Age to begin

Selin_Weiss

Laura I started 24/7 as teenager - until marriage. My boyfriend was surprised at first - but then liked the concept of keeping me behind lock.

Laura

Selin_Weiss My boyfriend was surprised at first - but then liked the concept of keeping me behind lock.

Father4chastity I learned about CB's from the fact that my wife was kept under chastity by her parents.

Seems I have zero chance to get released if I get married. I will be belted again by husband immediately 😂

Father4chastity

I learned about CB's from the fact that my wife was kept under chastity by her parents. It was very strange at first but got used to the concept and now want my daughters raised the same way.

Lukas

Father4chastity Do you think your daughters will wear the belts voluntarily when they see their mother wearing one? There are multiple people across this forum, me and my sister (who isn't actually on here, but anyways) who don't like wearing their belts, so that might be a difficulty.

Saintprudence

Laura not if you make marriage conditional on your freedom from the belt!

Vanessa

Father4chastity

Welcome!

Selin_Weiss aybe, if the mother is belted too, she can start showing and introducing her belt to the daughter.

It seems that it works often.

Selin_Weiss To get started with her own belt, I recommend soft wearing periods at the beginning.

I agree,a training is very important.

Selin_Weiss Reward her for wearing her belt.

And the mother should make cleaing breaks like having fun in the bathroom together.

Right.It was part of how Ivana acted to convince her daughters to wear chastity belts too.

Laura

Or if she flirts too much?

But she shoud be willing to wear one,not forced.

Selin_Weiss I am 23 now and my contemporary belt was organized by my husband when we got married (with 19).

So you're a "belted wife"?

Selin_Weiss Relationships have more harmony, when the female part is obedient and submits herself completely to her partner. I don't see this as a loss of freedom. It's more a gain in comfort ...

It seems there is less arguments in such relationship,even if I'm not sure it is right.

Father4chastity

They should be way older to start wearing a chastity belt.

Selin_Weiss

I think they should wait a bit more before showing them their mother is wearing a chastity belt.

Father4chastity a forever belt

What is it?

Father4chastity Also not sure if belting both would be better (at the right time) so they can share in the experience or belting the older first would be better.

If you want them to wear it willingly(and I hope you don't plan to force them wear one),it can easily happen that one is ok for it,but not the other one.

Selin_Weiss

Not a bad way,and it convinces them,not force them.

Lukas

I tend to agree with you,it is harder to be prevented to masturbate when we know how good it feels,and even harder about sex.On the other hand,I think knowing at least a bit how her body reacts,what she likes,etc...is no harm for a woman,and,when married,it would be easier for her and her husband to have a fulfiling sexual life.

Selin_Weiss

So,it is like a family tradition?

Laura

😉

However,I'm not sure most men would like it;it would depends a lot of personality;and many may think it is too mediaval for their taste.

Lukas Do you think your daughters will wear the belts voluntarily when they see their mother wearing one?

It seems it is easier for daughters to accept it if their mother wear one too,yes;based on this board and Ivana's posts on Misterpoll.

Saintprudence

Right! 😉

Angelina lots of work for those who read everything 😂

I agree...I spent hours on this board to read and answer today...A bit too much,and not sure I could do it everytime....

Father4chastity

It is way better if it is voluntary.For them and your relationship.

Father4chastity It was introduced to my wife as a punitive measure to keep her out of trouble.

It was the case for me,and it was used as a punishment(mainly for masturbation and having sex)for years before my parents decided to make me wear it permanently.

BikelockFugitive

It is why we should tell him it should be a voluntary choice for them,not being forced to wear it.

Angelina then introduce your girls to the subject slowly and gently, but do not force them to do anything that could damage the relationship

I agree.

Father4chastity

Lukas I would like it to be voluntary out of curiosity certainly. Perhaps it is wishful thinking.

Sara2001

Selin_Weiss Looks like we have a lot in common. Just that you are already married, while I am on my way to it

Selin_Weiss

Sara2001 Looks like we have a lot in common. Just that you are already married, while I am on my way to it

I am also from Germany and started with belts quite early. However, I got my first high quality belt only at the age of 19. The ones before were not bad, but did not have the same level like My-Steel.

Schön, von dir zu hören.

Laura

Saintprudence No, I'm fine, but thoughts that men are not interested in this

Erik

Selin_Weiss My parents belted me at the age of 14, and I think that this was a good decision.

You should start softly. Maybe, if the mother is belted too, she can start showing and introducing her belt to the daughter. Describe it as a symbol for getting mature and becoming a big girl ...

Emphasize the belt's beauty, try to get her curious.

To get started with her own belt, I recommend soft wearing periods at the beginning.

Maybe 1 - 2 hours a day for four weeks. Then increased by 15 min per day.

Reward her for wearing her belt.

And the mother should make cleaing breaks like having fun in the bathroom together.

With a soft approach, you daughter will become proud of being belted. Like myself ...

Will she get a MySteel?

I'm not over exiting in any case.

Typically, they leave certain marks deliberately (sometimes) so that I could recognise them. It doesn't seem THAT big. Where it is coming from. E.g the user avatar comes from pinterest. Though it is the exact right image, as they suggest would work best. And where to find a ready made image of someone between 14 and 23 in a chastity belt but the internet?

