe that a unmarried girls must not do anything.
I know you have another opinion and is OK, but for me, virginity is something important.

Jen Seems a big difference to me but not too you.

This is because most of people focus in the mere steel, just in the belt, but there is much more behind it. I mean the feeling of be important, of be protected and caressed does not change if the girl is married or single.
Only change is the sexual life, however, this point should be this way even if the girl does not wear a belt.
But the most important thing is
"IF YOU THINK THE RIGHT IS WEAR THE BELT, THEN WEAR IT, IF YOU DO THINK THE RIGHT IS DOES NOT WEAR, THEN DOES NOT WEAR IT.

However, as willingly user, I believe that forced use in Western World are hardly believable.

Jen So you tried a belt and liked it and that's why. That's just... Like it's crazy but also completely sensible

In my opinion, if the belt arises bad feeling in the girl, the it should not be used.

Laura

Megan Like a lot of women who we don't hear about when I was young I had 0 sexual experience.
When my mom started encouraging me to spend time with my fiancé things started crazy crazy slow.

Therefore she saved you for marriage. I don't think it's bad.

Angelina

Max9 hun... don't take it personal, but I would habe never guessed that. In your profole oic you look lile you were a few hundred years old. Just kiddding, nah, but seriously. Is it just me or does everybody here seem way more mature as all the others in someones age. I would have guesses you to an age of about 35 to 39

interesting that i thought the same of you. and yes i agree with you, i knew @Ines age but i would have guessed her older too (but more like mid to late 20s) 😂

Ines Anyway, as wearer I usually think that all of them are trolls, but anyway, it is insane sexualize a 12 years old kid.

again, i totally agree with you, but what if there really is a 12 year old girl who needs our help, i don't think it's good to say that all 12 year olds are trolls. there are reasons why i don't believe the story either but to try and pin it down to age is a bit superficial.

Max9

The fetishists are also reason for another danger here. Not only that they post spam in the forum, there also is a danger that some of them (by far not all of course) might be turned on by a child in chastity... you see where it's going? If a pedophile person is turned on by a child in chastity and because of that realizes his or her desires ... then we have belted children in need who might find their way here to the forum and might search for help here within the uwc family.

Ines

Max9 there also is a danger that some of them (by far not all of course) might be turned on by a child in chastity... you see where it's going?

I share Your fears

Angelina

Max9

i agree the risk is there but where do we draw the line, many teenagers (myself included) are looking for contact here to exchange ideas, should we draw the line at a fixed age, then we would disappoint many young girls but protect us from fetishists or should we make it situation dependent. it is very difficult

JonesMacGyver

I don't think we should define a specific age; however, saying "around 12" is too young for sure, might be the best we can say. The way children mature, creating a hard and fast rule should be avoided.

Angelina

JonesMacGyver I don't think we should define a specific age; however, saying "around 12" is too young for sure, might be the best we can say. The way children mature, creating a hard and fast rule should be avoided.

difficult, i would settle for 14 to 16 depending on how believable the story is

Joh I got the same impression that other points doesn't match up.

right, so we should not argue about it too much 😉

Max9 But what to do and where to draw the line. We need to help anybody who is involuntarily beltef and needs support, no matter how old or young this person is. But then we attract pedohpile fetishists by doing so. Also, if we support any belted young girl we also call trolls welcome here.

that's exactly what I mean, a big problem for which I honestly don't see a solution at the moment. 🙁

Vanessa I would tend to think it is a bored man(especially because he used a man account first).

I think so too, but I don't want to exclude any genders. 😉

Max9

Joh But what to do and where to draw the line. We need to help anybody who is involuntarily beltef and needs support, no matter how old or young this person is. But then we attract pedohpile fetishists by doing so. Also, if we support any belted young girl we also call trolls welcome here.

Joh

Max9
I support Curios_101 suggestion. 12 is too young!
Also a good way is talk it out of the parents if the find us.
At our talk with some minors we will see if it a troll or a real situation.
We have people from around the world which can give advice where help can be found at the country where the minor is living.

Max9

Joh I support Curios_101 suggestion. 12 is too young!

Me, too. But what if it's a real person who needs help. I think we should talk to them and motivate them to go to the police.

Jen

Vanessa So,you may accept it more when married?

like what Foxies posts - maybe, depends how damn uncomfortable the thing really is. Won't consider anything like Sara's future.

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