I still didn't see definite reasons to say they're not. Rather, I'm experienced enough to say they are. Somehow they seem to be the same people as before.

Momentarily, somewhere else I sort of had them. Because it seemed to be the same people so far maybe this is tiring to them. This sort of stands out. Having to switch, suddenly. Or they know I would/ could say what I think. //edit//They wouldn't seem that professional.//edit//

My basic attitude solely in contact, locally, on the spot, in conversation, is that it is mainly a burden. And I don't significantly know them in any other way.

They act very confronting and if they do I simply weed them out. Like here. To be more specific, saying something like that, though comparatively if they would not be those people, it wouldn't do anything to them. In the end at least it wouldn't.

//edit//

To be more specific, saying something like that, though comparatively if they would not be those people, it wouldn't do anything to them. In the end at least it wouldn't.

They tend to act upon what I would say here (and after that, do what they really wanted to do). So I must sort of watch what I say in that sense.

Typically, their "best choice" at this point, after this, is to become "tiring". First to others and in a certain way and probably quite audacious. Unless I say it. They could no longer do it effectively.

Selin_Weiss

Erik I never published my photos on pinterest, but had a TUMBLR page. This site is deactivated now, but you still may find some photos I shared in the past. I also contributed to the German page kgforum.org.

So, I'm not unknown to the internet.

Sara2001

Father4chastity Hi and welcome. I would love to know how long your wife is belted now and how long she is wearing the tightbands and the bra. I will continue wearing belt and bra during my marriage, too, so this is very interesting for me. Did she get fully used to it?

May I ask how often she is released for more then cleaning?

Father4chastity

Sara2001 Hello and thank you for the message. My wife has been belted for the duration of our marriage. She has been in bra and tightbands consistently for the past several years. Before then, I only used intermittently. She did not care much for them at first, particularly the bra, but did get used to them over time. I do not release very often---usually monthly at most (other than cleaning) as I simply prefer it that way. No set schedule. She was belted only before marriage so she knew that would continue on an ongoing basis.

Angelina

Selin_Weiss Also: Relationships have more harmony, when the female part is obedient and submits herself completely to her partner. I don't see this as a loss of freedom. It's more a gain in comfort ...

this reminds me somehow completely of @Sara2001 🙂

Father4chastity My girls are 12 and 11

this is in my opinion very young, maybe too young. if there is no concrete reason I would wait for the next 2 years and then decide

PS: i was only 5 hours away and now i see 35 new posts in this topic 😮 if this continues i will have to ignore this topic because i can't read and write so fast 🤣

Laura

Angelina i was only 5 hours away and now i see 35 new posts in this topic

Because it contains many new things to discuss

Father4chastity

Angelina Thank you for the message. I am not necessarily planning on belting now but want to have it planned out in advance, depending of course on their maturity.

Angelina

Laura

it seems so 😉

good for the forum, lots of work for those who read everything 😂

Renita

Selin_Weiss I never published my photos on pinterest, but had a TUMBLR page.

Red haired girl?

HHelen

Father4chastity . I am a father of two girls and definitely want them to be in chastity when the time is right.

Glad to see one more parent here.

Father4chastity

HHelen Hi there, thank you for the welcome. Good to know there are others on this board like me.

Sara2001

Father4chastity My wife has been belted for the duration of our marriage.

How long is this 🙂 I will be belted my full marriage, too. Same as my mother and my mother in law.

Father4chastity She did not care much for them at first, particularly the bra, but did get used to them over time.

Really, that gives me hope that once I will get used to my equipment, too. I expected she would have more trouble with the tightbands.

Thank you for your answers. It is very interesting to read about others in a similar situation or in a situation that could be my future.

BikelockFugitive

Father4chastity Obligatory reminder that what you are planning to do is considered illegal in many parts of the world and if you get caught you either will go to jail or lose custody of your children, if not both.

Also the rest of this forum should somewhat hold back, as depending on the country helping him might be a crime itself. It's really farfetched, but really I think this forum should rather give advice to already belted people and parents who already belted their children. That way we would be on the safe side.
I really need to start a topic about this...

Angelina

Father4chastity depending of course on their maturity.

right decision 🙂

Father4chastity . I would rather be positive and fun about it with my girls.

then introduce your girls to the subject slowly and gently, but do not force them to do anything that could damage the relationship

BikelockFugitive

you are right, but I think this is more than just law and order, it is mainly about family ties and conflicts 🙂

BikelockFugitive

Right, I almost forgot it's your job here 😉

Sara2001

Selin_Weiss From what you wrote I think you maybe live in a male led relationship, too. Am I right? If so, I would love to know about your relationship as much as you like to express. May I ask how often you get out of the belt for "playing"? Do you wear anything else then the belt, like a chastity bra or tightbands?

Father4chastity

Selin_Weiss We have talked about sex some with them. I was hesitant to show the belt at the time because of their age. But, I do tend to think after reading yours and other comments that it may be good to introduce it by showing mom's belt and how proud I am of their mom for being good and wearing it. Perhaps also like you said make it playful for them in their interaction with my wife. My wife was introduced when she was 15 and has told me that she probably needed it early because of major issues she had with sex and masturbation before then, hence why I am concerned about waiting that long. It was introduced to my wife as a punitive measure to keep her out of trouble. I would rather be positive and fun about it with my girls.

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